Relationships and Complex Trauma - Part 9/11 - Attachment Disorders

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Healthy attachment and attachment disorders: "The opposite of addiction is not sobriety, it is connection".

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[Robbie-llge]

20 minutes in, this is one of the most enlightening talks I’ve ever heard. Good lord

[marknelsen]

TIM, U R... an Amazing gift to humanity!

[sarahcouture]

That’s what I love most about Tim Fletcher 💜 he doesn’t just accept everything he his told as truth. He examines a concepts validity before deciding whether or not to agree with the message. He uses critical thinking and his own mind to question, challenge and discern what information is actually true and accurate apart from the platitudes and the bs. He thinks for himself in a realistic way, he’s not a propaganda puppet whatsoever. It’s cool that he’s not afraid to discuss things that might be counter to popular belief or controversial, even amongst his fellow Christians. That’s why I respect him and love his videos/talks. His philosophy is authentically accepted by his own reasoning, not just regurgitated indoctrination. What he has to say is based in research, psychology and honest Christian spirituality rather than any distorted/corrupted religious views. I do not identify as religious myself, but I really like what this guy has to say. I am in agreement. I also love how he doesn’t push religion on the listener. So very wise and respectful 👏 thank you Tim 💜

[JimPowellS]

"Happy people are all alike; every unhappy person is unhappy in their own way."

The challenge of raising well adjusted individuals is you have to get everything right, and even more challenging to help someone who's already unhappy because so much can be wrong.

[GioKonst]

I am so happy that I found your channel! God bless you!

[WickedWoodU]

God Bless you Tim
You are a treasure trove of knowledge & hold the keys & answers to many of life’s problems and very important questions. Thank You for all your time and effort, your positive contribution to humanity is profound & everlasting!!!:-) keep up the good work!!! You are a one of a kind and this world is certainly a better place because of YOU!!!

[NA-xozb]

Thank you for this Tim!! A lot of things were validated here which is both good and bad and sad 😐

[katrinabalcells-jufk]

Thank you for all the work you do. You are changing the life of generations to come.

[ruthsnyder]

Thank you for these videos. Oh my goodness, will I ever watch them All?

I really, really like how you explain things from a psychological view at 1st and then tie it in to The Bible at the end. Everything you say makes so much sense. Thank you . You're a good man for putting on these seminars.

[krustysurfer]

Profound revelations and concepts Tim.
Yes thats how I understood marriage intimacy and connection.
I've become one more times than Im comfortable with.
Lots of amends to make...
Thank you for everything you do.

[Joel.Ravet]

Watching this in 2021, wow... I'm only 10 minutes in, and it's hitting me to the core to grow and change for the better, thank you, Tim!

[carinwiseman]

Also use pets to connect. They are like an addiction too

[Ali]

This man is priceless so much digging out dirt and deception I'm sleeping and being helped asleep and awake since listening to tim

[Supakalii]

"Alot of people with complex trauma hate their parents but never leave them"🤯🤯

[charrioll]

connection is everything - i need to replace the disturbing connection with my mother and replace that with more healthy regulated people thanks

[Phoebe-cyxc]

This is totally brilliant 👍👍👍 things are making so much sense after hearing you Tim. Thank you so much 🙏🏼

[kathy]

I want to thank Tim from the bottom of my heart. 🙏🙏❤❤

[tl]

Oh my goodness! The research that Tim spoke about really drilled into the importance of a good community for healing, AND also showed that like humans, animals have feelings and the need for connection! And if they have the same need as us for survival, then we should really also rethink about our food source!

[JuliaShalomJordan]

Love these teachings so much. God bless u.❤

[ts]

This is the problem. I can't find SAFE people in these 12 step rooms ...I was deeply hurt and retraumatized more from some of these ppl than others outside the program bc I expected them to be trusting and safe given the principles say we are to be loving and compassionate and protect anonymity..
Instead I was betrayed by a cppl of ppl. Now I'm really disillusioned as the opposite of addiction (to food anorexia ...) Is connection.
I haven't yet found a sponsor as I'm afraid to be judged...🙏😓