5 THINGS CHRISTIAN MEN NEED TO STOP DOING...NOW!

There are some things that Christian men just need to STOP doing. I'm just going to put it bluntly. Men, if you are guilty of any of these 5, I encourage you to seek God to help you stop. Many of the things that I talk about in this video are characteristics of WORLDLY men and not GODLY men.

If we want to be more like Christ, we as men need to align our character after His and ask ourselves, "Would Christ be doing this?" So, take a look at this video and let me know in the comments (if you are bold enough) which one(s) you may be struggling with at this point in your life.

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[thebeatagp]

Hey BEAT family! Today, we focus on THE BROTHERS! Men, here are 5 things, as your online pastor (ha...since y'all call me pastor Parr anyway) I encourage you to stop doing. Which one(s) of these do you struggle with currently? On Friday we will come back and focus on the women. Enjoy!

[TheDavisFactor]

Christian men need to stop cussing. That goes for me as well. When I get really angry they just fly out of my mouth. That's something I need to pray about.

[joshuadarcher]

Thank you posting. My wife recently was led by the spirit to look into my social media and dms. She found inappropriate things, likes and flirtatious comments. She then said to me, you tell yourself that you have never cheated but in God’s eyes you have committed adultery!” This broke me to the core. I have since got rid of that social media and I am taking steps to clean up everything. Pray for our marriage and for me to continue in my repentance. Thank you 🙏🏽 and to God be the glory.

[aocnetwork]

This needed to be said! Great message. As far as finding value in things/accomplishments…yes it’s a very slippery slope. Everything in this life is hanging by a thread.. so true value is in our Eternal relationship with God.

[ryanjackson]

to the 7 people who gave this video a thumbs down, may the Holy Spirit convict you deeply, this is wisdom right here !!!

[Gottalovenasia]

Yes, I’m excited to hear the Christian women version!

[ucytgutta]

This is crazy!! I’m a personal trainer, and there are women I follow that post pics that aren’t overly sexual but boarder line. This morning a women posted a pic. I’m not attracted to her at all, so I was gonna like it to give her encouragement. But I felt convicted by the Holy Spirit not to like it. And now this video comes up! I was also delivered later today from demons of anxiety and fear which tormented me as a child. I know I’m delivered!Brothers and sisters of Christ, please keep me in your prayers!

[marty]

I can relate to when you talked about stopping porn, that stuff is poison and very dangerous, it almost killed me last year, the Lord took me through a cleansing or a deliverance as some people call it, it was ugly, now I'm completely free from porn.

[kawannadixon]

Anyone who is still addicted to porn is definitely not ready for marriage PERIOD!
Please ask God to help you and deliver you 🙏🏾🙌❤

[Andrew-cpki]

Current streak with no porn was 14 days, broke it last night. This video came in just in time. I know the Lord is pulling me out, but even when verses come up, I still fail. I think I need to be praying more.

[ashishishwardan]

I am Indian Christian pray for me....I struggle with sexual sins love please pray for me....

[craftedeyecandies]

Also, when men hit the like on racy photos it encourages that woman to keep doing what she's doing. Too many women's self worth is based on what people think of their appearance, and in the end it only builds a negative reputation, not her character or healthy self esteem.

[trueheart]

# 5 is HUGE!! Too many women leading and men are ok with this!! For women it’s exhausting and causes bitterness. Not enough pastors teaching on this.
Great list, brother!!

[michaelberry]

Regarding domestic duties - I'm a man who is a full-time housekeeper. This job wears me out like nothing else I've ever done. A brother who's even stronger than me told me something similar. Guys, if your wife is a stay-at-home mom, give her all of the domestic help you can!

[jackbreeze]

I'm not married but when a guy saw me doing my laundry he said, "She makes you do that?!" And looked surprised as if men shouldn't do laundry.

[jamesrobinson]

1. Inappropriate actions with women
2. Porn
3. Passive leading
4. Misleading women
5. Finding purpose in posessions

This is powerful. Thank you Pastor! Also, we as man have to stop competing with each other in the body. Support and unity are essential

[stephenkarla]

Husband's wear your wedding band. I've heard my husband say he couldn't wear his wedding band because of his work. Wear it when your out in public around other women. Its very hurtful to a wife when she sees you not only don't wear it at work but you also don't wear it after work. and I found it disrespectful to me as his wife.

[myownsalmon]

I think the greatest conviction from this video are points 4 and 5. I was introduced to porn and I mean the worst of it by relatives and close friends at around 7 years old, and it became an addiction early on. I've made a lot of progress since but it's been a battle. And while I do my best to provide for our household, spiritually i'm inconsistent and it pains me to see the effects of that on my wife and our marriage. If you're reading this, please pray for me. I want to be a better example for those around me to know God is real, and holiness is livable. But it has to start with me first. God bless.

[thegospellens]

Great video Pastor Allen! I was guilty of watching porn and being a passive leader. Jesus has a done a huge transformation in my life and now I’m devoted to serving him and advancing the Kingdom

[jessielynn]

Yes! I’m at stay at home mom right now and I’m finding this job so much tougher than my 9-5. I’m exhausted by the end of the day just trying to keep it all together and every day there’s something that didn’t get done. Thanks for acknowledging stay at home moms because it is a thankless job that is not valued very much in society. You bust your butt all day just for hubby to come home and say, “So what y’all been doing today? Just chillin?” Ugh!