6 Things you should NEVER do for Women.. (Stoicism)

6 Things you should NEVER do for Women.. (Stoicism)

Have you ever found yourself bending over backwards, changing who you are, or sacrificing your own happiness just to please a woman? You're not alone. Many men find themselves in this scenario, mistakenly believing that this is the key to harmony and affection. But what if I told you that there's a wisdom dating back thousands of years that suggests a different approach? Yes, I'm talking about Stoicism."

Today, we're diving deep into the heart of Stoic philosophy to uncover 6 principles you should never compromise for women—or anyone else, for that matter. This isn't about playing the blame game or suggesting you shouldn't care about the women in your life. On the contrary, it's about understanding how to care in a way that's healthy, respectful to both you and them, and ultimately, more fulfilling.

"Imagine this: You've canceled plans you were excited about because she hinted she wanted to do something else. You've twisted your values to match hers, even when it felt wrong. Or maybe you've lost touch with friends because she didn't like them. Sounds familiar? These scenarios don't lead to the healthy, balanced relationships we crave. Instead, they pave a one-way street to resentment and loss of self."

But fear not, for Stoicism offers a guiding light. Let's explore how to navigate the complexities of relationships without losing yourself in the process. Ready? Let's embark on this journey together."

1. Sacrificing Your Personal Freedom

"In the throes of passion or the desire to please, it's alarmingly easy to compromise our autonomy. You might cancel plans you were looking forward to, suppress your interests, or even alter your viewpoints to align with someone else's expectations. It feels like love, but is it really? Stoicism invites us to question these sacrifices. Are we giving up our personal freedom for affection, or are we nurturing a relationship where both individuals can flourish independently?"

"Think about it. Your integrity and freedom are priceless. They're the very essence of your being. When you trade them for someone's approval, you're not just losing a part of yourself; you're also setting a precedent for the relationship that's unsustainable and unhealthy. Relationships, according to Stoicism, should not be about losing oneself but rather about mutual growth, respect, and understanding, all of which are grounded in the freedom to be oneself."

So, before you bend your will to fit into someone else's world, pause and reflect. Are you acting out of love and respect, or are you sacrificing your autonomy out of fear and need for approval? Remember, a relationship built on the foundation of mutual respect for each other's freedom and individuality is not just strong; it's enduring. Let's not trade our priceless freedom for fleeting approval. Instead, let's strive for relationships that honor and celebrate our autonomy, guided by the timeless wisdom of Stoicism."

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[fleshiemunthali]

remember a relationship built on the foundation of mutual respect for each other's freedom and individuality is not just strong it's enduring

[Erinaailookbook]

The 6 points really highlight the importance of maintaining self-respect and balance in relationships, from a Stoic perspective. It's a valuable lesson in not losing oneself while navigating connections. Appreciate the wisdom shared here!

[edgardovillacorte]

One must find oneself first before finding others

[norskviking]

I really enjoy learning this stuff. At 80 years old, wish i new it when i was a lot younger!.That kind of stuff was never taught in any schools, that i know of. but with insight, and hind sight, wisdom comes from experence, and age.

[spardaslovechild]

Very useful and worth watching!!! Thank you very much for this video!!! 👸🏼💃🏼🙌🏽🙏🏻♥️

[StoicAwe]

"Do not waste the remaining part of your life in thoughts about others, when you do not refer your thoughts to some aspect of the common good." - Marcus Aurelius

[StoicEvolution]

"The key to happiness is accepting the present moment as it is." - Epictetus

[djbampz]

Emotional key take away! Thanks for this.

[rodyjperez]

Very good information on life, I have spent all my years giving out to others and seeing them waste my time and money. Not no more!

[TheMurrayMovements]

Strong Message! Keep up the good work and stay stoic!

[SPORTSNUTIM]

I’m 60, still learning about loving and respecting myself. Life is a journey and my attraction towards women was altered at a young age by shame and lack of support.

[bkhcyom]

Very informative and insightful. Thanks continue to produce more of these videos. Looking forward for more of them.🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[johnfriel-ujzs]

Thank You For The Stoic Lesson On Relationships it's An Eye Opener😊

[StoicWisdomyt]

"The Stoic practice of mindfulness has brought greater clarity and peace to my life."

[pauldunbar]

This is incredibly powerful. It should be taught in schools, regularly, from a young age.
Thank you for putting these points into one clear and concise lesson.

[NeneAdolfo-vhdh]

I'm 69 and start learning about this stoic wisdom. Thank you for uploading.

[MarineBoss]

1..30pm it's all good stuff.think keep coming.❤

[johngreggs]

The information in this video is just very deep and very knowledgeable for me … it has already helped me too understand the behavior of someone that I know but that I didn’t understand not until I watch this video for the first time … which is truly amazing! 👀🧐😊💯

[antrygis]

Could have used this great advice some years ago. Some good stuff here.

[richardgoodridge]

Please turn off the background music loop - it really distracts from the message! It's unnecessary ...