Narcissistic Family Members Rob You Of Life, Purpose And Authenticity.

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The Royal We has helped Millions to escape the grip of narcissistic abuse. Here’s a deeper look into what narcissistic abuse looks like and steps to heal from it:

Narcissistic abuse looks like:

Lack of Empathy: Narcissists often show little to no empathy for others, making it easy for them to manipulate and exploit. Narcissists use various tactics such as gaslighting, love bombing, and devaluation to control and dominate their victims.

Common Tactics Used in Narcissistic Abuse:

Gaslighting: Making the victim doubt their own reality and sanity.
Love Bombing: Showering the victim with excessive attention and affection to gain control.

Devaluation: Undermining the victim’s self-worth through criticism, belittling, and emotional neglect.

Isolation: Cutting the victim off from their support systems to increase dependency on the abuser.

Triangulation: Using others to create jealousy or competition, keeping the victim feeling insecure.
Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

How to begin healing from narcissistic abuse:
Understand that you have been enduring narcissistic abuse. This awareness is the first step toward healing.

Get Help:

Establish No Contact or Low Contact:

Limit or completely cut off communication with the narcissistic abuser. This helps you gain emotional distance and begin your healing journey.
Rebuild Your Self-Esteem:

Engage in activities that boost your confidence and self-worth. Surround yourself with supportive, positive people who value and respect you.
Educate Yourself:

Learn about narcissistic abuse and its effects. Knowledge is empowering and can help you recognize patterns and avoid future toxic relationships.
Practice Self-Care:

Prioritize your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Regular exercise, a healthy diet, adequate sleep, and mindfulness practices can all contribute to your recovery.
Set Boundaries:

Develop and maintain healthy boundaries in all your relationships.

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[monicaLynn]

I left my entire family almost 2 years ago… they were so abusive and I was no longer willing to be the scapegoat… I surrendered my inheritance as no amount of money was worth the abuse… we can heal from abuse… 🙏

[thirstonhowellthebird]

I just want to put it out there that if you’re watching this video you are more than likely in a toxic family. Toxic families always disinherit the scapegoat or the one who won’t conform. If you think you’re staying for the money and you’re the scapegoat in your family that will be their final act of cruelty and control, leaving you with what they hope to be no closure and the final slam to you …which is to disinherit you. Just walk away and make your own money because there’s no greater freedom than when you get to a place where they mean nothing to you any longer. No anger, just nothing.

[infinitemight]

Extremely true. The only family are the ones who share or support your life's purpose, all others are a distractions.

[jenniferanne]

I just wanted true, authentic connection. I wanted warmth; love..acceptance really.….But I can no longer continue to betray myself to have expectations from people who are unwilling and incapable to emotionally cross the street. Thank you for this important but hard message and lesson…

[andreamontgomery]

I cut my whole dysfunctional family off. When I got pregnant with my daughter. My mother is so narcissistic that her behavior rubbed off on my siblings. When I got pregnant NO one called, planned a baby shower that’s when reality hit me that I never had a family. I moved away after college to find myself and connecting back to them wasn’t real. They were living an illusion that I couldn’t enable. My daughter is apart of my purpose. I’m in my purpose and I want to leave behind an inheritance too. Thank you for this truth. Let’s make is normal to cut families off. Especially in the black community🙏🏽

[jodybrusveen]

My dad used me all of my life & controlled me with his money & an inheritance. But about a year & a half ago, i finally had to walk away from him & my inheritance. And i blocked him in everyway possible. I finally came to the conclusion, that if that inheritance is meant for me, then the Lord give it to me. And if it isn't, , , that's ok to. Because my God is a good God & provides everything that i need in this life.
Thank you Jesus
Thank you Lord

[bessmcgaughey]

I lived that life where a controlling father held over my head my inheritance. I've lost it to a narcissistic husband. This inheritance was held over me and my brothers and sister so my dad could keep us under his thumb. No college, no ways or means to better ourselves with our lives and everytime we did we were sabotaged. I've finally come to terms with the fact that my life is more important than this inheritance and I'm ready to walk away. This teaching really spoke deeply to me. Thank you Kevin!

[madness]

You know why it's difficult to quit? It's the guilt of abandoning your parents, the ones who "gave their life for you" (this is what they say). Leave them to their own misery...that is damn hard. And those close to you saying "they are your parents, when they die you will regret your choice" do not help at all. Man.. this is hard.. I'm moving forward by inertia, but I can't feel the road and can't see any light..

