WHY HE EXPECTS YOU TO CHASE HIM!

[thelonewolf]

A woman who chases a man is running away from herself.

[stacy]

When you chase a man, you aren’t able to discern his true intentions. Be in your feminine energy: reciprocate and receive! If his intentions aren’t the best, he’ll leave real quick! DONT be a Pickmeisha!!

[claudine]

Dating is too exhausting. Lord I’m tired!

[dee-dyi]

If he allows you to chase him. You're not who he wants.

[knightwell]

He expects you to chase him because he doesn’t want you bad enough.

[d-nise]

The only thing I’m chasing are my goals and dreams 💅🏼

[GloriamMonarchia]

I've written down Derrick's moral of the story from the end of the video (3:56):

*_"Whenever you meet a guy who is leading you to chase him, don't be frustrated. Replace that frustration with appreciation that he is showing you exactly who he is, and how much different that is from the type of man that you deserve. Be thankful, he just saved you a whole lot of waste of time on down the road."_*

[deborahday]

Sometimes chasing is something we do unconsciously. Just value yourself and what and who is meant to come to you, will.

[AnnieinKC]

I don't care if he rejects me for not chasing him. Rejection is God's protection...

[toscadonna]

If he expects you to chase him, he doesn’t actually like you. And most of the time it has to do with their male insecurities, but occasionally it’s just about their arrogance and needing their egos to be stroked. It feels really great when the man leads you, and you can reciprocate. Men who truly understand the value of a woman realize that whatever he gives a woman, she multiplies what he gave her. Groceries become a meal, a house becomes a home, one sperm cell becomes an entire human being, etc. A little effort goes a long way for a man if he picks the right woman.

[manayermussaed]

Chasing may work.. but your value gets lower and he will wipe you with the floor, and take you for granted everytime. The fact that he KNOWS you want him, gets him so comfortable to the point where he isn’t scared of loosing you and he can act anyway he wants! Don’t chase. Periodt.

[ms.nhardin]

Men chase what men desperately want.

I asked all of my married male friends, "How long from the time you met your wife to the time you asked her on a date?"

MOST of them said 3 days. The rest would say "not very long!"

A man knows a good thing when he sees it. If he's not in your face, he doesn't see your value or he REALLY sees your value and knows he can't afford you.

[AlllSmiless]

That's so feminine to me. I like my men confident, assertive and proactive.

[dlavish]

Some people just don’t deserve you and it’s THAT SIMPLE.

[amandap]

He better hold his breath if he expects me to chase anyone. 🤣

[linrey]

These men have issues. Don't want them best stay alone.

[singerg]

Answer: Because he's trash

Coulda saved yourself 4 minutes, Derrick. 😂

[teenichy]

Single, but I pray for the patience to be in a healthy relationship where I am a priority, not a option. 🛐

[lisahurst]

When considering real LOVE there is no room for EGO!

[Zainygreenstone]

I would rather be alone. I stopped chasing long ago. Let the quality man reveal himself to me.