Never Chase After His Attention, Instead DO THIS! | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

Mat Boggs shares relationship advice for women, why you should never chase after his attention, and what to do instead.

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Is your man picking up on “chase” energy from you? If you want to close the distance between the two of you, you’ll have to turn off that energy and do something entirely different.
Discover what by watching this video.
I’m sharing 3 actionable steps that you can take - right now - that’ll turn the tables and have HIM start chasing YOU.

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Mat Boggs Bio:

As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.

As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs? dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.

Mat's Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.

As a dating coach for women, Mat believes that your history does not determine your destiny, and that you are more powerful than any circumstance you are facing. The relationship dream in your heart really can become the life you love living!

Mat Boggs highly acclaimed relationship programs have served women around the world in all age groups.

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Written By: Mathew Boggs

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[Deb.L.]

What makes me stay centred when I like a man? I remind myself of my self-worth and boundary: I can like the person as he is and it has nothing to do with him liking me back or not. I come from a place of abundance, I find ease in this belief and relax. If he initiates and reaches out to me, great, I respond with warmth. If he doesn't, that's okay, I continue to find joy and create fulfilment in my own life. My happiness is not anchored on him, it is on me. "A bird sitting on a tree is never afraid of the branch breaking, because her trust is not on the branch but on it’s own wings" - I remind myself so, don't lose myself in a man, and to keep my wings strong by focusing to create the life I want.

[flomar]

Mindset:
1. You are the prize
2. Demonstrate, then validate.
3. It's him, or someone even better still.

[zege]

I will say that the right guy will take enough initiative that you will not even have the opportunity to chase him. I believe we end up chasing someone because they aren't pulling their weight and we feel unhappy and unloved in the relationship. An empathetic, loving and caring person would not leave you hanging and waiting when they know what you want.

[Kann]

I broke up with a man because he was constantly letting others interrupt our time. Calls, dates, visits, trips…it was all the time and I was sick of it!! I felt like an option not a priority so I ended it! I’m too old for breadcrumbs lol

[angie]

What helped me stay centered was deliberately choosing to enjoy and prioritze my blessings ie. my friends, church and my family. Knowing that a part of me really just wanted to run and give him all of me. It felt like going against the grain but it worked and turned out it was the best choice. Not to play games but to keep the mindset that if this doesn't work out between us, well I still have this amazing life ♡

[carlosverde-datingtips]

I agree with Mat - You should never chase after anyone…

if you chase after them, it’s only natural for them to run away - it’s human nature!

What you want to do instead is: “Take two steps forward, one back”, that’s the method you want to use…

meaning, when you give him attention, or do things to show him that you are interested - take a step back…

and see if he reciprocates - start doing the same…

because in order for any relationship to work, it’s going to have to be a two way street.

Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

[cilt]

What makes me stay centered is my relationship with the Lord. Every morning I spend time in Gods word, as well as communicating my needs, concerns, and desires in prayer to Him. It very powerful !!

[virginiaforte]

1 - Remember you are the prize
2 - Demonstrate, then validate
3 - It's him or even someone better still

[ozwomanid]

My amazing man found me. And while I could spend days with him, I don't want to lose the progress I've made loving myself. So I give him my weekends yet during the weekdays I'm painting, I'm working with Diamond Art, I'm bettering my home, by helping myself grow our relationship grows.

[FavouredLadyT]

It's him or someone even better still. Love that!

[nongtarnaka]

Just be friends with him haha. And keep being friend. One day from friend can turn to be something. Not guarantee 100% but after you be friends with him for a while you might realize he's not boyfriend material. And you're just chilling and got one more good friend. No need to chase. Because you guys are friends. It happens to me like this.
Some of them turn to feel attraction to me. Some of them become a good friend. No expectations. Just let things happen naturally. Be yourself

[sarayehia]

I give him space to miss me and let him to ask about me instead of taking initiatives.

[maddyG]

Honestly, I always find that I attract the men I want when I am in my lane, working on my goals, learning, caring about my health etc. It becomes easy to find men because I feel confident and relaxed. Anytime I am too focused on chasing men or trying to make myself fit into a mold of what they want, the ones I’m attracted to disappear.

[michellestrickland]

What keeps me centered when I lie a man is knowing that I'm the prize, while also hanging out with my family, friends and focusing on me. Even though I might really like him, I have to remember who I was before I met him and remain that woman. So I move in a Queen's manner; so because for me if he stays or go I'll be the woman that I always have been and I don't wait on no man to validate that, I know my self-worth.

[MasAllaTV]

What keeps me confident is being financially self sufficient and dating other guys.

[renee.ssance]

All the advice was spot on. What really made me take a step back and go "wait hold tf up" was when I was really thinking whether I liked him for HIM or just liked the IDEA of him (similar to your 2nd point). As someone who tends to see the potential in everyone, I always get carried away by my own thoughts and put people on a pedestal when in reality, they didn't even show any of the qualities I've labelled on them. Right now, school, my hobbies and work has made me occupied and reflective of myself. I think the best advice is to not put all your eggs into one basket - meet and interact with more people so that you don't get too invested into just one person and make them seem like your whole world.

[ladonnagalloway]

What works for me is. 1*Count my blessings and gratitude
2*Realizing I have the best life ever and list all the awesome things and people in my life like
a.My faith
b.physical therapy
c.dancing
d.learning ASL & Spanish
e.my awesome few friends
f.not homeless, hungry and able to care for myself🎉😊❤💖

[SongBirdheaven]

I remind myself to always have a goal, a passion, keep your friends close. That's what keeps me balanced. Just don't lose yourself. And make sure your relationship is with God first and foremost.

[cheryljones]

After watching this video, I realize that I'm SO guilty of getting both "too invested" & also "advancing credit" to a new man that I'm interested in dating... But I know it's not good, because I keep on ending up feeling frustrated.... I think it stems from being TIRED of being single for so long & always hoping things will "work out"! 😞

[kylawood]

What helps me stay centred when I feel attracted to a man? Dialling up all my self-care practices, especially meditation. Remembering that I am the most important person in my life, and giving of myself from that foundation. 🙏🏻💫✨