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We all know we won’t connect with everyone we meet . . . but one of the most frustrating situations we can find ourselves in is one where we feel an initial spark and a connection, but things just don’t seem to progress. And in the end, they end up fading as we feel a lack of momentum.

Rather than giving in to our desire to double down on communication, there’s a simple shift we can make on a date that allows unique attraction to grow. And it’s the kind of thing that will leave them thinking of us long after the date has ended . . .

If you’d like to learn what this ingredient is and how you can add it to your next date, don’t miss this week’s brand-new video.

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0:00 – 1:05 – “Are Flirting and Good Communication at Odds?”
1:05 – 2:44 – Why There’s No Second Date
2:44 – 4:41 – Contrast Creates Attraction
4:41 – 5:46 – Unique Pairings
5:46 – 7:09 – When Jameson Knew We Were Going to Be Friends
7:09 – 9:12 – Finding Your Unique Pairings
9:12 – 11:03 – The Two Questions to Ask Yourself

[suriyamohd]

You reminded me of how I've gone from being this "serious intellectual" girl to an open, fun, humorous and slightly flirty person. And the change started after I stopped looking for love outside of me and started pouring all that love into me. Learnt from my past mistakes, started working on my own self, feeling happy with myself and giving myself everything that I used to give others. When you realize that you are worthy of love and that others don't need to validate how good a soul you are, you'll become the person that anyone would love being around. You'll become a magnet without even trying.

[sadiaali]

Indeed, don’t chase. Know your worth and know that you deserve to at least be met half way. If they won't match your effort, they don't want to be in your life ❤️

[rahmakawtar]

I followed your advice from one of the great videos " no contact period " after 30 days I realized I don't want him in my life anymore.
I really thank you from the bottom of my heart you are helping so many people here ❤️

[sarahhey]

He's just not that into you. If he wanted you, he'd persue you. Simple. Just move on to someone that likes you for you and don't waste time hoping for something that is not reciprocal.

[cocomu]

That’s why teaching children about self-worth at a young age is extremely important.

[clarahauser]

Can I just give a compliment about how your videos are scripted? Yes, there is very good advice but they are also entertaining with the comedy bits, great actress and the Jameson bit was gold. There’s just so much love and effort going into these videos, which is great. Hats off to you and your team.

[elenasobalvarro]

I tend to overwork my playful, flirtatious, very sincere muscle. I need to work my more mysterious, listening and reserved muscle. Thank you for this video Matthew.

[clarahauser]

My super power as a reporter is I start interviewing people on dates. Which makes the other person feel great and I learn a lot about them, but they don’t get to know much about me and at the end I don’t know if I actually like the other person because I focussed on how they feel instead of how I feel about them or if I like them. I have tried to stop doing that and leave room for awkward silence.

[Analysis_Paralysis]

So adorable, Matthew! It doesn't look awkward... :)
It feels like talking to a good friend, someone who is on par with his viewers, not above them. So cozy and relatable!

[silverreins]

Always be yourself. The right person will want to get to know you. Also your good communication skills are likely scaring away game players who are not at all worth your time or energy as a mate or as a “friend”. My suggestion over anything else to this woman would be to continue being herself and be patient. Don’t cave to the manipulation that society is trying to force on us women to get sexy before we know someone and play the games. IMO modern dating plays into most casual men’s hands instead of being empathetic to the fact that for most women to have a good relationship and sex life we need to feel safe and like we know the other person, because I believe flirtation comes naturally to most of us women when we develop a crush and feel safe.

[jcman-lplg]

in the end of the day watching videos aimed towards single woman and watching videos for single men all I can say is that we all seem to suffer from the same issues. Wanting someone who probably don't want us back, thinking whether or not we should chase, thinking whether or not the other person likes us, thinking whether or not to text them, thinking whether or not they are playing games.
I think at times it's not mind games but people getting the same advice from video's from different people. Or people doing the same thing to each other like "oh no I look too needy, step back abit make them come to me" then when the other person doesn't initiate first it feels bad. not knowing that the other person is probably feeling the same and doing the same to try and not look too needy.

[Chrissy.H]

Great message. And the girl who synced to your voice did a fantastic job!

[joanofarcxxi]

Dude, don't discourage people from having excellent communication skills and deep conversations. Encourage people do do just that. Because it's much more rare than shallow talk, being flirtatious, and taking matters too lightly. It's like people in the western world are scared of diving in and being hard core. lol Do it, people. Go deep. If someone is scared of that, they are not for you. I am not saying you can't have fun and flirt, no, no, no. But reverse the scene, be authentic, be bold, be fearless, and let the weak run, they are doing you a favor. I have always connected with people and I don't do small talk. I know that sometimes I am intimidating, but I don't prefer people who are easily intimidated anyway, because I have to be who I am and if you are not into that, then go in peace.

[alanaprem]

This was a really brilliant and well explained video. As someone who goes balls deep into the soul too quickly I can see that my intensity can be scary and balancing that out with other aspects of my personality is important to show early on.

[lorrainecarolart]

I like that mindset. It keeps you guessing about the person in a good way.

[BlackNella]

I like how you had someone reenact the asking of the question

[Marli]

I remember the exact moment I decided I like so many of my friends, it is always a nice feeling to remember why we choose people.

[simplekill]

My problem is, I can only be flirtatious with people I'm not interested in, because ''I don't care''. As soon as I like somebody, I'll be more bland than a pot of unseasoned pasta.

[sneharana]

I am really liking the way you are working with your videos, I have been following you since very long, and learned so much from you..😊Thanks alot...

[cjane]

My overdeveloped muscle: my ability to ask questions about the other persons and show interest
My atrophied muscle: speaking about myself