How Narcissistic Family Makes You Feel Crazy & Makes You 'Carry' Their Illness

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How Narcissistic Family Makes You Feel Crazy & Makes You 'Carry' Their Illness

how covert narcissists treat you, how covert narcissistic parents make YOU the problem, growing up with narcissistic parents, growing up with narcissistic family dynamics, how narcissists use punishments and rewards to control you, how narcissistic parents make you carry their illness, healing from narcissistic upbringing, how narcissistic relationships create complex ptsd in victims, how you develop cptsd from narcissistic relationships

[rodvan-zeller]

100% true.
Also, always remember that the narc choses to engage in the behavior, no excuses, they know exactly what they are doing.
Any one that tells you they can not help it, is another narc looking for excuses by proxy.
It is hard for a non narc to understand this, but it is a must in order to recover.

[TaymaShine]

When I watch Michele’s videos I think she must have been through what we’re going through. This is exactly right. Anyone who is in a narcissistic relationship or living with narcissistic/toxic family, please know that the angry, depressed, anxious feelings you have, the social anxiety and the constant depressed mood you’re in (even if it’s the background) is most likely caused by these toxic people in your life. And if it’s not, they are for sure exacerbating it.
I left my mom’s house for 2 months and lived in my car because her emotional and verbal abuse was so bad. I had never felt happier in my entire life than those two months in my car, living off a part time job. The freedom, the mood stabilization, the absolute calm and peace were so worth it. I was someone I had never been before. My social anxiety melted away, I could hold conversations, people told me they loved my personality for the first time in my life. I was shining.
Please, if you have the means to get away from someone like this, do so. If you feel like you’re not ready or you feel bad for them, give them a choice, to treat you better or you leave (provided they’re not physically a danger to you). Their choice will show you just how little they care about you and your emotional well-being and your mental wellness.

[lindagithaiga]

I almost went crazy at work and suffered insomnia at home.only God healed me

[izawaniek]

Absolutely true! They project their illnesses onto you and blame you for behaving irrationally and instantly regulating their emotions by successfully manipulating you and accusing you for being abusive and crazy. And you are reacting to their ill energy. If you are an empath the influence of their toxic behaviour is overwhelming and it is vital to respond and not react to their abuse. We have to learn how to detach . But the pain and energy loss after a meeting with them is too real to overlook. Thank you Michelle!

[longstoryshort]

a poisoned perversion of yourself
you poured into my head's nerves
you wanted it be my identity later
you wanted me to believe it first
- a poem by me

and a few weeks later I watched this video🤯

[etphonehome]

This has really made me sick, I don't have the will to live

[misschelsea]

I grew up in this kinda house hold. And the effects it has on me as a adult ... without words. It's like u were brainwashed to believe the opposite of the truth and now as a adult going through lots of therapy you have to find the real truth in things. Which makes trusting very hard when seeking help. If that makes any sense

[graz]

" provoked to feel out of harmony" Yep...exactly

[m.j.]

That seemed to cut off a bit early. Yes so true

[mirag.]

Exactly the video I needed today !! Thank you !

[drppr]

Very true Michele - Thank You for posting this

[BBB-rdqi]

This describes my Sister and her children. So sad and infuriating!

[tamaraelo]

Feel the trigger's, WoRk the chaos. Everybody work's their own theme, be honest and objective🥰😇😁😋🤭🤫🤔🤐🤨😐😑🤗🤑😚☺😙.

[musicandpoetry_]

I have bipolar though so it’s more ammunition to come at me

[jameschambers]

It's horrible I've been the scape goat 🐐 of the family then in my 20s got involed with a narcissist and the injustice system believe theirs lies you'll work bring me all ur money I can do whatever bi want whenever I want you'll be my slave or die in prison the cops believe me every time and they do where the real police please can we get some real police in Ohio

[jane-ewjh]

The whole cause is being a emotional fool they use sympathy tats y in dia noone gets caught in it until arraged marriage