Loving Someone Who Doesn't Want You

Loving someone who doesn't want you
Craig talks about the difficulty of loving someone who doesn't want you.

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[MrUprise]

It’s been 8 months and I can finally say that I’m totally out of the fog and depression. Guys know your worth. If you aren’t being treated right, if she refuses to listen, stonewalls or simply fail to relate to what your point. Don’t stalk. Don’t persist. Hard as it might be. Draw distance. Refrain from initiating any contact. Live 1 hour and 1 day at a time. Keep active. Feel the pain and let it go. Once you are out of the fog you will see it more clearly.

[DreamBeatsBakery]

I've had to go through this unreciprocated love struggle. What helped me the most was to no longer take the rejection personally. Instead of thinking I didn't have enough value for her I thought the circumstances weren't right and that she wasn't bright enough to realize what good she had in me. Furthermore I resolved to believe in myself! And through that I started really feeling that it's her loss and that she'd reach back out eventually because I'm a great catch but honestly going back to the rejection I don't think I would even want to give her another chance. Believe in yourself guys. It's so important!!! What she did after a 7 year relationship is beyond cruel though.

[Benny.]

Yes it’s like a living nightmare . I remember going to a counselor together and her telling him I don’t love him anymore after 12 years of marriage . And I remember how cold she was when she said it sitting right along side me. Divorce papers were served to my 4 year old son short time later as we answered the door together as I was Mr Mom at the time. I’ll also never forget how he looked up at me and asked what this daddy? I replied junk mail and took him to the park to play.

[lailbeeb]

I was blindsided. I love them and they don't want me. Stay safe friends and take care of yourself. You deserve better than someone like the person in Craig's video.

[gypsiroze]

See, it's women like her that ruin it for the good ones who deserve real love. That poor guy will close himself off now. The next woman will have to deal with the emotional scars from the last one.

[rockn]

I've almost wanted to hate some women for leading me on in a relationship, then dumping me the moment they met some other guy. It's like their love just vanished into thin air. Very selfish and sociopathic if you ask me.

[lovemecom]

Don't settle for a relationship without love. You may think that you'll be able to convince the other person to love you given enough time, but frankly, this is incredibly unlikely. You and the other person won't be happy and that's not fair to either of you.

[nicolebrowne]

I find it hard to trust any man now, I find it hard to give anyone a chance since my break up. I don't know when they are real or full of bs..

[CanadianAndre]

CK, I just watched this one again. You read about a couple where the woman ghosted the guy after they had been living together for the last 6 years of a 7- year relationship. She inherited a half-million and ghosted him. It occurred to me that maybe they lived in a community property state. In Arizona (where I live) if you live together for 7 years you're considered to be married and everything becomes 50-50 ownership. Maybe she bailed so she didn't have to split her inheritance.

[craigmerrila]

Why can't people choose to be in love with someone?
I don't think my ex ever loved me. I think I was just fun for her.

[donnyallisondavis]

This still hurts. We broke up 50 days ago. She left me for some guy she met online in dec. She broke up with me 3 days before They became official in on Valentine's day. She's already telling her Friends she's on love and he's the best bf she ever had. I feel like our 6 years together meant nothing to her.

[ghmus]

Nice shirt Craig!

Yes, I had a sudden breakup after a long happy relationship...I finally reached out to her after 3 months of no contact and she ignored me. I see now that she has never dealt with her deep issues and all she did was projected them onto me. It's really such a shame that she could not get beyond that...but that helps me release here as there is nothing I can do about her problems.

[jessicawermuth]

I'm struggling with this..I did everything for him..I lowered my standards just to keep him.. accepted him being disrespectful to me in regards to him texting another girl who lives out of state.. because I was disrespectful to both of them on Facebook he blocked me but kept her as a friend..I'm losing my mind

[chrisp]

I listened to this one for the first time today.  This was almost the exact situation for me.  Same # of  kids and same issues almost verbatim.  Loss of a parent, the housing issue, the money.  Unreal.

[WastedPiety]

A year and a half relationship to be told "we were never meant to be a couple" stings like shit. But working on myself and learning loads about myself thanks to you Craig!

[christiancarr]

Our relationship got bad towards the end. It was fantastic at first and middle but during the last few months of it it got really bad

[HalyeyFlaUK]

Living this now7 years together 14 months separated he's bi polar.. loved me last Wednesday left me flowers, by Sunday he said he is no longer in love with me and has now made me out to be the crazy one posts about everything on social media, talks about me to his neighbors he's a cutter, self harmer, drug addict 5 kids 3 moms .. he was this magical guy when we got married.. what happened and why can't I let guy I hate who I've become I feel nuts he lives two miles from me so we could work on things it's became my worst nightmare we are evil to one another

[jwooldridge]

Some women are absolutely horrible.. feel bad for this guy. That woman sounds fucking evil. Hope she finds herself in a situation where she ends up wanting this guy back but gets the shaft where she doesn't want it; right in her gold digging ego.

[adrij]

I’ve come to realize that my ex was narcissistic. After our breakup, I criticized her on how she wasn’t handling it very responsibly, walking away with no explanation and over a short text.
The criticism sent her into a narcissistic injury, and for the past 7 months post-breakup she’s been smear campaigning me and cyber bullying me.
Thank god that’s over.
She did have a right to leave, and didn’t owe me an explanation—I own my part in that. But the amount of emotional abuse I am still getting now for a mistake I made 7 months ago is not okay

[klodiaki]

love your videos! it is the first time i am thinking of coaching with someone..
i feel that you really respect everyone and that you really care for broken people.. you are so authentic! <3 i also love the fact that you dont stop your stories to advertise your site..
because of your videos i am a better person... thank you <3