7 Things “Nice Guys” Say That Turn Women Off

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[Edu-Mau]

"To attract women, do this or that".. am I the only one who gets tired just by reading this?

[xfxrxmxt]

After listening to these tips, ….. I concluded…. It’s not worth it. I’ll try and continue to enjoy my life alone.

[robertbeck]

Why do men have to jump through all these hoops to try and get a woman to be interested? Why is everything a guy says or does micro scoped, categorized, and labeled? What happened to liking a person for who they are? All this phony acting to attract someone is unsustainable for a long term relationship.

[albertespinoza]

It doesn't matter what any guy says nice or mean, social media has ruined every aspect of human interaction

[Brad]

Far too often, women pick guys were absolute assholes (manipulators, abusive), and then cry about how their life is a mess. It gets tiring, ladies. Make better choices.

[davidkevin]

Reason 6. Fellas, if someone consistently takes more than 24 hours to respond to your messages without a valid reason or effort to explain, it’s often a sign of low interest. Most people check their phones regularly, even during busy times, and someone who values you will likely prioritize replying or at least communicate delays. While occasional late replies can happen due to life circumstances, consistent lack of effort or engagement usually means they’re not interested. If you notice this pattern, it’s a good idea to move on instead of chasing someone who isn’t reciprocating your energy

[nykia]

“You’re so nice.” Often isn’t a compliment. What they really want to say is that you are not attractive, you’re not interesting and something about you feels “off”

[shadowtango]

Overall:
1. If you think you deserve something because you're nice is entitlement - Don't. Be yourself, be kind remove the sense of entitlement and live.
2. Don't be a constant yes man. Communication is clear, don't be combative/argumentative.
3. Don't overload on the excessive compliments - example 5:49 - 6:00. Be yourself, be kind and of course give compliments that are genuine like the looking good in with their hair, clothing, etc. Find balance
4. Over-apologising - example: 7:32 to 7:40 apparently gives a sense of insecurity of being unsure, etc. helpful tips 8:45 on wards
5. Putting yourself beneath her - Easy fix personally, you're human, everyone is human, we are flawed beings its how we are. Own it and understand that there will be people who deem themselves better out of ego never give them that satisfaction. of course listen to Courtney's advise as well treat each other as equals.
6. Overtexting/overinvesting too soon - with a new relationship go with cruising speed, don't spam texts/calls let things evolve naturally, live your own lives as well and be respectful as we are all busy.
7. Claiming you're not like other guys - kinda relates to the first point. it focuses more on the past relationship than the present relationship. Have your actions represent who are you as a person. Be YOU.
8. Be a Good Man your actions and words should be the same don't give yourself a title - like nice guy, alpha, etc. A Knight doesn't call himself a knight others do due to that persons mastery of ones self.

You are welcome. (I did add my own input and definitely watch the video as i just did a generalised version)

[mwtaytay]

Remember fellas, insecurity is a turn off to the people that can’t go out in public without using makeup to cover up all their flaws, 😂

[DannyLanders-kz]

Nice guys usually end up in the friend zone. Not a good place to be

[bigsauce]

No.1: be attractive and she'll thow all her standards out the window

[anthonyjordanmoviesandmore]

Over apologizing comes from a prolonged living experience where you're treated like a screw-up you're always living on pins and needles waiting to just get the blame for something and the apology is a defense mechanism

[TFmetoda-qnrn]

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2⃣ Use Magnetic Presence – Body language > words.
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[croliverh]

Every time it's the man who has to change, I can't even be a good person, anything I do a woman will think I'm interested in something. It makes me feel so tired, there is always something that takes away the value of what I genuinely do. I'd rather live my solitude than be a puppet.

[Braj_malviya_]

The fact that no one talks about the forbidden book Women Magic Lure by Calvin Reed speaks volumes about how people are trapped in a trance.

[onechopbuddy]

I’ve learnt to not worry about all this, just be authentic and be yourself.

[nicholasmosley]

While I certainly agree that most of these behaviors are not going to get you anywhere with anyone and are pretty annoying it is extremely evident that women are absolutely awful judges of character and 90 percent of it comes down to your attractiveness

[sanjeevgig]

WOMEN: You should BUY. US. DINNER. and be nice to us BUT do not expect anything from us.
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SAME WOMEN: That guy was "being nice" ... he must want something from me.
LOLZ

[mjcook]

If women find nice unattractive or boring that is their problem not yours. Physical attraction is important but nice and classy women are highly attractive to me. Look around at society today and you'll find the women that say things like "being nice is not enough" are still single or have a whole history of relationship trauma.

[maxwillson]

I agree with all the points except the texting one. Women are on the extreme ends with texting. They either hate it or are obsessed with it. Men are genuinely confused with the texting rules. It's either not enough texting or too much texting. It's probably the worse form of communication in human history. I've given up on texting.