What Are The Stages of Recovery From Infidelity? #AskATherapist

What Are The Stages of Recovery From Infidelity? #AskATherapist //

What are the stages of recovery from infidelity and what are the signs marriage is over after infidelity? If you're wondering how to walk away from a cheater or, do marriages last after infidelity, watch this video.

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[MtuckerGoBlue]

2 years of her infidelity and she fixes the marriage by telling me to not talk about it. I'm just ruining our weekend, holding grudges, not forgiving her.... blah blah blah.... 7 years, hardly a word. She just lives on like nothing ever happened.

[lmfisher]

I am literally suffering the physical effects of infidelity betrayl trauma now.

[tizonaaa]

Its has been 16 years since my husband cheated on me, and it's just today when I found the picture of the girl, accidentally saw her profile on Facebook. The pain is still there, I am no longer mad but I think no amount of years will be able to help someone to remove the pain.

[reneeschnarr]

It’s not just the fact that my ex had an affair. While it was going on he was extremely critical and verbally abusive. I also discovered that he was trying to buy his girlfriend’s house (this was during the recession just before the housing disaster. We were both military families and she needed to sell her house but no one would buy it) He also bought her concert tickets among other things. Being in the military makes it very easy for one partner be unfaithful believe me. Whenever I tried to confront him or get him to talk about it he accused me of being paranoid.

[cmockingjay]

Don’t do the pick me dance. I forgave and went forward to work out the marriage and five years later she cheated with a coworker! Cheaters don’t change trust me!!! They are broken!!!

[teresat]

It’s 15 years and still suffering I have not dated or moved on I don’t trust or even looked that betrayal hurts

[FlordeAires]

Thanks for sharing this, when I google about infidelity I always find about cases infidelity and how come back, but not when you don't want to come back.

[chelseabrookes]

I’m honestly only here to try understanding my mother. Recently my siblings and I found out my father cheated on my mother and had a child with someone else. This really helpful! Thank you

[mattk]

Thanks for the tips Jonathan! As a mental health counselor in my final year of training, your videos are always informative and a great foundation to build on for my cases. I was cheated on a couple years ago and, while I have moved on from that relationship, I wasn’t sure how to process it at the time and didn’t properly recognize it as the trauma that it was. I appreciate your videos on this topic, as they affirm the difficult emotions surrounding that event and help on the occasional days it especially bothers me

[mallorystewart]

At this poin I think pain will never go away

[jimnicosia]

This is only for couples who are still together but what if you arn't?

[xmueusl]

Substances. Drugs. And not putting your trust into a single living soul.

[ITSRAYANNNN]

How could anyone want that person back after they've given their body to someone else? They're tainted.. they've lost all their.. that's just gross. They chose someone else over you. Especially when they had no problem doing so..

[Kiri_-soei]

What exactly counts as some form of infidelity? Giving another woman special attention and gradually shutting me out, does that count?

[mallorystewart]

"Love and trust are two different things". Yes, I do love him but I can't trust him anymore. I won't trust a man again.

[tamirobo]

Found out 2.5yrs ago about wife affair that started almoat immediately after our marriage ... still hurts so much.

[dinukshishiyarabandaranaya]

Atonement... What if the cause is the partners addiction to porn since a teen? The cause of which was probably inability to manage his emotions, plus high expectations from parents, micro managing dad. Atonement has nothing to do with the other partner. Increasing I am seeing that you need good ingredients to make a cake. More than couples therapy, I think you need to focus on individual therapy for atonement to work

[DonSaly]

How to start atonement for a couple in a long distance where one broke trust and denies, while the other tries the same after, and does not try to hide it, while discovering that while there is erotic component possible, there are no emotional components left for any relationship out there. In fact the calmness, feeling at home and being one, was ripped out violently and replaced with a emptiness, a hunger so large, that nothing was able to fill it place, the only way was dampen with food (a cooping mechanism used and thoughted by parents), that made cope. Been years and mass nearly doubled, while all motivation is dead, alive but not living.

[Onelightoftheworld]

My husband and were separated. He thought I was done and someone slipped in and he had felt unloved by me for a long time. Both of us are to blame but I knew that we’re still married. We’re working things out and I have to remember that he choses me. He would’ve NEVER done this had I not done what I did. He’s not a cheater. We truly love each other. There’s a lot more to this story but I feel like we should go to therapy together.

[selinarenz]

It all about what you want not want the Partner wants .

Its not more.
All other words is playin.
Thats why all say dont Marry for love.
You ever have had somebody h
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Who have had told you that?
Me saw and understood by own life experiance.
Ok nobody came to me and fixed something