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If you treat someone like a celebrity, the many times they will treat you like a fan. The key to this is understanding that power dynamic and in this video I'm going to show you exactly how to switch that around so that they chase you. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness.

Now in this video I'm going to show you why chasing someone else is the problem in of itself and the energy dynamics that are going on. Anytime we are chasing someone and I'm going to show you exactly what to do and said because when you switch this around, it actually has the power dynamic work in your favor.

Now in general, anytime you are attracting a specific person into your life, a lot of times what happens is we end up putting them on this metaphorical pedestal, so we put them high up on this pedestal and then they are automatically further away.

Now in my own life, I've had many times where this has happened, especially early on when I began dating, I started dating and a little bit later in life, I was probably about 16 or 17. And I remember that one of my first girlfriends that I ever had, I really liked her. We started dating. And then what happened is she started to pull away.

She started to pull away and I started to feel that resistance and I would be thinking about, or I'd be wondering what is she doing? And I would kind of get in my head about it. Now what happened was this was a time when, uh, my, my dad divorced my ex step mom, for those of you that don't know my story, my ex step mom was emotionally, physically and mentally abusive and controlling. So my brother and I weren't allowed to have friends before that.

So all of a sudden, you know, when my dad divorced her at 15, 16 years old, now my brother and I are allowed to have friends. Now my brother and I are allowed to even date. So I had one of my first girlfriends and um, this was like a whole new world. And at the same time we started today, I started to put her on a pedestal and then I started chasing her, hoping that she would like come back to me and just like me and validate me.

Then what happened is I started to realize that, uh, I started to become friends with the new group within high school. So there was like a new group of friends that I started to be with. And at the same time, there was a couple, uh, you know, girls in that group that liked me and my brother, both of us, we were called the Doughty bros.

Now what happened was, is as that started to happen, my attention went away from the one that I was chasing. And all of a sudden she could feel that energetic pool of me not feeding her the attention and her, uh, and me not chasing her anymore. Well, I remember when that happened, she then started to become interested me again.

It was like she felt that energetic pool. And then I remember she would call me for like two or three weeks and I just wasn't as interested because now I have this whole new group of friends and I realized that there were many more opportunities than me putting this one person on a pedestal. And it was like two or three weeks of her colony calling me.

Then eventually it was just like we just, um, she kinda got the hint, got the picture. However, what changed was my own energy. Once my energy changed, that's when everything began to change with this process is I didn't view her on the pedestal. Plus I then wasn't being the cameo in her movie.

When it comes to attracting love into our life, if we put someone on a pedestal, what we do is we put them vibrationally separate from us. We say, I want you, I want you. And if you say I want you, it means I don't have, I don't have you. So, and you know, people aren't possessions anyways, but the idea behind this is that then we feel resistance.

We feel the resistance because we feel the lack of that person not being in our life. Now also think about the frame of this perspective when we come at it from the frame of I want you and I lack the love and I wouldn't want you in my life cause then I can love myself more.

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[veronicaatkins]

" if you treat someone like a celebrity they will treat you like a fan" love this quote

[RealKashTalk]

They always come back when you stop caring.

[nathanielwilson]

Chasing someone always feels wrong. No one is that important. The right person with the same vibration as you will come into your life.

It is amazing to have all of these comments and likes, especially all these years later! Thank you!

[anuragdeuri]

I lost 5 years of my life behind someone who never appreciated me. I only ended up hating and hurting myself. Trust me guys, it's not worth it. This video teaches us to appreciate and respect ourselves. Keep up the good work everyone.

[sal]

The person that cares less about the relationship controls the relationship

[darianrainey]

“Don’t you see when you’re chasing someone, the other person is running” woah

[nel]

Walk away that's self respect. Never beg for love. It will come in Gods perfect timing.

[faridhabibullah]

"Do you notice when anyone's chasing someone else, it implies that the other person is running?"
This really resonates with me

[ABG]

“You are the star of your own movie” yeah “Home Alone”

Thanks for all the likes and comments guys! I seriously didn’t think this comment would even reach this much recognition 😂 thanks again!

[sampreetiacharjya]

Basically choose people who choose you ... And choose yourself over everyone's else

[ErikaK]

Take them *OFF* the pedestal, relax and know that if it's meant to be it WILL be. *Surrender* and *trust* that everything is working out in your favor and things come at the *right time*
Nothing is ever *too* important

[christopherherr]

It's not about you not caring. It's just about enriching your own life. That's when people come across you and find you attractive, because you're on your own path.
It's about you. Once you got that confidence, then you see who is suitable to be a part of your journey

[ICE-ing]

Too bad it couldn’t be just like:

I like you, you like me. Let’s be happy. :)

[vershonc]

“If you treat someone like a celebrity, they will treat you like a fan.” Well said Aaron. Thank you for inspiring me to make videos 🙏🏾

[Ookami]

“Change your self image and you change your life.” 🔥

[dbedazzling]

Whoever left your life was not tied to your destiny. Let them go. Continue on your destiny. Better will come.

[CherylMuir]

To the person reading this:

You are so, so worthy of love ❤️

Edit: Keep up the loving vibes in the comments! What you give always comes back :) You're amazing!

[delmazio]

The bottom line is, focus to yourself. When you focus to yourself, your energy is yourself and you gain your power back. When you are in power, they will chase you.

[A.nasierkhan]

1. Create the fear of losing you
2. Avoid being always available
3. Maintain some mystery
4. Allow them to invest in you
5. Prioritize your needs
6. Don’t make them the center of your life
7. Stop initiating communication all the time
8. Create your own happiness
9. Be willing to walk away

[giovannaroma]

Whatever you chase, will run away..
When the energy is right and it is meant to be, it will happen naturaly.
No need to chase anything❤❤