The Truth About Narcissists: Why They Argue And How To Deal With Them

#narcissist #narcissism #toxicrelationships The truth about narcissists is, that you will never be allowed to be right. In this video, I will discuss why they argue and how to deal with them. If you have ever loved a narcissist, you ultimately learned that you were not permitted to have a voice or to have an opinion, and you certainly were not permitted to challenge a narcissist.

If you are paying attention to the Johnny Depp defamation trial with Amber Heard, you are observing narcissism play out on a world stage. Temper tantrums, verbal assaults, tirades, and aggression, seem to be what their toxic relationship was all about. If you know a narcissist in your life, it is best to NOT react to them or to argue with them, although arguing is what they do best. Narcissists argue because it is one of the ways they get to maintain dominance and control in relationships.

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[garyshields]

Never argue with anyone who believes in their own lies.

[narcissism-masterclass]

Sometimes the best way to argue is to refuse to argue. Just say nothing.

[dadiva]

My ex was a covert narcissist. From the outside looking in, he appeared quiet and gentle. Behind closed doors, he was extremely passive aggressive and argumentive, always nitpicking, trying to fault with me all the time. He would fabricate things that never happened or insist I said things that never came out of my mouth to try to win an argument. I thought I was going insane! He had to win the argument no matter what. He would never admit to being wrong about anything, never ever apologized, and took no accountability whatsoever. Facts don't seem to matter to narcissists. I found myself walking on eggshells, just trying to keep the peace, anything to avoid another argument. It was to the point where I was constantly defending my character, to him, and only HIM, and it was the first time I've ever had to do that in my 40+ years on this earth. That's when I knew I was dealing with a narcissist. I left and never looked back. I still get chills just thinking about it.

[darkndlovly]

Crazy! Literally fifteen minutes ago he tried to argue with me for no reason, but I didn’t respond. I didn’t even acknowledge it… just over it all. Hopefully he leaves sooner rather than later!

[laurelvance]

On target. So, so true. Argue, gaslight...argue some more, gaslight some more. Complain, accuse, blame....He wears me down. Depletes me of my energy. I'm left void and empty nearly every single day.

[julanre]

This is Excellent Lisa.
My heart goes out to anyone who has had the narcassist IN the family - even harder - under the same roof.
When you're finally free of them you want to Shout for Joy - Kiss God's Beautiful green earth - and get on your knees and pray to Him that you Never encounter another "human being" like THAT.
Let Your Light Shine Lisa !!

[angieRN]

It's the craziest thing I have ever encountered and it blows my mind. Thank you so much for sharing this message.

[roxydee]

Interestingly, I've been on a bit of a rant this past weekend about how the concept of "sticking up for yourself" by verbally "biting back" is not always effective. It can give a Narcissist way more fuel, because no matter what you say or do, they have a self-serving comeback at the ready.
I have found the grey rock technique works far better in many situations, like a "review" from a Narcissistic boss.

[jeanaallison]

He started it but why am I apologizing?
🤯🤯🤯

[byron]

Narcissist loves to argue, that’s their one hell of narcissistic supply, of course they have to always win and have the last say on it! Their hearts are hardened and their minds are close to reasoning and understanding and reality of things! K

[DrChickwit]

Thank you for helping us prepare for a world becoming highly narcissistic. Thank you for giving us a scope to heal. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experiences with us.

[brittnytorres]

You could even show your friend a text proving she said to meet at 7 and they would STILL deny it.

[moniquecopeland]

I finally let my toxic narcissistic gaslighting partner go after 14 years. I just got so sick of him wanting to argue about everything and gaslighting me all the time. So glad to be rid of him. I loved him so I put up with it for a long time but finally he showed me exactly how crazy he was and that was it for me. No more. My ex did everything you said here…baited me until I lost my cool and then he would say I was the crazy one. He never ever in 14 years apologized to me for anything and blamed me for everything. He would take confidential information about things that happened to me in my past and throw them in my face and then berate me when I was hurt or would cry. In 14 years he also never Took responsibility for his actions. He was always right and I was always wrong. What a complete douche bag! Thank you for all of the great information on this particular subject

[Ksflowerchile]

He would say, " Okay, today I don't want no foolishness "...
Me either!
As soon as I'd see him, he'd start an argument!! 🙄🙄🙄

[rossanderson]

They damage your brain. Too much of some chemicals that go in your brain causes memory loss. If you get brain fog sometimes after arguing with them, it’s not a good sign. Also, if you get angry, anger is a secondary emotion and like one Greek philosopher said anger is contagious.

[firegirljen]

Last time I said “I don’t wanna argue with you”, he said, “well it happens all the time!” When I suggested this might be because of he is behavior, he walked off. So, there ya go

[theMoviesconcernng]

my ex was a narcissist and to this day i await Gods judgement for hating her so much now.

[alexandriascott]

Truth 💯! That’s why I stay quiet and don’t engage in anything with people who want to start stuff or do or say things that are toxic, negative or against me. I stay in my own lane and mind my own business and pay no mind to individuals who want to spread rumors talk crap be disrespectful rude argue fight debate misjudge or assume anything on me and my character without getting to know me by spending time with me to garner a relationship.

[nicoleraheem]

My mother tries to gaslight me about how she abused me as I child.

I remember how she would pull me hair and punch me when she was angry.

One of those times, She punched me in my lip when I was 9 years old.

Luckily she did this in front of my uncle because now, she says she never done this and that I'm being delusional.

She says I'm toxic (after I called her this) and that I want people to feel sorry for me.

I started to doubt myself even though I knew for sure this is what she did.

I called my uncle to verify it and he said that he remembered that. He said he doesn't know why his sister is denying It when he was there and he also mentioned how she cut my long hair short when I had gum stick in it, even after he suggested a few home remedies to have it removed.

Speaking of hair, she has my sister thinking that I'm jealous of her because she has long hair, even though I cut my hair damn near bald every year, by choice.

I'm tired of her but at the same time it sucks because she's the only person I have. I don't even have friends because I always seem to make friends with people who don't care for me as much as I care about them

[Turkatron]

Growing up with a covert narcissist mother has been extremely exhausting, and that might be an understatement. This is reassuring information, and will be useful navigating out of my current distressing environment. It's destroyed my laughter, my cognitive development, school, relationships with others, ext. It's so abrasive I sometimes question myself when I start yelling from anxiety and fear. I can't stand arguments, and every conversation I get sucked into the black hole. I want therapy, and these videos help.