Should you forgive infidelity?

Infidelity is a noteworthy dealbreaker for any relationship, but is there EVER a chance for redemption?!

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[italianozuzu]

Once a cheater always a cheater ! I forgave my gf and years later she still chatting with a male friend and erasing his text messages ! It's better to leave and get a new person .

[jayman]

you can only consider staying if the perpetrator or cheater
1. Acknowledges their fault, shiws genuine remorse and acknowledges the hurt and damage they gave done. Thats just the first little step
2. The perpetrator may seek forgiveness but it comes hand in hand with trust, the more you rebuild the trust between you the more forgiveness you receive, nit a simple yes i forgive you or no, it could take months ir even years to get close to where you were before you decided to hurt your partner.
3. Part if regaining that trust is making ammends, move mountains to reassure the victim in the relationship and make them feel special again and give tgem the confidence yoy wont cheat again

Those are three basic but painful steps the perpetrator must take to redeem themselves

[ronaldpina]

HELL NO!!! There is no coming back from such a personal betrayal! NO FORGIVENESS should be afforded what's so ever! Walk away, run away, get the hell out, before an STD is transmitted, that cannot be cured!

[AramK]

Once a cheater always a cheater. I forgave mine once. She continued to cheat on me until she finally got pregnant. 17 years of my life wasted. Don’t be an idiot. Leave. Even if they won’t cheat on you they will never respect you again.

[chrisz]

Being cheated on is the most hurtful and disrespectful action a partner can do to another. Unfortunately forgiveness is a must for healing. Forgetting not so much, and staying is a definite no. A lot of self-respect is necessary in this situation.

[DonZimmerman-fzdu]

Trust is "Humpty Dumpty". When a partner bumps Mr. Dumpty off the wall, that's it. All the kings horses & all the kings men cannot put him back together again. Their aggrieved party will never escape the suspicion deceit has burdened them with. They will not escape the fact that the sight of their betrayer will inescapably cause them to see their partner in flagrante with another person. Their imagination will become the greatest enemy of the betrayer. Z

[cosmologybey]

Do you think you'll ever be able to trust the same?

I think you can ‘rebuild’ but I think it will never take away the gut wrenching knot everytime they're late coming home from work or their phone goes off.

what about if they're acting even a little off ?

I believe they can be as transparent as they possibly can but it will never be enough. Damage is already done.

[BeautyNeedsAWitness]

❤❤❤ " what you allow, persists"...

[mstriciaturner]

I think your mind will be searching for details either way. I don’t agree with keeping details secret. I think disclosing can build trust.

[coachchrisschuk]

There are many soul mates for ourselves in this world, allowing to deal with people who cheat on you only attracts what you think you deserve. Better to become the person you want to attract and find that person.

[eccomiqua]

Betraying is escaping responsibility, escaping boredom, feeling someone's centre of attention, feeling entitled to attention, care, courtship, it is choosing a bubble of emotions and connection without distractions. It is about nourishing yourself, about receiving more than giving.

[michaelvazquez]

if someone cheats they never loved you!!!

[cosmologybey]

There's really no guarantees that a relationship can survive cheating🥺.

However if both, you and your spouse is willing to work on rebuilding trust, it is definitely possible. Look at Jay z and Beyonce ❤️

[hunorberei]

I completely agree with u! I don't think that any member of the relationship needs go as drastic to cheat on her partner just wakes her up that something goes wrong in the relationship! I think if a relationship got flat, there are some many other ways to shake it up! First of all to talk, to communicate with your partner about your desire, about the things which bothering u on daily basis. And I believe if your partner love u indeed, gonna lessen to u, if u communicate on the right way to make him or her understand, that is a serious issue and could drive to a broke up. And at least in this way u give the chance to your partner to changed if he or she whiling to do so! As every relationship is about the compromise. We have different core, that's what drives most of the couples to each other. They complement each other, but time to time this differences can turn off the other. Sometimes can be too much. Than u need to realise that ok, now I need to focus onto my partner needs to and make compromises. But if u don't realise, that something wrong, then at least your partner should have to seat down with u and tell u. However if u still don't understand, and u thing what u do is the right way, than don't be surprised if she or he leaves u! But at least u got the chance! If somebody doesn't give u this chance and just cheat on u, once or continuously, that person is think is not for u! You doesn't mean enough for them! And to be honest to accept back a person who was whiling to go so drastic, without to first try to seat down and try to fixed with u, is a week person, and doesn't desire an other chance! Obviously I'm saying this if the relationship wasn't toxic, just got flat!

[beautytony]

What if it happened 5years ago and he just found out before getting married?

[chilloften]

I cannot imagine not seeking comfort & peace & simplicity and so I don’t comprehend infidelity.

[nappyhead]

I was with this until you said "it's not about sex"
HOW THE HELL IS IT NOT?!?

[Scott]

Forgiveness is NOT a reason to stay! YOU can forgive but to stay and think all will be better is delusional! Resentment, doubt and betrayal are strong emotions that are only triggered by awful acts.Heres a concept why not talk to your partner BEFORE cheating and work on things?? Nooo that wouldn't be fun now would

[marebennett]

A major factor is clear communication with each other and if you have an issue with each other then talk to each other about what you are feeling. That would most likely fix that problem.❤🙏🏾

[caitlindewitte]

Great video! I think every relationship is different but you hit the nail on the head with killing complacency. 👍🏼