The REAL Reason Nice Guys Finish Last

In this video, I breakdown the “he’s nice BUT..." phenomenon so good men can stop getting friend zoned and start attracting high quality women.

Video Content ——

0:00 - Intro
1:04 - Why nice guys fall short
3:54 - The difference between a woman thinking: “He’s nice and I’m attracted to him” and “He’s nice but I’m not attracted to him”
7:00 - How can nice guys improve their love lives overnight
7:06 - Do something selfish everyday
7:50 - Say something she disagrees with
8:54 - Recap

[metsatroll]

"Women don't like selfish assholes" - and then proceeds to describe how women like selfish assholes :D

[mattw-cx]

The real problem is nice guys are unfairly labeled as weak or manipulative because they aren't like the abusive father you grew up with. Before you look for that next jerk, look for a good psychiatrist.

[TrueHunter]

As a man, being nice is such a good trait. The fact that women don't want anything with you opens up a lot more opportunities of doing whatever you want without needing to care about being attached to somebody. If you don't connect with someone don't worry, just keep doing normal life, achieving your goals and such, cause in reality the only thing you should care about is yourself, and most of the times somebody would come to your life with the perfect timing, to ruin what you have built.

Honestly speaking, when those women that think they are funny see there's no other way of getting somebody or the fun is over, then they go with those *nice guys* who, at the same time, are already done with that bullshit.

Seriously, do not give a fuck, live your life and be happy.

[BloodyHeck]

Based on my first wife, apparently it's because women prefer a drug addict who beats them.

[johnjunior]

Don't be nice all the time.when you nice she will take you kindness for a weakness.

[punkrocksrb]

So guys, don't be assholes, but be assholes 😂

[josiahmick]

Guys are avoiding women altogether now.

[sasapetroski]

I'am nice guy and that's perfect for me because when woman don't give me attention I can earn money for yourself and can travel around world without asking nobody, with 44 years old my health is perfect and I see my friends are jelous because I have many options to do everything 😊😊😊😊

[kashmirirose]

These modern women who say they want the bad boy do so, but usually for hook ups and casul sex. Once they hit 33-35 and they realize the bad boy passes them up for a 18 - twenty something y.o., they will then look for a nice guy who offers them stability.

[georgejyt]

Value yourself! This applies not just in dating life but also in every interpersonal relationships. The resultant circle may be small but it will be a high quality one.

[TravisForbes-jc]

Nice guys don’t finish last…. Single mothers do!

[flaviusbarbuia]

no the real reason is that ur not a 10 ft tall blonde curly haired blue eyed muscular full hair full beard ultra rich man

[JackFelker]

Better yet. If a woman says friend zone, or your a nice guy but, it’s time to walk away permanently.

[ChrisHaugenChannel]

I like the video, useful tips on self prioritization. I dislike the concept of "friendzone". It's like "don't make a mistake, don't text the wrong thing, don't be too nice" etc, or you'll blow it. Just be yourself.

[Lonstermash]

Gee, when I've flat out disagreed about things with my first dates, they often got argumentative and lost interest, realizing we were not compatible on topics they really cared about. Not saying I should have been a simp and agreed with them, just to keep up my chances for a second date. I'm just saying that disagreeing with your date will often lead to her losing interest in you.

[THECROW]

Don't get me wrong you got alot of very good information but last time I checked sometimes women don't give the best advice on dating women because most women don't even like other women for the most part and most women don't even know what they want but I love knowledge and will listen to anyone so as long as they speak the truth.

[dennisjames]

Just discovered your channel and am enjoying your videos. I used to believe being like Nice Guy Nate was being a gentleman, until I dated women who straightened me out. Self priority is extremely important. Great video, BTW!

[adameve]

Some people chose guys that are a bit rough bad boy type but end up being a battered wife and girlfriend with lawyers and 911 on their cellphone as a result very traumatic

[ABARANOWSKISKI]

I really needed this video. This was very helpful to me. I'm a "nice" guy, and I struggle with women. I've always thought, that it can't be that being a nice guy is what turns women off, because being nice is a positive thing. I can't change who I am, I'm nice, and will always be nice. But I can change other things, like how assertive, and confident, I am. Those are things that I can change, and I know I will see a difference when I make those changes to my life. Because what women actually like is confidence, and not just a guy who's a jerk.

[Ray-msvo]

Blaine, I just started following you on IG. At almost 44 years old I have very little dating experience and still learning.