[deequilter]

This is difficult truth, but spot on. Toxic relationships in my family have been multi-generational, passed down from one matriarch/patriarch to the next. It's as if there's a contest of wills to determine who's the next to mete out abuse...in the name of what's right in that person's perception, of course. As a young child, I tried to complain to my mother about a cruel statement that had come my way. Her response: "XXXX loves you and only wants the best for you. If XXXX corrects you, you need to listen and change." Heirlooms and money were dangled as bribes not only for control, but to pit family member against family member. Very damaging. It has been a long journey, but I'm proud to report that my own children and I are breaking the cycle!

[calliek.]

Thank you so much for this!! I was always creative and wrote lots of stories as a kid. My teachers used to always compliment my work and told my parents how creative I was, but my parents instead became jealous of me and made me the scapegoat. They accused me of being evil, crazy and mentally ill instead of helping me to develop and mold my craft. In high school I yearned to write, so I joined journalism and became the editor-in-charge. I did well. After high school I wrote a fiction book and my book won an award out of 280k aspiring writers, I was 1of 50 that won. This revealed to me that I indeed was naturally creative and always had the talent, but my parents were too narcissistic to help me develop it. I’ve been NC for 7 years. Now my goal is to write a NY Times Bestseller and tell them to kiss my a**!

[marisaopal]

Narcissistic abuse is real and deep. Affects your whole well being and thoughts. Affects how you interact with the world. My goal is to feel free of this in all areas of my life and spiritual life.

[esclarmonde]

I left and never spoke a word to my mother and my brother, she gave everything to her perfect son and nothing to me and on top, she asked me to also do a DNA test to proof that I am her daughter when she was 92 yrs old, my brother told people that I am so different from the two that he is convinced of me being exchange with another baby in the hospital when I was born. It's been 10 yrs now since my last word to them. Still hurts that my own mother and brother did this to me. My father was a good man and also hurt by the two before he died. My only regret is that I didn't stop talking to them years back so, I would live a HEALTHY life.

[heathalee]

I heard " the promises" from my family too. I told them to keep it and walked away but not before they did untold damage to my children. I didnt realize what they were back then and paid dearly for it. If anyone out there thinks they will only attack you and not your children please believe they will and they will do so with glee.

[phoenixrising]

Wow! Yah, this couldn’t have hit any closer to “home” than it does for me, Kevin. 🎯 Thank you got this timely message today. 💖🙏

[donnafoley]

I was born into 3 generations of evil vile witches. Great grandmother, grandmother, mother. GOD broke that curse with Lots of suffering, but Praise be to

[CarverEngraver]

I left home at a early age because I recognized the narcissistic personalities.. but didn’t realize that was what it was called at the time.. Just knew something was wrong.. I was away for over 25 years .. We had 6 kids in the family and I came back .. I am the odd one out .. I came back with the same values I left with ..The rest of the kids followed every breath she ( mother) took .. I didn’t think my father was as involved as she was ..because he traveled so much for his job, so he was rarely home.. The rest of the family I have noticed is they are bancrupt emotionally and have no moral compass..

[Reevay]

Thanks Kevin for the great message. I'm going to be as honest as possible. I put my authenticity 1st and the consequence of that is forgoing attachment with parents. They will always see me as a kid or child, not an adult with dreams or purpose. It's been 5months no contact with parents. It's been really triggering and sad. Especially this week, being bullied at work (I've been fighting over 2months and it has went to top management of the University but they still treat me same) and watching new roomates move in my apartment with the help of their parents. I cant control the tears. I'm learning that its ok to be sad but my peace is more important. My anchor is Jesus now and of course, a new family that I want to build with the man that I love 💕 He says I'm your family now and you are mine and I pray for the day your parents realize what they lost. Till then we will continue to look forth to the future with Christ.

[jdoc]

Crabs in a bucket. One tries to escape the others pull him down…

[nailazion]

I voluntarily gave up my inheritance from my toxic family.... I have always been non materialistic....that makes them crazy.... they all are a bunch of greedy empty vessels....that nothing will ever fill them up.. thanks for the video 👑👑👑👑

[bettywhite]

My 2 children didn't wait for their conned, stold my identity, used me as a bank. It has taken me yrs to wrap my head around that fact.