How a Christian Man SHOULD Pursue a Christian Woman #ChristianDating

How Christians SHOULD Date For A Healthy And Happy Marriage | Part 1

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[ashleysanders]

I cannot express how discouraged I am about dating right now. It seems like no one cares anymore, or are afraid of commitment.

[anthonym.]

I just met a woman about a month ago and I believe she’s the woman that God has for me. I’ve been very open, honest and clear about my intentions. That is one of the things that she likes the most about me. I just told her yesterday that she’s the woman that I’m going marry and look in her eyes was of pure joy. God is good. She is such a godly woman. She puts the Lord first in her life. She has all the fruits of the spirit. She’s patient, understanding, kind, gentle, submissive, and everything just clicks between us.

[loveoneanother]

I don't ever want to see other people. If I am pursuing a woman, I am only pursuing that woman and nobody else.

[bendelaughter]

I was very intentional and up front on our first date, and my wife says she loved it.

[blahblahblah]

Why don't people go old school and court? Courting doesn't mean sexual attraction right away. You are literally friends getting to know each other. Be honest in saying if you get into a relationship, it's for marriage. Courting is NOT a relationship. There's been many times I've wanted to court people to know their personality but refused because I knew they'd automatically think it was being a girlfriend. I wish we'd bring back the idea of pure, innocent, courting.

[kaylahood]

I haven't met a man who is really intentional about me. I have never been married before or even be proposed to. Because all people care about is just looks and not getting to know anyone. Plus I'm different I know I am. You won't find me twerking or wearing clothes that reveals everything. I get passed up just because I am not doing what is popular. And the men who are interested in me they say they are a Christian until I bring up that I am waiting until marriage it's a problem. Make having standards, respect, morals popular.I haven't had the experience of being courted. :)

[poojasoneja]

No one has ever been intentional with me in my 29 years. I get discouraged all the time and yet I hear the Lord's voice to trust in Him💞

[GodLovesYouAllTheTime]

Y’all know what’s crazy, if you’re automatically an attractive woman, men literally rush you into the sexual scene. They don’t know how to control their urges. It’s automatically “I want you”. They don’t even care about my brain, or anything. Just getting in between those sheets. I’ve been celibate for some years, and a men will totally act interested, but a few months down the line and they try to have sex with me and I say no…the text messages stop. The phone calls stop. The hanging out, going on walks or coffee outings stop.

I’m tired of this whole scene all together. I’m married to Jesus Christ at this point.

[CharletteLovesJESUS]

And let all the holy women and men say

[estarriknight]

I’m so discouraged too and I don’t feel beautiful because no man who loves God seems to even consider me unless he’s basically desperate.

[JoseSantos-vnnt]

This is to protect our heart as men too! Trust me, I learned my lesson although God was merciful Proverbs 4:23.

[lhcarter]

Ladies, remember you only need one good man. God may be keeping the bad ones away from you, which you may interpret as “ what’s wrong with me?” Better to wait for God to bring you the right man, while you work on being the best woman you can be. When I was looking for a husband a dear sister advised me, “God will bring you the man you are prepared for”. Which turned out to be right. I had some preparing to do until I met my husband of 30 years. 😇

[cordovanhobbyist]

What if you've never dated? Not even once? What should you do? I'm genuinely curious because I'm ignorant.

[KisuGlory]

I Hope My Future Husband Sees This. 🙏🙏

[misterrevealator]

I'm 40. I know exactly what I want in a woman. The problem is that there is so much nonsense in the world today that there's very few good Christian women out there. I don't want a woman that claims to be a Christian and then tries to sleep with me before we are married. There's a giant red flag there!

[shebrownsuga]

Aww. Alan's wife

.. She's so pretty.

[hg]

Men need to listen to him. I drop guys for this exact behaviour. Stringing women along and not knowing what they want.

[lincolnadams]

Dating on the other side of divorce...is a whole LOT different than 20 years ago as a single person. In short... whatever you thought you knew, through it out.

You can have all of the attributes that she finds attractive, give her space, don't give her space...be upfront with intentions, develop a safe friendship...it's all relative to her experience and healing or lack there of.

[LovettbalngoodsLLC]

⁠seem like people blaming on theses comments. Saying we don’t deserve to be with a good man etc? Most people want nowadays is a hook up. I don’t have to be traditional to deserve commitment! We not living in the BC anymore. It it does seem like most men and women to be Honest is trying to date and go to bed with each other or be a side piece even the married men trying to be out and around. They not even faithful to their own partners.

[Starnerve]

A lot of men nowadays are either gay, have high standards, deceitful, hateful, and non-committal. The ones who are kind loving and try to keep God’s commandments are either in a relationship or they can’t/don’t want to have a relationship. At this point I keep believing that I’ll never find a man who will ever love me, flaws and all. I feel like I’m living in a hopeless generation where people value their opinions more than God’s truth and will attack anyone who follows Him.

That said, I guess it’s better to be alone. At least I can rely on the Lord to guard my heart instead of a man who’s only going to break it in the end. To those who found love, consider yourselves blessed. 😊