Core Essentials for a Christian Marriage

Marriage is a HUGE decision for Christians to make! In this video, we discuss 5 core essentials that every Christian should look for in a potential spouse.

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0:00 Introduction
0:42 Physical Attraction
3:02 Emotional Connection
4:24 Spiritual Maturity
6:24 Common Values
8:15 Grounded Character

[deividaskoncius]

Don’t marry the potential, marry the the person which they trully are. Gold!

[Masowe.]

I married my husband in 2018, i was 18 he was 20 both virgins. We both became dedicated Christians without baptism since our parents believed in child baptism. Now we have one of the best marriages and love our daughter so much. We talk about Jesus Christ everyday even if it's just in prayer. When one falls, the other is there and we are teaching our daughter to wait for prayer before we get eating despite her being 1year old and now she waits for us to sit and pray before she starts crying for food. If i knew that being a virgin was not shameful to the extend i know it now, i would have told anyone about it and inspired some more people. May the lord help everyone looking for a marriage to have one like mine in Jesus' name
AMEN

[folakolmedia]

Summary for quick reference:

1. Physical Attraction[1 Cor 7:3-5]
2. Emotional Connection/Maturity[Prov 18: 24]
3. Spiritual Maturity [Heb 5: 12-14]
4. Common Values[Eph 2: 10]
5. Grounded Chararcter[1 Tim 5:8]
No perfect relationship, every one cane grow and become better. However, make sure your core values align, and that you do not marry what they could become, but who they currently reveal themselves as. ✌️

[FreyaRagnild]

I wish I would have seen this years ago. My 23 yr old husband who claimed to be a mature Christian left my daughter & I 2 days before Christmas... the heartbreak has been UNREAL. I saw him for his potential and thought I was a strong enough Christian to lead him to Christ. Since leaving he's pursued a life of partying, drugs, gaming, & another woman who is a pedophile... after months of being blocked I reached out trying to make it work and failed- this vid was the answer to many many prayers if letting him go is the right thing to do. Please pray for Grant that he will turn back to God. As of me, I'm happily married to God and find joy & satisfaction in serving Him & His amazing promises.

[maximarosen]

Dont be unequally yoked... I married before I was following Jesus and trying to navigate being tied to someone who hates my desire to seek God...is...so...difficult. Lord help those unmarried to be patient and wait on your plan while seeking your face! Also please help those of us married to unbelievers to suffer for Christ in a quiet way that represents Him correctly so that our spouses too may be filled with the Holy Spirit according to Your perfect time Father!

[ryugujiken]

Here's the biggest point - GOD HAS YOUR HUSBAND/WIFE! If you ever get discouraged, just remember God has your perfect match for you. Every time you think about marriage, pray for your future husband/wife! I do this. I haven't met him yet, but I know God will bring us together at the perfect time. So in the meantime, I will better myself, walk in my walk, and our paths will merge somewhere down the line. I hope and pray that he does the same.

[vanshikaandriyas]

I'll be turning 20 soon and now i've started to dawn upon these big things like marriage, children, job and education. My parents don't have a good marriage or bond due to past baggage but i want to have a godly marriage that brings love & comfort to me. Thankyou Your videos are aways helpful.

[bellachan]

You’re drawings are so cute 😊 Thanks for the tips!

[michellesiow]

The end of all videos you say “Jesus loves you”, never failed to make me tear. Thanks for the great videos and gospel sharing💕

[WardofSquid]

This is an extremely valuable lesson. Thank you for sharing this. I pray it blesses single Christians all over the world

[romanstravels]

Just got married on the 27th!!! THANK YOU

[rustyavacado]

The fact the Bible says even Marriages should have consent is so real to me

[isaiahvoss]

I'm not at the age to want to marry but these 5 tips will help me down the road! I have liked different girls who were mostly Christians but they each taught me a lesson that will help me down the road in the future of what to look for in a marriage. Even though the friendships didn't work out but I look at it as growth on my well-being. "Commit your actions to the lord and your plans will succeed"- Proverbs 16:3
I am trying to commit my actions to God now because I haven't been dependent on him although its been in my prayers for a female to come into my life (unless if they're there now) to marry someday who follows God and for who they are!

[carlaalmonte]

Thank you! Very helpful! Im 26 and Im in a waiting season not just for my man of God to arrive but to take advantage of this single season to grow spiritually and mentally in maturity✨

[christianjamesen]

Me and my wife got married before we came into faith, and it's incredible to see how the Lord has been able to use even our weaknesses in our sin while we were unbelievers for his good works. Coming into my faith I recognize where he has protected us from ever being in a point of no return (death, divorce, financial setbacks, etc) and placed believers in our lives to step in through the Holy Spirit to make up for where we've fallen short. Praise be to God with how well he is at having such sovereignty that is often only noticeable in hindsight and how he intricately dances his sovereignty with our free will to do his works.

[rachelsobie_]

Thank you for this. I’m in my early 30s and still waiting for someone who meets all of these. It is frustrating at times but I’m thankful to be growing during this time. 🙏

[loldawg]

This is an interesting take. For years I’ve thought I should ignore attraction and solely focus on spirit and mind. Truly something to think about.

[daniebelle]

Yoooo...you are PREACHING! I'm sharing this with my friends and my pastors. We need this! Thank you! Grace and peace to you!

[yeralinthesalcedo]

I may not be old enough to get married. But this is for my future. Thank you guys for this message! God bless you so much!

[Yoshie]

I honestly believe God brought my wife to me at my job and she saved me from going down the path I was going, which was very bad. We got married after a year of dating and becoming very best friends. God works in mysterious ways, I Love Jesus.🙏🏻💚