8 Things You Should Never Say To The INFJ

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8 Things You Should Never Say To The INFJ | The INFJ personality type is pretty good at keeping calm and composed when faced with any truth. However, every MBTI type has a few trigger points, and when it comes to INFJ pet peeves, there are definitely a few things you should never say to an infj in order to keep the peace.

In fact, since one of the more challenging infj traits happens to be their innate self criticism, this rare INFJ type tends to be a little more sensitive to outer opinions in general. Things can even go so far as making the infj defensive or closed off.. Two tell-tale INFJ signs that the independent infj is probably not coming back around.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00 - Intro
00:41 - Number 8 - “Calm down!”
01:41 - Number 7 - “You’re just not trying hard enough.”
02:42 - Number 6 - Saying “I’m fine.” (when you really aren’t)
03:45 - Number 5 - “No one will ever understand you.”
04:34 - Number 4 - “You’re so boring. You should really get out more.”
05:45 - Number 3 - “You make it difficult to love you.”
07:14 - Number 2 - “You’re doing too much.”
08:53 - Number 1 - “Everyone does it like this”
10:00 - Comment Question!
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#6 is very true. Many times people say "I'm fine" and I'll just look right back at them and say "No you're not" and they wonder how I know. I just know and I don't like being lied to. If someone doesn't want to talk about it then that's okay, but I hate it when people lie to me or feel like they have to hide themselves.

leevicker
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It's true that i don't like it when someone criticizes the effort i put into a task by telling me am not trying hard enough

nambafulynnjessica
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Just hearing these things listed agitated me. Another thing is when you finally at least partially open up to someone about what you are thinking or feeling or how your mind is working and they weaponise it, later in an argument telling you that you are crazy anyway.

lunapuella
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Ive had people tell me to calm down, and I say I'm just getting started, , , also in a louder tone 😊

jamesgraham
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I've ended a friendship over a variation of "You're just not trying hard enough, " so I guess that's the one that is the most upsetting.

To be frank, it wasn't so much that she said it, but she said it when I was going through one of the worst periods of depression in my life. Up until that point, I had been her best friend and did more for her than anyone else, standing by her side through some truly dark periods in her life.

So when she said, "Well, I'll guess you'll just have to try harder, " after I had poured my heart out about something incredibly difficult that I was facing, I decided that our friendship had run its course. I didn't miss her.

candacen
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This has happened so often when a person claims that they are okay, but it is in contradiction with my intuition.

Betscu.
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Can I add a number 9?
What really upsets me is when I point out that a system (i.e. social, financial, educational, etc.) isn't working well (and more often than not it's based on blind tradition or the status quo way of doing things), and people tell me, "That's just the way it is." . . . Oh, my . . . that really burns me up. Wish I didn't have to care about so many things!

silvertonguesings
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I am an INFJ. Calm down sends me through the roof. When people feel I am overreacting it feels like an incredible break of trust

shelteredsparrow
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If someone told me #3 I'd cut them out of my life. I'd close the defenses on them and it'd be nearly impossible for them to get back inside. If they can't be close to me, I have no interest in them being a part of my life. - An INFJ

KBowWow
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This is so true!! I winced at felt a quick flash of anger each time the phrase came up.

keziaholson
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When people say your not trying hard enough this ticks me off
Like all 8 are very true, thanks for this video

ellenkukuha
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The worst thing you can call an INFJ is selfish. I’m an INFJ and helping others and being empathetic comes natural.
So being called selfish feels like I got shot in the heart with a shotgun lol.

marquispaige
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Prior to my divorce, I would express my feelings, thoughts or even ask my partner for help trying to figure something out and my partner discovered that by using the phrase "so you think you are the victim?". These string of words would either cause me to implode with introspection trying to figure out if I was taking the victim stance or I would go into a blind rage that would short circuit my brain. Either way, my partner achieved the desired result, I would shut up and basically become nearly catatonic and unable to respond or even defend myself. This trick only worked a few times before I realized I was being gas lighted. Accusing me of pulling the victim card stopped by simply flipping it around and forcing my ex to be on the defensive. This back my ex into a corner where the only way to put up a defense would be to admit to wrong doings where they were clearly the benefactors. My ex was and still is a narcissist and without their armor of ambiguity, they wouldn't even dare engage me in even a minor conflict.

waynenubile
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Omg!! All these triggered me just hearing them cuz if you say these things to me, I will get so mad and frustrated!!! I wish people knew not to say these things to me. Especially “calm down”.

lisskat
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Spot on!
My narc x used to say I wouldn't let him love me??
It was like he was blaming me for his lack of love. I didn't know he is a narcissist. I felt unloved for most of that 45 years. 😢

mickeysammy
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I would like to know how many of us told our friends family and significant other what we are? My case? Apart from this community no one

franzjosefmueller-alban
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I had a friend say that I didn't plan and I'm still mad about it.

susanc.
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Great job ....the two of us, both INFJ agreed with all 8

angelinvocon
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I'm an INFJ and one of my biggest goals in life is to open a business that makes affordable and effective power armor. I've always gone into planing expecting it to fail as the big endgame is to prove it's plausible, and open the conversation to the public. Is that typical? Idk, but I feel it's worth a shot.

RensStoryteller
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Don't lie to us, don't hide your feelings. We know. We're trying.

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