Narcissist About Gaslighting

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[marjutpaech]

It is much better to be alone in life, than to be with a person who makes you feel bad.

Solitude is wonderful, when we know how to enjoy it. Being alone doesn't mean we feel alone ...❤

It is always better to be alone, than with a person who tries to control you.

[MG-otyr]

Narcissists are exhausting the childish drama they create, I just ignore them, once they start crap like that I leave

[stormthrush]

VERY familiar. And the long term implications of this is you find yourself constantly questioning everything you do and walking on eggshells because you never know what will set them off. And the reality is it's not that you're doing something wrong, it's that they're willing to lie their asses off to maintain control at any cost.

[KleeKaiBreeders]

The ex narc blew a rage fit bc he thought I didn’t clean the toilets good enough. That was it for me. Clean them yourself then. Bye narcie.

[vilandriamartinez]

My ex husband did this bs, I’m thankful for YouTube so I could learn about what was happening to me. I married a man that they make Lifetime movies about

[BelleOfAmherst]

THAT smile at the end… 😳 I’ve seen that many times. Three emotions come to mind: belittled, nervous, vulnerable. In him I see vengeance.

[LadyRobertaL]

Omg! This truth! This is what was done to me! I was always struggling to prove I was a good person. The lies that were spewed at me were exactly on this line.

[colemacedo-phillips]

I dated a narcissistic man years ago who found fault with just about everything. When I started to question him why he was starting arguments over the most ridiculous things he denied, denied and denied. I’ve never met anyone so in love with themselves in my entire life. No thanks!

[makaylaforbes]

Why is this behavior so prevalent these days. Decades ago, you'd have to search far and wide to find these types of people, and if you did stumble across someone like this, you could easily walk away and have 1000 sane conversations with 1000 sane people, and those 1000 sane people would be shocked about their behavior along with you. Now it's almost like there's a revolving door of them. As soon as you get rid of one like that, another one knocks at your door and life devolves into nothing more than survival mode

[nicolecastrogiovanni]

I’m so glad that I don’t fall for this shit anymore.. if I see this red flag or other narcissist traits, I am bolting and never looking back. Thank you for bringing awareness! Your definitely opening up eyes on these situations

[pjmrees]

This is 100% true. After over weeks of repeatedly being told no one in the family including himself liked me or wanted me around and to leave, I said fine I'll go find another family...he flipped out and said how could I say such a cruel thing and said it was so horrible he couldn't even repeat it everyone because how could you give up and abandon your family. I'm like WTF!

[naiyalexic]

SO TRUE, utterly unbalanced reactions and responses, just crazy. Yeah, maybe "I did something wrong, " but it wasn't SO wrong as to warrant the whacked out, dysregulated onslaught which ensued.

[melissanguyen]

Asking to check silverware and not put away dirty silverware was the worst absolute thing I could do to him, he flipped out, threw the dog, how could I put him down like that, after all he’s done for me and all he’s sacrificed how dare I. 😒😒😒 then he stormed out of the house and left because he “wasn’t safe here” and “can’t live with someone who’s going to treat him that way” I definitely would go to shock in those moments and be completely baffled and question if I was out of line for ever saying anything.

[verakunts]

Reminds me of when my ex was living at my house for free with no contributions and when I asked for one day alone after 6 months of no privacy he told me I’m selfish and I’m acting like I have all the resources and I’m just kicking him out to the curb to die and I should’ve known better regarding his situation. His situation being having no job not trying to get one and living on a couch for over a year. He had 8 months of my support and changed nothing about his living situation then acted entitled to my house and called me selfish for wanting one day to myself. It’s fucking exhausting trying to justify the abuse

[hawaiigirl]

I put up with my ex for decades with this abuse. WHY? Because my mom was a narcissist- so I always thought I was wrong, unable to grasp idas, something wrong with me

[shadowsta]

My ex did this, I made coffee wrong. I asked her 3x "Is this where I put the coffee?" and she said yes, I even said "I've only ever made coffee with a Keurig coffee maker" and she still said yes.
I proceeded to incorrectly make the coffee, it came out wrong and got her to help me.

Dude she FLIPPED OUT, I've never seen her that mad PERIOD. She acted like I did the dumbest thing in the world.

[kimpossible]

Wow, well articulated! My dad did that to me at a young age & jacked me up! Thanks sometime acting stuff out helps people heal❤

[mssatire]

I had this happen and thought ARE YOU FN KIDDING ME. YOU'RE A SOCIOPATH AND I HAVE TO STOP CARING. In my head. And the next time he said he's just going to move out, I said go ahead I don't care. And that stopped, then I kept calling him out until I finally told him to leave. It took seven years but that first time he turned his 🐂💩on me I made him uncomfortable too

[richy]

What makes it worse is when their flying monkeys not only enable this behaviour but turn on the target too. Creates a vicious cycle

[missw]

THANK YOU for being honest and explain this. My life had been hell and still in the aftermath.