7 Nice Guy Behaviors That Are Just Anxious Attachment

Are your ‘nice guy’ tendencies actually signs of anxious attachment? In this video, we’re unpacking 7 common behaviors that might seem harmless but are rooted in anxious attachment patterns.

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[ericstrain]

If she doesn’t appreciate and honor me being nice then they can go pound sand. I think what is saying you need to have boundaries and I do agree with that.

[BigT]

Damnit! I'm tired of being the nice guy. But... Helping other people is what I do. Changing into a selfish bastard is not who I want to be. That's what it takes to keep someone, maybe I am better off alone.

[BloodyHeck]

I really wish people would stop using "nice guy" in a negative way. Yes, I understand everyone is trying to show he isn't really nice but still makes nice sound like a bad thing. The opposite being bad boy, someone who is usually irresponsible and only looking for a hookup, yet he's the one who is described as being desirable. Why? I identify as a nice guy and will remain one because I've seen the damage bad boys can do. And for the cause of a man becoming a "nice guy", it's usually the result of dealing with women. Women train or turn us into those things they're saying they don't want us to be.

[thomasrossi]

— Why do men have to ask for intimacy? Glad you found that story funny.
— Why is ok for women to “pout” around with out just saying what she needs?
— has this channel become manipulative? One video contradicts the next…

[BrettWB]

The last two points, I can see my old self in in a big way. I worked on both, focus more on myself, and I'm a lot happier. Hindsight and having someone articulate these points so well, helps to add closure.

[mbrsart]

For that last one, it's not always parents. For me, it's my grade school classmates. Peer rejection is just as effective as parental rejection at creating attachment wounds, and I feel like we really need to change the "It's always your parents" narrative. That concept should have passed with Freud.

[JeffreyReeves-shbg]

Thank you for your commentary. No one likes me, everyone is against me, so then therefore I won't be dating. However your commentary and thesis are to be remembered.

[kenhogle]

nice guys don't lose they end up being relieved of the trash that don't appreciate them. we just find another to be with. often the female finds out that even though they ruined the relationship they learn of the their replacement and try to at least try and repair the old relationship. there's less good available men then there are good available women..

[Papalegba]

When you're in a genuine equally giving relationship, yes you should always think of your special person and think about them in all of your decisions.

[eurodestination]

The link between your relationship behaviour and your childhood is very tenuous. Especially as you get older. Your current circumstances have much more influence on your relationships.

[rokzane]

Big big difference between "Nice Guy" and a genuinely good man, who is confident in himself and his place in the world, is kind and generous to those who deserve it, is not afraid to communicate and understands that everyone has and needs boundaries. "Nice Guys" are usually annoyingly ingratienting; it's like they don't believe they're a unique individual with inanate worth and look to others for validation.

[andyjones]

There is a diffence in being "nice" versus kind.

Main one for a guy is learn how to tell a woman "NO" when it is appropriate.

Being a simp or a doormat is a surefire way to give her the ick.

The thing most guys have to learn is how to love and respect themselves, until you can do that, DON"T bother with women.

[ericschmidt]

I’ve been a “Nice Guy” most of my life, in trying to recover these days. It’s very difficult to differentiate between being a natural giving person and not being a “Nice Guy”. It’s also difficult to feel not guilty about expressing my needs, and feeling strong about “My Self” and not being a Dick!!

[ForeverTogether]

Self-Love is great n having a partner whom loves you n you love him can happen… Selfishness should not be in your connection… We have wounds n Hopefully we are all working on them ☑️

[bertmunoz]

This advise is right up there with; if a man does not have enough money to give a woman her "dream date" he should not ask or he should make more money. A man should overcome his childhood trauma so he can bye flowers whenever she wants them? It has nothing do with the drinking he might do to overcome certain feelings? Or being trigger with certain comments or situations? I guess this is more of that sisterly advise.

[Noahcrusade]

An emotional connection is the only thing that lasts because its real.

[Jennthegreen]

I just realized im a nice guy.
Haha
Yet im a woman.
That's great.

[waynegood]

I am a nice guy and meet my wife at the apartment complex we lived at and now because of social media every woman is looking for validation

[ToddWrenn]

Chronic nice guy here. For 18 years my identity was husband. When my marriage began to sour, it was very depressing. I’ve recently discovered that God did not create me to be a husband. I’m still working on that discovery, but it’s been a huge help.