Narcissistic Wife. 10 Ways a Narcissistic Wife Treats Her Husband

Here are the 10 very common behaviors men experience from their Narcissistic Wives in marriage. Do not normalize this Psychological Abuse. Manipulation that involves Guilt, Shame, Fear, Threats, Gaslighting, and many many more should not be normalized. An abusive wife will do all of the above and then make you feel like you are the problem that caused it all. No, it is not your fault. If you are watching this and this is relatable to you, please don't wait, get help and break free from the trauma bond.

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[elephantscantjump]

My wife is a narcissist and I am a sigma personality. It drives her mad. Sticking it out until the kids are older. Then I'm outta there. Peace and quiet and every cent I spend to get rid of her will be worth it. Never ignore the warning signs.

[panoramicview]

A woman who genuinely looks out for men by exposing the female narcissist is a thing of beauty. Thank you very much

[ECF]

"An accusation from a narcissist is actually a confession." THE most memorable words spoken to me by my counselor.

[GuinessHangover]

My wife spent the first several years of our relationship telling me she didn't want flowers because "They're expensive and die too fast..." then she started complaining that I never bought her flowers, then when I bought her flowers she "didn't like the colors".... Nothing was ever good enough for this woman.

[ericsmith-sxxi]

After watching these videos, I broke off an engagement. I thought I was doing something wrong. I dodged many years being miserable. Thank you.

[eekatikaclick]

1. Everything is your fault.
2. She NEVER takes your side.
3. You will feel GUILTY for wanting Intimacy.
4. She will prevent you from having FRIENDS.
5. Constant reminder that she could have done better.
6. She blames you for her past.
7. Queen and Servant Dynamic (not Queen and King).
8. She is a Blame Shifting Expert.
9. She is Emotionally Absent.
10. Constant Divorce Threats.
11. (added from comments) Never Apologizes.
Thanks Lillya.

[Lylelou]

So many men find comfort in knowing we are not alone. I know reading the comments makes me a little happier. My current wife is trying to break me through divorce. I have a few tricks up my sleeve still!! Stay safe gentleman.

[tigertastic]

My ex-wife was a narcissist with BPD. i was isolated from family and friends and treated like crap, physically and emotionally abused, until my whole world spiraled into oblivion. After we divorced, she was surprised to learn i didn't propose again, to fulfill some twisted fantasy of hers. She took all the assets and i the debts. It took years of personal work and meeting a really sweet girl to fully turn things around. I learned alot and all this before youtube was a thing. So it's really great you and other voices online can help people today understand the wickedness of the situation. Thanks!

[andrewferguson]

I was married to a narcissist for 15 years. They slowly and systematically remove all your references. Your body sends you the correct warning signals in the form of anxiety and when ignored you make the decent into depression. You will lose your home, relationships, health, career, money and reputation will all be completely destroyed. It takes years if ever to recover from this abuse. They’re truly demons living in a hell of their own creation.

[marcchuck-you-farleytrembl]

My wife of 17 years was exactly like this! Finally, my 16 y/o daughter told me it was OK to leave my wife, and not to stay for the sake of the family. I left with my daughter and have never been happier.

[Sirgx]

2 min in on another narcissism video and I feel like I'm looking into a mirror. For 11 years I felt like I wasn't enough. I worked my butt of, paid the bills, went back to school, progressed in my career, bought us a house, sacrificed my dreams, supported her through the first year of her PhD and she left. She walked out the door and then blamed me for everything. It was my fault the relationship didn't work, its my fault she wasn't happy, it was my fault she was now a single broke college student, it was my fault she didn't have time to see the dogs, so on and so forth. I paid for the home, the bills, cleaned the home, did the yard work, paid for our dogs, paid for our car insurance, helped cook meals, helped pay for food, any time we went out I paid for it. Even while she was in a job where she made double my salary. I was still the problem in her eyes. I was still never ever going to be enough. We are 6 months into a separation from our 11 year relationship (6.5yrs married). I am just a signature away from being done with her and rebooting my life with my goals in mind. I got this!

**Edit** Just got to the end and the blame shifting along with the divorce threats were big in the end. Every time she was upset she threw divorce around like it was this little thing. Hell the last week together we went out to the beach, got dinner, then had a great week, next weekend we celebrated her success on her pre-dissertation for her PhD I was financially supporting her through. I paid for both weekends we went out as I usually did. Then it was a Monday I was super excited to share with her that I had just gotten a raise. She walks in and says immediately "we need to talk" that is when the bomb was dropped. One thing missed in this video was future faking. Where a narcissist promises to you that if you sacrifice this and this here the next time will be your turn. It was always going to be my turn next. It was never my turn.

[q]

My mother was like this. Not only she was dominating and abusive to my father, she was horrible to us children too. While she put down my humble, peaceful father she was always so full of praise for all other men she knew and would be so provocative and flirtatious with them. She ruined all our family fortune and my father had to practically hide from her everyday, going to clubs every night and coming home late just to avoid her constant complaints and confrontations and the stressful family atmosphere. She had exactly this queen- servant attitude. She had full control of his finances although she never went to work a single day of her life. We had no peace at home ever until she finally passed away from an illness she brought on herself by going after the men she admired and they eventually destroyed her.

[davidhinkson]

This is exactly how my wife of 14 years behaved - she was more married to her mother, a highly toxic narcissist who taught her well - than me, and just basically used me to have a child. I left her in September 2021 and am still trying to recover.

[edvallecorse]

I have been married for 43 years and you have summarized my marriage in about 13 minutes! You hit every point!

[CMOD]

Breaks my heart to hear this because my wife does plenty of these

[rennmaxbeta]

Preventing from having any friends, support network is a big one. I have been through that and it sucks.

[ricksmith]

I should start my own YouTube channel. I’ve been married to a covert narcissist woman for 34 years. Everything this woman is saying is absolutely true. Living with the female narcissist is basically death by a thousand cut downs.

[Future_looksbright]

This makes me extremely grateful for my wife.
-She respects me.
-She wants my opinion on everything.
-She wants me included in everything.
-She’s strong and independent yet very fragile and wears her emotions on her sleeve. -She is loyal to me. I never have to wonder what she’s doing
-She is an amazing mother to our 4 children
-She encourages and supports me in all I do
-She loves to affirm the good in me and our kids
-She trust me. Never looks at my phone or goes through my things
-She doesn’t question what I buy unless we can’t cover it in our shared bank account
-She allows me space when needed and time alone
-She loves me with all that she is and I know I have her entire heart in all we do.

I pray for all the guys and girls out there who are struggling with this. 🙏

[ericleblond]

Finally someone start to talk about the bad women out there.
I wish there were more women like you.

[tfoz]

I was in a 12 year marriage with a woman who did almost every one of these things. I was a living hell for me as I constantly strived to be better. I could never please her, and was the wrath of her verbal abuses. I finally left and filed for divorce. Unfortunately, it all impacts our two kids as well. To this day, she still tells my kids awfull things about me, all of which are untrue. It hurts beyond words.