How to Let a Christian Guy Know You're Interested: 3 Tips for Christian Girls

Is there anything a Christian girl can do except wait to be found? How can a Christian girl let a guy know that she's interested in him without "pursuing him" or looking desperate? Here are three tips:

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[gabriellebudd]

I once had a crush on a choir director so did all the other women in the church he was a widowed handsome man he played the piano like nobody else could he sang Christian songs and even preached at times in place of our pastor. he was always friendly at the door is people were leaving and he would shake my hand reel tight look in my eyes and say it was so good to see you today and I thought he liked me the way he shook my hand with meaningful gesture being a very shy and humble person I am and I considered myself at least attractive I had confidence in myself in that way so I was bold enough to ask him if he would like to take the opportunity to go to a concert with me I had two free tickets. he suddenly said he was sorry that I should just ask somebody else in place of him. oh my goodness that was such a let-down I was never so embarrassed. I guess my crush just went right down the tubes. so I decided never to try to date someone at church. I believe men and women want to meet a good Christian values person of worth and it's very difficult to cross that line at church. so how is someone to meet someone if they are Christians and can't find the right person at church. I later knew that God was protecting me. I found out he was having an affair with a married woman. never put any man or woman on a pedestal until you really know who they are the only one that should be on a pedestal is Jesus Christ he is perfect

[andrelordello]

I think Isaac and Rebecca give us a great tip about how a woman should approach a man. In the Bible you don't see Rebecca going after any man. She wasn't anxious about that, she was just working and the blessing came to her. I think trusting God is the key to get the right guy for a Cristian woman! Great video!

[jinnrish]

Simply follow the Holy Spirit rather than your feelings. He'll convict you of what you should or should not do. Because if the desire you have for someone comes from the Lord, the Lord will do the work. What I mean here is you don't have to appear desperate because Abba will provide a way. It won't bother you if that person likes someone else. Because your security comes from the Lord. He is enough, our bridegroom, and our everything.

[Guigley]

I agree that men should do the pursuing. But ladies, telling men they need to "man up" and "step up" will absolutely not help. Instead of assuming the worst - that we are cowards and weaklings - please try to understand that we are just as fallen, broken and in need of understanding as you. We need grace as much as you. And grace is really attractive.

[metashaelbalbin]

1. Talks to them a lot more than you talk to other people.
2. Encourage them.
3. Use the power of invitation. Invite him to spend more time with you but not in an obvious way. 😂

1. Don't tell him directly but giving him signs how you feel about him.

[childofgodyehovah]

Ruth put her best clothes and perfume on... she put herself in a position whereby Boaz knew that she was available and desired Him as a husband😁👌☺️💕...she then waited to see how he responded...🙏🏻❤️

[evelyncalderondelcid]

If it’s Gods will it will happen, regardless things will flow so naturally :)

[valorandstrength]

My friend had a crush on a guy for years—finally she told him her feelings. They are in a relationship. So while I can see guys’ wanting to “take the lead, ” I think sometimes being upfront is refreshing. Ruth is an example for me.

[Real_Reven]

"Encouragement is biblically flirting" 😂😅

[JohnnyAllen_]

As a dude I can verify everything that was said is spot on. If any of this is too complicated, just throw some more smiles his way when you're talking. If he's at all interested in you, thats only gonna make him like you more.

[divinediva_]

I truly laughed at the first point because guys love to assume you like them even when you're just being friendly. I actually have to not smile as much when interacting with the opposite sex because I'm generally a friendly person. I even have to temper myself when it comes to encouraging males because it comes naturally to encourage others. Too many men are not pursuing women for fear of rejection.

[gee]

I cannot believe how I was out of track before watching this video!😨 I am literally doing all these things with the guys I don't like and completely the opposite towards the guys I like. That's why they never approach even if they seem that they notice me. I can't believe it. Thank a lot for these words of wisdom and advices. God bless you

[faithandflavor]

“I enjoy small talk with my wife....that’s because I want my wife to like me” 😆😂 that made me laugh

[EbonyCOliver]

I did the blunt approach once after a few years of confusion. He gave both vibes (friendship and romantic). I needed closure to the confusion. He eventually let me know he was interested but decided he wasn’t interested in me romantically anymore. It was good for me so that I could move on.

[s.a.]

Many people choose someone, they prefer or 'think' might be a good choice and then ask the lord to make it work. Whoever, we end up with, we should be confidant that it was his choice for us, not our own, which is why it is important to receive confirmation from the lord. When we give God the option to choose our spouses, he is mindful of our needs and our expectations as long as they align with his will. The more we understand and accept how much we're loved by God, the easier it gets to patiently wait and trust his timing.

[EatMyKos]

Thanks Mark, I really needed to hear this. I caught up with a girl, had an amazing time with her. She extended an invite to me the next day which I accepted, and then when I saw her another time I got really nervous and overwhelmed around her and got attacked horribly by the enemy by past hurt in opening my heart up. I just felt in my own head that it was moving so quickly out of nowhere. She even asked me a week beforehand that she wanted to catch up with me, but I was busy at the time, but this planted a seed in my heart and started to think of her more than just a church friend.

Now I desire to pursue her by getting to know her more, but not being too direct too quickly, might take a couple of days to pray over this and ask God to give me the capacity to love her as Christ loves me.

[JennyLynnMinistries]

Guys need to start stepping up and pursuing women. Thats the Godly way!

[jennyapon]

I told his sister (my friend) I liked her brother, and she told him I had feelings for him. He was already showing me signs, and she told him to pursue me if he felt something back and he did :))

[linafigueroaxoxo]

This makes me so happy becuz i was doing all of these points without even knowing it was the right way and he's definitely interested and responding well... we've developed a great steady friendship within romantic interest... iit feels good and led by the Spirit... thanx Mark Ford confirming what the Lord was already doing in my life!

[RenewalCreations]

Yes, but I also recommend either letting things grow like you would with any other friendship in the body, and also spend some times praying about the guy you are interested in and asking God if it his will to open his eyes, in the meantime spending time adoring the Lord and loving others. Because he will be more attracted to the fruit of a godly woman.