Narcissistic Mother is Jealous of Her Daughter's Beauty

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chapters
00:00 introduction
02:37 1.She isolates you from the family
06:50 2.She can't see you stepping into womanhood
08:46 Shocking clip Reaction !
13:22 3.She steals your Partners
15:29 The conclusion

CREDITS Movie Clip:
TM & © Paramount (1981)
Cast: Faye Dunaway, Mara Hobel Director: Frank Perry
Producers: Neil A. Machlis, Frank Yablans Screenwriters: Christina Crawford, Tracy Hotchner, Robert Getchell, Frank Yablans, Frank Perry

[sues]

A narcissistic mother destroys her family. My husbands mother is a covert narcissist and she has done great damage. They are evil people. We went no contact years ago.

[thuson]

I woke up at the age of 40, realizing my "victim" mom is actually a covert narcissist

[mrs.salazar]

My narcissistic mom became more physically abusive when I became a teen. She constantly accused me of promiscuity among other things. All I did was homework, sports, attend school and take care of my younger siblings ( helped them with homework, baths, cooked dinner, clean the house...)! I was run ragged and only able to sleep 4 hours a night.
I have gone no contact, so she cannot do the same to my children.

[rohinichitalia]

I had a narcissist mother. She passed away. She made my life a hell. To get away from her I landed with a narcissist husband where the same pattern continued.

[glendaruiz]

My narcissistic mother has been my number one enemy from day 1, she's the one who has destroyed my life, by the time you realize what is happening is already too late because she has done so much harm that it can't be repaired, I'm so glad I went no contact, i don't miss her at all, all she gave me was hell!

[bonnieblood]

My mother was extremely jealous of me. It made her angry when I was a baby, when my dad would come home from work, and he would ask where his baby girl was. She told me in the most scathing way how he would ask for me and kiss me before hugging and kissing her. She totally hated my guts. She would humiliate and embarrass me in front of other people, and scared all my friends by beating me in front of them. She is no longer alive. I don't miss her.

[privateprivate]

And the problem isn’t just in the sickness. But in the support of outside enablers that, even if they saw this happening to you, they’d say, “But that’s your mother [case closed with you in it]”.

[_Renee]

It took me years to understand why mom would compare the most mundane things. As if everything was a competition. It took my friend Emelda to point out that my mom’s behavior towards me dating was abnormal, in her words, it was as if my mom wanted me all to herself. Yet, my mom didn't even like me and informed me of such every chance she got.

[a.y.]

Mommie Dearest is a classic example of Female narcissism and Faye Dunaway nailed NPD down. I’ve had narcs swim around like piranhas in my life, but I am so grateful not to have a Narcissist Mother, that’s a special kind of evil. Much love to those who endure. ❤️

[theartzscientist]

My mom admitted her abuse right before she died. She knew she was going to die soon. I asked her that if I prayed for her to get well, would she do it again? She said “YES”! My Dad saw her admit the abuse but continued to tell me to forgive her and move on. When she passed, I wasn’t sad. I stopped speaking to my Dad also. He treats me terrible to this day, as if I am a child. Then, I married a narc for 20 years. My entire life was spent with evil. I’m very close to God today and see this behavior in a lot of people today. It’s rare to find someone who doesn’t have narcissism.

[hautecouture]

When my narc mother got old and started developing Alzheimers her envy was on full show. She would look at me and start crying- You are so beautiful and I am so wrinkled. Maybe if we go out together at least people will notice me when I stand next to you. Before that she used to hide her envy so it was so shocking to me to hear it

[ladyofthecreek]

So true. My mother was so jealous of the relationship I had with my dad, she accused ME of having a se*ual relationship with him. I asked God why my mother hated me, I got the word "jealousy". Of course, there were decades of narc behavior. It didn't end well for her. Thank you for addressing this.

[blue-echo]

I cried hearing this😢 I thought my mother loved me and was telling me that I look like garbage because it was true. Found out She was envious of me. She isolated me, choose my clothes and threatened me, and months before my wedding she physically hurt me and injured me. 😢 I am in a different country now.

