Don't Chase Love Why it's Time to Value Yourself in Relationships #jonathonaslay

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- Don't Chase Love Why it's Time to Value Yourself in Relationships

[milliondollartrooper]

It's my job to love myself first, find my own peace, shine a light on the parts of me that needed healing. I can hold my head high now. Year four of singlehood. I turned 47 today and I'm truly happy and grateful❤

[celiaescalante]

I agree. Don't blame yourself. Don't blame anyone.

You can't let yourself blame anyone. When a relationship has a challenge, it becomes stronger. When it breaks down, it was just not a strong relationship at all. A team has a mission.

Attachment can cause the insecurity to make someone feel regret and a bully to say, "your fault and you'll regret it." Be careful ladies. That's manipulation and it keeps you in a type of virtual harem for one very bored man.

[patty]

...or relationship failed because you yourself were not a good partner. We have to know what part we played in it, so we can improve and grow.

[Bb-kgd]

Exactly! And if applies to everyone. Relationships end because they were not in love with you or they felt out of love with you. (period) Not because they suddenly realized they had some childhood trauma they had to resolve 😏🤫

[mariedropkin]

“Tends, ” okay. Sometimes a person ends a longer term relationship because they are avoidant, and really do love their partner but commitment or permanence becomes scary. In any event, both partners deserve to understand why things fell apart, and why one didn’t want to attempt to repair the breach. If things seemed good and the breakup was unexpected by one partner, they may NOT feel like they did anything wrong or that there’s any thing wrong with them, but a conversation can bring insight into behaviors they need to work on for the next relationship. Maybe growth can occur in the relationship. People separate (to varying degrees) and get back together all the time.

[corettagreene]

I totally agree. One day at a time and allow things to manifest . If it’s not working, move on. I just don’t believe waisting peoples times. Try it and if it doesn’t work, don’t take anything personal, just move on. It can not be that complicated or is it? Let’s talk about it.

Thanks for sharing this with us. Love it❤️✌🏾

[Ruth-vyqj]

A person got the right to end a relationship if not meeting their needs. If the relationship went on for a while if there were some problems hopefully they told the person some people change and some take people for granted.

[celiaescalante]

Well, that's when you have to grieve the loss. Hopefully, it's an amicable separation.

[celiaescalante]

I neither agree nor disagree. Some people want to be convinced because they lack information on how to imagine blending lifestyles.

Once there is proof that love isn't enough, then it ends on its own.

Just end it with kindness.

End the relationship without burning bridges. You can lose the attachment, regardless. Some people want a fight and fall into hard feelings. That's fine for some, but you don't have to play into someone else's affinity for drama.

[latifahamra]

He cheated, he was a man over the age of 58, tons of female friends, it annoyed me a lot, I believed him When he said oh they are all just “friends” but when I found hidden text messages he was having that were vulgar I left.
I couldn’t deal w the nonsense anymore. Mind you we were in a committed 3 yr relationship, clearly he wasn’t all in.

[Annabelle-ne]

I seriously think you should make a video no I'm sorry, a few video reminders about this topic. It's so true yet so hard. Thank you

[lorisutherland]

What do you do about the person who keeps leaving and coming back like it’s for the making up that’s fun . Or for wanting to go do something else then they come back when they are done having fun.