8 Signs Of Covert Narcissistic Passive-Aggressive Behaviours (Understanding Narcissism.) #narcissist

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[CTSCAPER]

It amazes me how little character these people have while they accuse us of having none. Don't question your intuition!

[kmax]

I had many of these: purse missing, wallet missing, car keys missing, cellphone missing, then the narcissist would mysteriously find them and say that I was getting old and losing my memory and misplacing these things. I also had the exact comment about the bread slices too thick for his lunch. Or also saying, "your meals don't taste like they used to". Even saying things like, "I was looking through some of our photos from a few years ago and you looked so much better back then".😡

[robertovss]

My ex used to do the same with me. Missing car keys, Missing wallet, model car collection and strangely she found them. If I made her lunch she always found a fault. When I cooked dinner she always argued with me saying it was dry, bland, over cooked and found faults followed by calling me a failure, stupid, imbecile. She always provoked me. If I was late being stuck in traffic she yelled at me, swearing and threatening me, belittling me.

[jameslacroix]

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My ex was either a sociopath or narc.she would be late for her own funeral. 3 or 4 hours to get ready and you could be waiting hours later and if you didn't wait and went our anyway she would attack you in text .I did that forever until she told you wait in your apt all day and night until I arrive. I stopped waiting for her at that time and she ruined every single holiday and special occasion. It was like being on a merry go round with the devil itself

[greyrock]

That sandwich example is so brilliant! Nothing is ever quite good enough for the narc, especially the covert. No show of appreciation or gratitude, just fault-finding and unrealistic perfectionism.

[andersa]

They are the worst.
Suddenly they attack you for things that happened long time ago.

[jolly]

I love it -- how E.S. unravels narcissistic behaviors that are almost impossible to unravel! And she does it in such a way as to make the toxic actions so very clear, helpful, and memorable. She has an encyclopedic understanding of narcissistic abuse, and, as I've said before, a way of articulating complex and hazy but very damaging behaviors so they present to us in the same way a picture emerges from the liquids and processes used in a photographer's dark room. Like many of us on her channel, we've experienced much if not all of what she's saying here but didn't connect the dots to enable us to understand that narcissistic abuse switch is in the on position 24-7 and 365 days a year. It's obviously up to each of us to find a safe, secure, and permanent way to go no contact as soon as possible, in my opinion. In the meanwhile, what we are learning here enables us to cope until that happy day finally arrives.

[suzannebell]

I think you've been living in my house!

[pattymackey]

Yes, heard these phrases over and over, again, and their level of reaction never matches the subject brought up,
Example;
Spouse #1
“ I have to take off a couple of days during the week to deal with urgent, important
(extended family)financial issues”

Spouse #2
“ ok great, let me know which days you decide to take off so I can do the same and join you”

Spouse #1. (escalating voice)
“If you can take days off from work then you handle it yourself and Ill go to work”

Spouse #2
“Why can’t we both take off and work together on it?

Spouse #1(yelling loudly)
“ Oh, Come off it! Give me a
f-ing break!
Now i have to apologize for working?”

Spouse #2
What do you mean? I have never discouraged you from working…

Spouse #1 (yelling louder)
Why do I always have to f-ing apologize for working! Why! Why! ( storms out of the room)

Spouse #2 is left dumbfounded and subject is dropped and not addressed again for a long period of time and the the cycle repeats itself. Pure madness

[oncenoruega]

They will complain of the sandwich anyway to cover the fact that wait..why am I doing your sandwich? Grow up and do it yourself lol
Then they complain and complain, so you forget that fact, you didn't have to do the sandwich in first place.