Why Do Narcissists Always Fight? #narcissist

[finallydone]

they love chaos drama confusion and divisiveness

[petergriffiinbirdistheword]

They love baiting people into fights and then accusing you of being the one to start them.

[millyardopeacecraft]

There is always something they need to destroy. Always. Once the behavior has been revealed make an exit plan to leave. Nothing is worst than narcissistic abuse

[jananabanana]

My older sister Val was easily bored and she'd cause an argument just cause she was bored. To this day I VALUE peace and quiet above ALL ELSE...!!!

[ritamccormick]

They use one of the oldest trick in the book. Start an argument out from no where to have an excuse to leave. They have pent up anger and need someone to lash out on. They need to control their temper and handle themselves in an adult manner.

[butterfly]

You are so right. When I had a great day he would pick a fight and then leave and ghost me. I was so confused and hurt. Then when he came home I would ask him what happened and he would tell me I should know. I became scared to share any of my joy with him. He was never happy for me.

[bluebird]

Absolutely, EVERYTHING was a fight. EVERYTHING...

[angelacollett]

Yes! You've described it perfectly. I've became very ill the past year and it showed how much I really meant to him and it's too boring for him. Thank you for sharing these videos!

[sinovuyobudaza]

My ex and I once had an amazing day. My ex kept on asking me why I'm so happy? I didn't think much of his question even though he kept on asking me. He eventually got up threw his hands up and said, "I know when things are too good something bad is going to happen". He continued to storm out of my apartment leaving me puzzled and confused.

[SiNNeRsTANgo]

Omg this explains everything!!! My ex would pick every moment when I was calm or having a good day to just pick something to accuse me of. Then try to force me to say i was sorry but when I would say idk what you’re talking about but im sorry I hurt your feelings she would flip it to make me be the gaslighter. Even she was the one who made up an issue on the spot.
One time we went shopping and she picked a fight with me because I corrected her on the color mask she just bought. Keep in mind the entire day was full of jokes and having a great time and this one moment of calm she just picked a fight in a mall😑 these people truly suck. I’m almost glad they’re miserable inside

[michellemarch-collier]

My husband tries to argue about anything or cause a scene in the grocery store. I walk away n make him look for me. Poor little thing reminds me of a child screaming for candy that will make them sick but want that candy anyways. Kinda like a kid when you tell them no. He has had somebody's Big Mama and 5 of her friends surround him in the store. These beautiful women told him, regardless of skin color and being related by blood, NEVER bully this lil lady or any other female because we will stomp you in the ground and go back to shopping. F around and find out. Call it woman power. We stick together." He didn't say a word to me for 3 entire hours.

[livelaughlove]

oh, yes, I. agree with you, because my ex is exactly that way. Always starting an argument just out of the blue.

[jc_]

Yes, they got bored very easily, can’t enjoy peace, they’ll be frightened when everything is fine unless the focus is on them.

[deborahculp]

you are an amazing analyst..I am a retired health care clinician with certified/specialized training ( for decades)
yet unskilled to deal with an narcissistic personality disorder.
I am so very grateful for your professional insights/interventions.❤

[shehnazhassankeshwani]

Yes..my partner just picks a quarrel
For no reason..esp when I am cheerful.omg..whenever you narrate
I have witnessed all of these

[saloninegi]

I could just be sitting peacefully minding my own business, reading a book maybe, and the attack would come from nowhere. Worst of all, it sounded rehearsed. This was my mother, and it lasted for decades. worst of all, my brother followed in her miserable footsteps. I have gone almost know contact, first moving to distant cities, and finally to another country. I feel very, very sad for my wonderful dad that he had such a miserable, violent, abusive wife.

[susanstone]

Mine needed a break up every 3 months. Making up was the best time for him because he regained control by me allowing him back. It’s over now because I said so and it feels so good!

[jenniferyates]

Yes yes ... I have a happy dispersion, my husband was picking fights to bring me down, to get a reaction. He was bored . Good video so true.

[brandonharvey]

absolutely, I'm not one to look for arguments and she would use word salad and appear not to comprehend or want to cooperate. Even with a child involved. she tried to control the narrative which came to no avail.

[Peakokfethr]

Currently experiencing this. There is no direction I can go in where I haven’t pissed him off. Just yesterday I gently shared that I needed to go be with my son and his dad to discuss valuable things related to his growing situations as a teen. It was a very productive evening and I was able to bond with my son. I got a text around 10ish from the narc, berating me bc I went too long without texting him and immediately without any response from me, gaslit me. I ignored his text cuz without even reading it, I knew he was picking a fight. Sure enough when I opened it, there it was. I replied with an attempt to curb him and he charged again. So I curbed him again and refused to engage at the moment. All with an accusatory cheating connotation. The sad thing, is I’m expecting his twins and have been faithful the whole time. I am very aware of what he is and have been arming myself. Please pray for my successful exit.