Red Flags in Christian Dating That Should Make You RUN 🚩

Red flags in Christian Dating can be hard to spot. Christian relationships are designed for two people to encourage each other to walk better with Christ and to selflessly love each other, even when it's hard. These are some red flags that might show you that the person you're dating might not be what you're looking for. If your significant other struggles with one or more of these, talk to them about it. If they don't take things seriously, it might be time to run!

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[KaneLivesAgain]

Don't pray for the right one. Pray to BE the right one

[carismacatalyst]

"Be a man with a plan"

Excellent message all together.
Thank you you two!

[SonOfLiberty]

Going to church is a good thing and should be encouraged, however using the frequency of church attendance as a measure of someone's dedication to their faith is unfair and inaccurate. How about do they frequently study the bible? Pay attention to biblical content? Seek a biblical worldview? Do you see them applying biblical concepts in their every day life? Are they shedding sin? If it is a man, do you see them becoming a good potential biblical leader of a future household? I would say someone who goes to church multiple times a week, but doesn't carry Christ in their heart and doesn't seek to apply their faith in their life is the worst choice.

[jg]

As someone who isn't Christian, my main takeaways from this are mostly:
1. Be aligned spiritually. 2. Make sure the guy is being direct and intentional with how they spend their time and value their date/partner in various social situations. (includes Social media usage/ability to stay present in the moment) 3. Align on visions for life (i.e plans for children etc.) 4. Mutual respect and effort towards making a relationship work and being on track towards commitment.

[faeyi]

Initiating the conversation about faith with someone who isn’t interested in talking about it has to be the HARDEST thing ever 😭 NEVER again!!

[ukemnsp]

Dude where do you find a girl like Sadie with her mindset! There’s so few girls who understand relationships the way she does. Thanks for raising my standards Sadie, I’m praying God sends me the right one. Sadie shows me they exist haha. God bless y’all! And I hope Sadie is doing better now with the accident.

[HenrySimmons]

The "forever dater" one is because so many marriages end in divorce. You need to know the person really well before deciding to get married today.

[linmeco]

Loved everything, except for the discouragement advice for single woman in our 40’s .some of us still have the faith to conceive children . And it doesn’t mean we put career first . Only God knows why too many people por age are still single but have healthy bodies to bring family. “Against the biological window “ bc Nothing is impossible to God!

[MallardDucky]

Thank y’all for making these kind of videos. We need more Christians not afraid to share their values.

[mandarue]

Both people sharing their intentions, goals, values, morals, and dreams when in the dating process seems to be majorly overlooked in our society. It honestly blows my mind. Granted you don't have to share the same hobbies, etc but the real deep stuff is important so you're on the same page to build a strong foundation in your relationship.

[tomtoss]

Keep it simple. Do not be unequally yoked. Even then, sin can destroy the best marriage.

[JustinCarter-cv]

"The mystery is not cute."😂😂😂 Amen! PREACH!!! Love you guys!

[Amy-wusr]

My husband and I have been married almost 17 years, def not without ups and downs but we dated 6 years starting highschool through college and took breaks off and on due to being so young and long distance but came to know we were made for each other. I think each story is different. We both are passionately following after christ in our lives but have been lukewarm In the past. ❤

[princessubong]

Sadie's second point >>> I just recently got myself into such a situation. Thanks for the clarity, I'm running for the hills.

[muktimasih]

Wow I loved the 2nd red flag. In Christian language, 'go with the flow' sounds like 'we will see what happens'.

[JoshODay]

One of the things I had with my last girlfriend was that she idolized me more than anything. Despite being a Christian, and a daughter of the pastor of her church, she put me in front of everything, even God, which I saw as a big no-no. I’ve been single for 5 months, and even though I’m 18 with plenty of time, I sometimes have doubts about having someone in my life. I’m glad I found your channel recently, it’s taught me to not lose hope for having someone, but at the same time, remember God is in control. I ask that you pray for my faith, that it stays strong and grows, as well as me finding the right person someday. Thank you.

[huntersausageandredbeardsh]

It's interesting because people think marriage alone will help them deal with sexual immorality. However, if you don't practice avoiding it before marriage, you are in huge trouble when you get married or date.

[huntersausageandredbeardsh]

Maybe they should just break up if they dated for a few years and didn't want to get married. However, you would need more than several months to get to know someone before committing your life to them.

[taistorezan]

You two just opened up my eyes to red flags that I was actually seeing but didn’t want to see! Thank you

[teakhydra]

I agree with most of the points apart from the friends with the opposite sex. If there is no temptation, no affection nothing, I don't see the issue. If there are feelings, be open, recognise it and then address either move away or chang the situation.