Relationships and Complex Trauma - Part 6/11 - What is Love?

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[TheViolettowne]

I can't stop watching these lectures. I am not an addict but the child of one with lot's of trauma.I was never around the bible and I was never interested in it. He makes it so interesting and real that now I want to try it out.

[xeniyashilina]

These videos are so healing. I really appreciate these lectures. We are so lucky to have such precious information available these days

[lindacarlton]

My parents went above and beyond to provide and meet our physical needs. But would then use it to beat us up with comments like "look at all we've given you, look at what we do for you"...strings attached to their idea of love. Thank you for all of your videos!!

[mathembibhengu]

Love is more than an emotion, it is a verb, it is a right action with a right motive.

[Jewgirl]

I’m glad you said, the healthier you get, the more love you can give. Right now, it’s hard cause I don’t want to love even though I know it’s right. Praying for the day when I want to love!

[JuliaShalomJordan]

This teaching made me cry and experience the joy of my salvation all over again. I was that prodigal…and now I am home…now, I’m working on getting healthy. Thank u!❤

[DonTwanX]

That was incredible. Never heard God’s love described like that. Tim you are a channel for his goodness. Thank you so much. I’m in tears.

[markthomas]

Thirty two minutes mark stressed the importance of God and the recognition of God. Very important part of the video (that says a lot bc this entire video is loaded w important lessons and facts).

[BetsyRebel]

You are changing my life Tim! I'm so grateful for you. ❤

[BLESS]

What a blessing theses videos have been to me thank you for sharing!

[mariahdenee]

This guys is amazing. Love this series. Life changing.

[SarahDale]

I've been no contact with my parents for the past half a year while I try to untangle from the damage of childhood neglect. How on earth do you reconcile with people who (unintentionally) hurt you? It's hard to want to return when home never felt safe.

[pamelacotte]

Tim, thank you for these very healing videos. As someone (and I think many people are in the situation) who missed out on having children because of the results of complex trauma it would be helpful to have some acknowledgement of this in the video. It feels like there is an assumption that everyone had the experience of having children. I believe that many of us wanted this more than anything but lost it and this can intensify pain for us.

[cp-ekrs]

I love the way you bring God and the Bible into your lectures.Understand more now and can apply it in daily life.Thank you ❤

[pritfc]

I had no idea how messed up I were until the day I discovered your videos. God bless your heart!

[sally]

This is one of the most beautiful ones you’ve done! Thank you! 🙏 ❤

[cbruman]

These lessons have truly been a blessing to me. Thank you

[mathembibhengu]

Emotion of love and love are two different things

[NarcArtTherapy]

I think people need to stop throwing the word abandoned around without looking at individual circumstances where in that word is applied. Sometimes leaving is your only choice, short of terrible abuse. However, the circumstances might be better without the atmosphere of violence and fear that comes in traumatic relations. There is no end to the shame that such a label implies. It can often be used to further abuse survivors.

[tayloradams]

Even when I thought I had a good grasp and understanding of this entire cycle by way of past four years, looking inward to stop the cycle of toxic relationships in my life starting with my parents. I have already shared this series of your videos on to friends of mine who could relate. It has further deepend, my understanding, and my own self growth as a continue on this journey of healing, now that I unders stand. Thank you so much and Bravo for exploring all aspects in such an easy, and understanding way which led me along the way to many sudden epiphanies ❤😊😊