[tiffanysneed]

Everything you've said literally happened to me. She even cut off all of my hair. She isolated me from my family and friends with lies. When I had children she tried to get them taken away time and time again, but it never worked. She tried to even slept with my children's father (who is also a narcissist). I survived and now am thriving and it kills her. She is getting old and time is almost over for her. She is sick and karma is catching up with her I assume because I have no contact with her or anyone else in the family. My children are my only family and my only concern. When I think about it she actually did me a favor because anyone who believes her never really loved me or had my best interest anyway. And now my life is so peaceful especially since I have the blueprint of what kind of people not to have in my life. To everyone going through this stay strong, vigilant, and optimistic. It will get better. You will have better days ahead just keep waking up and keep learning more about this so that you can have a better understand about how to deal with it and heal.

[TreasureDeal]

So many things you've said I relate to. Everyone always said I was a pretty child. I was never told by my mother that I was pretty. I was told "you look ok/nice". I didn't realize I was pretty until I was in my 30's. My sister was the troubled child, I was invisible and the youngest..the golden child...the wanted...boy could do no wrong. I still have to work on my insecurities. It still hurts.

[rekindlelifefoundation]

I am the scapegoat child of my covert narcissistic mother and I can say that you're right in so many ways. She made me feel guilty to succeed or make any form of progress for so many years.

[prashantiyoga]

I have recently cut my covert narcissistic mother.... A glaring red flag was watching her reaction to my teen daughter, who was checking herself out in the mirror, and was clearly self satisfied. My mother was DEEPLY triggered by this, and started hissing and spitting about it to me. Like I wouldn't want my beautiful girl to see and recognize her own beauty.
I just can't believe it has taken me 40 years to realize what on earth was wrong with my mother. I married a narcissistic man, and pulled myself out of that over a decade ago. I educated myself on narcissism, so I wouldn't make the same mistake again. But I didn't see what was under my nose. Her mother and sister are both narcissists too, but I couldn't see it in her. Until I REALLY saw it, and now it cannot be unseen.

[tomkumh]

👍 Very True. I had Narcissistic Parents, but also a Narcissistic Mother, who was very hostile to me and Extremely Jeleous of me. As a child I felt that my mother hated me, but I didn't know and didn't understand Why. She treated me so Awful 😢 and as a child I didn't know if I survive and Stay Alive until the age of 18. My mother Encouraged my father to hit me Brutally. She Used to complain to him about me, regarding things that I didn't know why she was complaining about me, because I was a quiet and Obidiant, Scary child. The more I Grew up, the more I suffered Hell from my mother and my father as well. Both my parents were Narcissists 😢. I was always Isolated with No friends. Never allowed to have Any friends. My mother always Smeared me !! behind my back in front of my Other Family Members, as a child I didn't know why she was behaving like that 😢 . I have never got married and I don't have kids. It is hard for me to see the film: "Mummy Dearest" because 😢🥺 I see my mother. But I also had a Violent father if it wasn't enough. This film Mummy Dearest is an Excellent Film. It shows the Awful, Horrible Reality Some Children are forced to live, in a Daily, Constant battle to survive and Stay Alive. Efrat.

[joinaletyere]

My narcissistic mother was jealous of me with my father. When I was a child if my father was holding my hand she used to say to my father: You should not walk holding hands with her, looks like she is your wife and not me!
To me this was so crazy! I was just a child and my father, was my father! And the worse is that I grow up and married an cruel narcissist! How can someone have so bad luck like me? I ask God what I did to deserve this...

[Love]

I can relate to so much of this. My narcissistic mother never complimented me, she told me I needed to wear more makeup. One time I asked her to trim my hair and she cut big chunks out of the sides and I was too scared of her to even say anything, I just had to use a bunch of clips to pin it all up until it eventually grew back out. I felt so insecure my whole life and It took me a long time to not feel like I was ugly. Now I’m learning to love me how I naturally am. Thank you for this video, it makes me feel seen and heard ❤