Why Does A Narcissist Keep Coming Back?

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Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook.

Platforms I am on:

[Imnotyourdoormat]

The perpetrator always returns to the scene of the crime...kinda.

[terriwhalen]

I have also noticed they prefer to speak on the phone versus texting so they can control the conversation, manipulate it.

[leahgannon]

Sounds like a lot of games, no wonder it makes you crazy, I never knew when he was serious o😢r toying with me.

[kellithomas]

So true! I lived this for almost 13 years, STUCK!! The trauma bond is real and it’s a daily fight! Especially during healing. It does get better though. I promise!! ❤️

[Lee-upbz]

That vending machine analogy is pretty good

[sheiladay-odme]

Your explanations for why a narcissist keeps coming back helps me make sense of his behavior. He appears to have a narcissistic flying monkey who is also really sick. Thank you so much for this video!

[sheiladay-odme]

I am curious about the fact that you say that narcissists cannot change, yet you are a self-aware narcissist who has changed.

[sheiladay-odme]

I have never had any ruminations and am living well. He is not in my life now. This so-called relationship was a 5-month period of deceitful interactions on his part to try to extract behaviors from me that I refused to participate in. He cannot do anything to contact me. The door is locked and dead-bolted. Thank you for this video.

[GodDOESNTCHANGE]

The keep coming back is always about power, and gaining leverage. Spot on

[leah]

Or when they block you first, so they control when we can talk. I have him blocked on everything, but anytime I search him on Facebook to block him, he doesn’t come up! He strategically blocks and unblocks me to send messages or I have a missed fb call, then I am blocked again. It’s our last and only connection, and only messages when I am finally moving past my feelings for him, so frustrating, their plan works!

[NathanSegal]

I have made it clear I don't want to see her. I didn't intentionally leave any door open. The narcissist went around my blocks, which really passed me off. I went full no contact. I never shadowed her social media, nor contacted her in any way.

[pauladuncanadams]

It's like Dracula, you have to invite him in.

[deniserandall]

He married his main supply and is happy with her. He is dead to me. No contact and no response equals no hoover or coming back.😊

[cherisew]

It’s hard to divorce yourself. Or dump yourself. Because you were just saying yourself in that love bombing phase. But nah, this time I’m do resilient. I’m over it thank you.

[mandyavalos]

Brilliant analogy Ben 👏 comparing me to a vending machine! That got my attention!