8 Things you should NEVER say to a Man!

It's been said that women thrive on love and men thrive on respect. Are you single, hopeful for marriage or even already married? Do you find that your speech towards your significant other could do with some fine tuning? Are you nagging, scathing and argumentative? Well, if we are on the road to becoming the best version of ourselves we could start by ensuring that our words are always upbuilding, kind and encouraging.

In this video, I go through 8 things that you should avoid saying to a man- especially a significant other. Things that could ruin a precious relationship you've worked so hard to build.

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[rebeccadirks]

1. “Men value respect: don’t disrespect. even once can have long term effect of resentment. Rise to be an elegant lady.
1. “You’re Not a man”
2. “How dare you”
3. “All men are trash”
4. “You’re not my type”
5. “There are better men out there that will like me”
6. “When are you coming…”. Wreak of a desperate woman. Love will be compelling.
7. “ I “don’t know why I’m wasting my time with you!”
8. “Be a man!” “Man up”

Watch your words carefully
Great video…worthy of many revisits

Classy Lady!

[tahariobi]

I never interrupt my husband or over talk him. When he is finished talking, if I don't agree, I will say I see it slightly differently. If he's in a " mood, " I never press the issue. I'm very patient and wait for the right time to introduce my idea or point of view. I've never failed with this approach.

[teresamurray]

I've missed you. I am very lucky my husband and I respect each other . I've been married for 15 years staying strong. Hes so kind to me. We never say hurtful words to each other. I am truly blessed.

[esthereffiong]

I've been married for 5yrs now and I have never argued with my husband, I go completely silent when he's angry, or when he brings up a topic angrily, sometimes he may be the one at fault but I always wait for him to calm down then we talk and iron things out.
This is really working for me

[goyourself]

Yes! I'm 60+ yrs...We were taught this by the older women in the family early on growing up... thank you for bringing us back to the proper foundation ❤❤❤

[Gm]

Everyone makes a mistake in saying or doing the wrong thing, men and women. That's where forgiveness comes in place. Otherwise we would all be perfect and no one is.

[doreenkhavai]

My advice to all women here... please give your life to Jesus and your manners in Christ will change and improve according to God's Word

[lauriejordan]

If a man is rude or disrespectful towards you. Quietly walk away. Don’t downgrade yourself to his level. We are above that. We certainly do not need to accept any negative behavior. We just don’t need to become the exact thing we dislike. We have the ability to walk away with our dignity in tact. (This 100% does not apply to women in abusive or controlling relationships. You ladies deserve no judgment, just prayers for a safe outcome)

[BethLife]

As a counseling psychologist, this is EXCELLENT advise on all levels. 😊

[theautochecker]

As a divorced man who has been through the mill, I say you are mostly right. Unfortunately most high profile /alpha /high value women I are unable to leave their work time weapons at the door when they get home . Many such women feel the need to fight to get their opinions across. As much as men like to be right (due to our logical way of thinking) we do appreciate a woman who can tactically prove us wrong. A smart and supportive woman is a huge asset. We will do anything to keep her. PS: keep up the good work

[Cal_me_lady]

Wow, if a man wants you he will move heaven and Earth to be with you, I love it🙏 thanks so much

[oneoutoftheninety-nine.]

So I have been single for about 8 months and my ex hurt me alot. I did love him. But up until now I am genuinely sorry for some of the things I said to him. We weren't good for eachother and that's still hard for me to grasp. I'm just going to try my best to never make the same mistakes again. Lord help me as I try.

[CJ-kuej]

Leveling up must be done equally. A successful couple admires each other’s strengths and attributes, but more importantly is allowing respect, boundaries, friendship, trust, healthy communication during difficult times, allowing space for growth and teammates throughout your journey. The work continues at every turn. Both men and women need to step up and do their part for a healthy relationship to rise and stay on top.

[ericadunomes]

I remember seeing women around me talk horribly to their men, and I vowed never to do that to the man I would date. Men have feelings too. And we must think about how important it is to treat people the way you would want to be treated. It matters more than we think.

[tladimakuse]

Emotional intelligence is key in any relationship irrespective of who they are, respect everyone including your children because that how they learn to treat others including themselves❤

[ShaniTheBurningTree]

My ex husband and I had a very tumultuous marriage. He was quite smart in what he was doing each day to destroy the sweetness I had, because he knew the marriage was destined for divorce. He disrespected me so much that I had to develop a character to deal with it. But he wanted to destroy me for all future relationships and program a call and response that would always lead to destruction. I realized this and began to unprogram myself and it took 5 years. I now do not engage with men like that, only gentlemen, and I never have to raise my voice. I just have to be sweet even when they may be annoyed and they melt. It really is just a better way for me to live.

[Time_With_Gozie]

Dating/Marrying a woman who can't control her mouth when she's angry is like dating/marrying a man who can't control his hands when he's angry.

Thanks for the insight, I'm a New SUBSCRIBER 😊

[wendymaluleke]

Man avoid woman who generalized them, avoid calling him a dog because even you will not like to be with a man who thinks all woman are crazy. Stop making him think he is not good enough, never compare him to another man, stop hurting him but love him for who he is, thank you my friend for sharing and much appreciated.

[kaycee]

Great advice and lessons! It’s also important that men respect their partner or wife in front of the children. This sets the tone in the home. Once a woman is disrespected in front of the children problems begins amongst both sides, mother and father. The man is the head and he sets the tone in the home and the lady is to make the house a home. As a woman I learned that silence sometimes is power when it comes to being angry because words is something you can’t take back.

[twyiqho]

Yes true men we do cry, we got feelings too. it's very heart breaking to hear such words.all we need is respect 😢