With narcissists, everything is your fault

with narcissists everything is your fault they will rarely if ever, accept any type of accountability for any of their actions.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[Lillikoi-]

My mom does this to me. Why do narcissists compete- jealous with their kids? Their own flesh and blood?!

[aphotic_grae]

"Why would they change or take accountability if they don't have to?" So true. They have no incentive to change when blaming the other person is easier and much more satisfying.

[akoczurshaw]

Literally, the same ass "textbook situation" occurred 24 hours ago (as always). Man, I wonder just how many times I'll allow myself to deal with this hurtful behavior

[emmarae]

They blame you for the relationship ending and not their abuse.😢

[Saylerk]

The first time it happened, I was like, this MF is nuts! It's a very strange way to live. 6 months I left...crazy, crazy, crazy

[gennacalvaresi]

So I started giving my mother a dose of her own medicine in the past 6 months and it was hard at first but I broke her down a lil bit. She stopped talking down to me. She will never change, she is still the same person but she cant get to me anymore. And i love being free from her nastyness thanks so much!!! ❤

[Lillikoi-]

Every year that I put up with it, or leave for a year or two or more and come back, it gets worse. It gets worse every interaction that’s toxic and I take it. You do teach people how to treat you.

[natew.]

Omg the skit in the beginning was a conversation I've had so many times and brought up so many emotions and feelings

[BreezyBangtan]

I remember my ex got a ticket from the police and he blamed me because he was on his way to come see me when he got it lmao and thats the least ridiculous thing he blamed me for

[IMTinaMarieJ]

My stbx husband and I split 9 months ago & he STILL blames me for things in his life NOW. This guy will really NEVER learn to take accountability. I just can’t see him ever facing the truth & seeking real help. Idc at this point what he blames me for anymore

[jbonesjessica]

"You destroyed your relationship". Idc, say what you want, make me the villain, as long as ur gone.

[DEmpathTarot]

I couldn't believe he freaked out the other day and what I mean is, he turned into that monster. I was heart broken. It's nothing I can do any more. I just wish him the best and love from afar❤

[vwilson]

Yes, it sucks to hear that. I just always hoped that there would be some kind of change, humanity or rather empathy in there to say “hey, this was wrong; I need to seek help; I can stop, etc.” what’s bad is that mine had self-discipline & self-control in sooo many areas, accept for when it came to me. It’s insane. I do understand the shame & not wanting to face it… but still maaann! I would say he should’ve just left a long time ago… but I put that blame on myself- I should’ve left a long time ago.

[axeltank]

Thanks for your content. One of the questions I ask myself regularly when deciding to stay or go with my wife of 20 years: Do I want to apologize for everything for the rest of my life? Seriously if she had a superpower, it would be "victim".

[GoodnightM]

This is so very true and heartbreaking

[lasurfette]

When I discovered my ex was cheating on me, he said: “You drove me to it.” 🤦‍♀️

[carlitavega]

Your skits with yourself tickle me so much. 🤭 They are spot on.

[Ravensidentity]

I had an old childhood friend I grew up with and he admitted to having a scenario like this with his girlfriend and it wasn't surprising because he had anger problems and we both knew it.

I had to let him go because everything was just too much. His girlfriend thought I wanted to be with him when the whole time I was rooting for her to leave.

Suddenly realized it would be better if I left. It was very rough for various reasons, but I'm glad I walked away from the toxicity.

[Ombudsman-jgmn]

Yes, your skits are triggering. It just brings back memories and brings awareness and validation for those who have experienced this.

[charlenedeshazier]

Omg my baby daddy said the same exact thing!!!! He’s been stressed because we’re getting ready to have a baby & he literally said verbatim that I make him this way & bring the worst out of him!!!