Narcissistic mother in-laws are disgusting ! #narcissticabuse #Toxicmotherinlaw

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[davidanddiana]

If you don’t know a narcissist this sounds crazy but if you know a narcissist then you are nodding your head throughout the entire video.

[rosemariebarrientos]

Be careful with sisters in law as well... They easily follow their mother's patterns.

[allie]

Great advice. I’d like to add: ladies, if the man you’re with refuses to acknowledge her behavior or stand up for you when you’re being unwarrantedly abused and ostracized, he ain’t worth shit either. Dodge that bullet and find a real man without mommy issues.

[Stormdooper]

I wish some one would had told me that evil mother in-laws exist.

[lepond]

I will never forget the look on my mother-in-law’s face when she saw me for the first time in my wedding dress on the day of my wedding when I was about to walk down the aisle. She was furious. Angry at me. It hurts me to this day, 8 years later

[MissMakeDo]

Me: “I’m not comfortable sharing that information.”

Her whispering to others about me: “She’s so damaged, so secretive, watch out for her, she can’t even have basic conversations, she doesn’t want to be close to the family. Watch her. Don’t trust her. You’ll see.”

[kfunk]

My high school sweetheart’s mom said to me once, “You stole 4 years from me and my son!”
Then she gave him an ultimatum that if he wanted to date me, she wouldn’t speak to him anymore. Not surprisingly, we broke up soon after. I can’t imagine how much nonsense I would had to endure if we had continued. Really dodged a bullet there!

[mattbethanykirk]

Wanna hear emotional incest? When my husband told his mom that we needed to go no contact for awhile bc of her insane behavior, she sweetly emailed back “we need to figure this out as a family, bc ultimately Matty 🤮, we are one. Multiple wonderful parts, but ultimately you and I are one.” I told him she’s forgetting who’s married to her son.. it’s not her.

[psychedlicsouljam]

"Scream in a bathroom before u see them if you have too..." thats so true. Funny but at the same time its so tiring being around these kind of people

[catzeppelin_]

it’s so fucking annoying when i try doing things with my boyfriend that normal couples do then she has to bring him down with making him feel bad that she isn’t involved ..

[sabrinababbina]

It may take years but believe me when I say: if you Never attack them, eventually they expose themselves, to your partner and to everyone around. It's extremely difficult but Never attacking them works because it drives them absolutely crazy. Or...OR, you can just get an order of no contact. Either way I wish all of you luck!!

[iidentifyasayoutubertoday]

My mother law has been so awful to me and its made me want to make sure I will never be awful to my sons future spouse even if I do get a little sad when he leaves the nest and becomes separate from me. I never want to make any woman feel the way my mother in law makes me feel.

[druchampion-payne]

Wow spot on! I've been married for almost 35 years and my mother-in-law is a narcissist and my husband finally sees it. Three years ago we learned about narcissism and specifically about the "narcissistic mother-in-law" and I'm fortunate that my husband sees a lot of what's going on with his mother (some of it he doesn't), but he understands enough so he decided on his OWN to call his mother and he told her NOT to call me anymore and then I blocked her with his blessing--this occured last March. And he also supports me going completely no contact with his entire family because his sisters are the flying monkeys for the *mother* and they've tried to destroy our marriage too. His mother & family put me (us) through a LOT things most people would not even believe--although anyone reading this comment would believe it since narcissists are capable of unimaginable evil. So at this point in my (our) journey most of the drama is behind us but my 97 year old mother-in-law STILL tries to manipulate my husband by guilting him if he doesn't call her at least once a week. So pathethic. But hey she's 97 so the end is near--tick, tock! lol :)

[thatgirlspamm]

This is so sad how many woman are going through this …. I lost two people in my life this year and when me and my husband decided to get married she did everything in her power to ruin it. She said negative things about me and my family when we opened up our home to her and were genuine towards her. Says slick things by throwing rocks and hiding her hands. For my husband to say she’s changed but then turns around and says shady things. Who knew one person could cause such problems in a marriage. It’s been hell on wheels with her! And don’t let me come around in a tube of lipstick ! It’s jealousy especially if you look good !

[clairemason]

My mother in law said to me on my wedding day she would prefer I had a better education in front of my family my aunts laughed and said Claire has 2 degrees .. my mother in law stormed out.

[np]

My MIL accused me of making him move when he had already been in this state for six years. She went so far as to make calls to him when she knew I was not home. He never stood up for me throughout her cruelty, including inviting only him on trips and saying our son did not look like anybody in their family. You can assume what happened. I threw him out. She may think she has won, it is actually me who won by getting rid of the two of them.

[Kalina]

At our wedding my MIL told all my bridesmaids that she was losing her son to “another women” (me). It has been 9 years since that day and she is still awful! My husband doesn’t see it. I can see how these things cause divorce. These people ruin relationships.

[np]

I must add if your husband does not want to hear about his narcissitic mother, he will never stand up for you.
He won't stay in therapy either. It is best to get out as fast as you can. He will always side with his mother.

[Ridiculi]

My MiL is a 4'11" troll who calls/texts him every day, still buys underwear for him, still cooks food for him, and asks him to get her things like hormone cream, etc. They are both DISGUSTING.

[marydonovan]

You described my late MIL. She was one of the homeliest women I ever met. I married her Golden Child when I was 16 and in the family way. She abused me verbally, and I was too fearful to stand up to her. Her Golden child walked out on me when I was 32 and had my 7th child as a baby on my hip. Best thing that ever happened to me. I went for help in a 12 Step program for families. There I got my healing. It took a long time, but I was abused for a long time. Interesting, I was blamed for Golden Child excessive drinking, but he got even worse with the other young woman.