She’s Mad Because I Don’t Chase

What you should do if your woman is mad at you because she says you don’t chase her enough and is starting to back away.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who has been following my work since he was initially trying to get his ex-wife back. He moved on from her and for the past year has been dating a really hot, strong, confident woman. Lately she has been backing away because she says that he does not chase her enough and make her feel like a princess. They got into a fight at dinner over a drink straw and are hardly talking after she said she should find herself a new man who will treat her like a princess. He thinks he might have been too cold and distant and taken things such as not pursuing to the extreme by never calling or texting her even though she has asked for it several times. He asks my opinion.

“Love is about caring. Not only saying you care but also showing you care. Women know that if men really care they show it in addition to saying it. Men often mistakenly dismiss their women’s need for more affection and caring behavior by using logic and reason to justify their actions as proof they care. This makes women feel like they are not heard or understood. By women understanding that men need direct explicit logical instructions when describing what they need of their men, and men understanding that women tend to use feelings, emotions, examples and inferences instead of logic and reason to communicate their needs, they both will be able to understand and meet each others needs more effectively.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

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[returnoftheschaef]

I have a five-year-old son, and it is becoming more and more obvious to me every day that there is very little difference between his behavior and the average woman’s.

[daadirjeele]

This works more than I thought, I just started taking care of myself, hanging out with friends and stopped chasing her. Within week she realized that I’m not the same guy who I was. Now she’s fighting for my time saying how come you didn’t call me the whole week and you never asked me sex. She’s jealous now thinking I’m sleeping with other women, she’s really fighting for my time. Thanks coach

[williamtanneriv]

The subject matter of their getting mad is irrelevant. It is a test, and how we respond is what matters.

[clarencekeller]

Basically, you can't treat the girl the same way in the long term phase than when you were treating her in the beginning stages. You remain the same person and grow but the dynamics change due to time. Saw the same thing with a friend of mine, he's now single with a reputation of being a "cold fish."

[Sapphirepride]

Loving the no intro thing. Gets right to the video

[brianjohnson]

Thank you Corey ! Every relationship I’ve been in for the last 6 years has moved more effectively compared to before I read your work 10-15 times!

[rockboy]

They get mad when you don't chase, but when you chase they lose interest.
Pump and dump, the only way to go nowadays guys.

[lupinlllrocks]

It's a lose lose situation always no matter what

[najibzaoui]

women care about the man that doesn't care, and they want the man that doesn't care to care more. meanwhile they despise the guy that cares and are repulsed by the guy that cares too much. oof!

[ken]

If she looking for guys to chase her let them chase her and move on to the next girl who knows what she got and doesn't want all that bad attention

[legony]

This guy took Corey's advice to the extreme.

[mediumstarreadingsbymaryv]

ladies!!!! we need to stop saying "It's fine" Say what u mean and mean what u say. They know it's not fine cuz we show it in our behavior. ..duh

[teufelshunde]

I would recommend to observe how her and her mother treat her father, he could be catering to their every need, yet are they reciprocating or do they take it for granted.

[christopherarmstrong]

1:10 By women understanding that men need direct, explicit, logical instructions when describing what they need of their men - and men understanding that women tend to use feelings, emotions, examples, and inferences, instead of using logic and reason to communicate their needs - they will both know will be able to understand and meet each other's needs more effectively.
2:20 When you have lots of options, it's easy to tell the other person to bounce (paradox of choice).
5:20 The 5 Love Languages book
16:40 Affection love language vs. gift giving love language

[delvovic]

lol that end to your video, I'm probably the only Jamaican who has been watching your videos and reading your book, I must say you have helped me progress in life more the past 2 weeks than i did the past 2 decades, I know i'll continue to grow better and when i make it to the top I know I'll have you to thank for that

[brandonlamont]

you don't persue me enough

so let's take a break. logic.

[lucascapelao]

i'm so grateful for the way corey changed my mind. I thought I would always be the same loser guy that i was with my ex. I feel so powerful now. After a year she sent me a birthday message and i replied with a "thanks, hope everything is ok for you."
And that was it. 1 year of no contact. Found myself a new girlfriend and we are 1 year together. LOL (yeah i just dated her after my ex dumped me.) But i started to realize this girl im with now is the rightkind of girl.

[lyallwilliams]

Ladies getting a taste of their own medicine and definitely doesn’t like the taste of it 😂😂

[CB]

My ex (female lesbian) was like this. She refused point blank to ask me about my day, take any interest in my life, I realised she didn't care when I had a cancer scare, I waited weeks for her to ask about it, how I was feeling etc. That was 3months ago, I'm still waiting 😂 sometimes people just don't care and the sooner you figure that out, the better. Emotionally mature people don't play games. Ask for your needs to be met, give 3 chances, then move on.

[Evajeanfreedom]

Cory your advice is always genius, hilarious and down to earth. your advice kept me and my partner of a year and a half, together 😍