The Passive Aggressive Covert Narcissist

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[johnreno]

The more I know people, the more I like my dog!

[joeysdream]

I dealt with that crap for 21 years... By the time I finally called quits, I was emotionally bankrupt. Passive/Aggressive and Gaslighting. What a rollercoaster ride that was...

[LittleBird]

I just want to be happy without anyone trying to sabotage it out of me. These videos teach me exactly who I need to stay far away from in my life to achieve total happiness and success without sabotage

[teresah]

Ghosting, gaslighting & breadcrumbs. I lost my dignity fighting back. Ugh! I'm back on track now tho! Thank God!

[carospereman]

Good lord, I had a business partner and ex husband that are both covert narcs. I was sooo messed up, took awhile to get my sanity back. Dark Triad people are the worst. Thanks Dr. Carter.

[gnashsang]

My ex-wife turned out to be a covert passive aggressive narcissist. Once I had gotten out of her clutches and constant gaslighting and bold face lies, it became noticed by my children. They could clearly see how much happier and healthier I became. Don’t put up with it. They always play you as the bad guy and smear your name to everyone that will listen. They (covert passive aggressive narcs) are without a doubt the worst and most dangerous people you can ever run across in your life. And don’t get me started on her cheating.

[garybills]

The narcissist is shallow and immature

[chrissy]

Oh I definitely need to hear this! I’ve been dealing with this type of narcissist for almost a decade. I always felt confused, on edge with him because I never knew if he was going to be kind or manipulative and mean. I’m no contact with him now, in trauma therapy, and my gosh do I feel so much better. Looking forward to this future video. Thanks so much, Dr Carter!

[reneemorgan]

I finally went no contact after 5 decades of growing up and being around family members with this insidious disorder. It is one of the very worst environments to be in as it appears "normal" to outsiders. As a result for staying so long, I have physical complications documented by physicians. Including thyroid disease and cancer, fibromyalgia and others..from the extreme anxiety and trauma. I hope anyone who is subjected to any of these psychological abusers get away and stay away. They destroy lives and they do not change!!!

[lc-bbbd]

Dr Carter I was married to a covert narcissist for 24 years. Of course I didn’t realize that was what he was this whole time. Only lately have I pegged him. He has ALL of the behaviors of a covert narcissist. He walked out in November. I lived in a reactive mode sadly. Thankfully I am heading. Your videos have been a true blessing.

[revertmuslimahchannel]

I am married to one and to make things harder he is a psychiatrist too! Spent so many years trying to change how I speak/react/feel/look etc for them but nothing ever good enough- just like my cooking so it seems! After 12 years I've finally come to the realisation it's not me, its him! When he makes his passive aggressive comments or drama I just say in a flat tone- ok. Then i ignore him and get on with my things. It's his problem at the end of the day and not mine and I am not responsible for him/his actions, behaviours or thoughts.

[scotttully]

Thank you for your tireless service, Dr. C!! 🙏 Always a blessing to have common sense leading us though the maze.

[AedanGUnit]

Passive aggressive covert narcs can’t be dealt with, only avoided. They are dreadful, husks of a human being. 😱 R U N

[reylime]

I’ve dealt with four of this type of narc this year, i believe social media especially allows them to express themselves in a passive aggressive ‘shade’ manner.

[justthefacts]

I have had one in my life for over 50 years. If one can get past the anger, they are as pathetic as a reptile masquerading in a human costume with their wig constantly falling off. I am still processing the translation of their poor imitation of the sensibility of an average empathetic human to their actual motives and there is NO BOTTOM to the fascade.

[pamelavirnoche]

Crazy making!
Irrational and downright mean spirited.

[SusanaXpeaceu]

This type always love bombs everybody else in a group and treats me like a ghost. I have been through this a couple of times. It's awful. You challenge them because it's their right to not speak to you, but it's very calculated.

[cheryltainsh]

MOM ! All you can do is completely go no contact. Not fixable, and unless you enjoy being a victim, which many do, only you can solve this by going NO CONTACT. DON'T respond to flying monkeys in your family. They are victims too. If you survive, do something positive with your life.

[vextract]

Some level of sociopathy is involved in a narcissist's thinking they just don't appear to 'get it' or they wouldn't be so flippant or obtuse. They also don't seem to suffer from this malady in thier ill logic instead they get off on degrading others. I think they're dangerous personally.

[bearsi]

I WAS married to one and you truly never know where you stand or what’s true and what’s not… I still after 4 years have no idea how she ever truly felt or what it was to her, or what I was to her!
They love to stonewall you, they like to imply that having a discussion is having a fight, they like to always control the conversations that do happen, they like to always revert back to something you done, they never take responsibility, they rarely ever apologize, if you caught them in something then it’s your fault for catching them and they may mask what they done with a generic apology but only because they got caught! Never expect them to be forth coming about something they did to you! It will never happen! To them if they don’t get caught then it didn’t matter and nothing was wrong with it! They are very vengeful and will play God in making you pay for whatever it is they feel you’ve done or because you caught them in something or had questions about their actions. They are score keepers but not of their own! If you leave them because you can’t take it any longer they will find things to be your fault, be fighting mad at you regardless of how civil you were and willing to work things out, and they will tell others false things that you done which in my case ironically is the things they actually done and I even approached them about!