How to stop being attached to someone you love

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[PrimePhera]

Imagine loving someone more than anything else and then you remember that this person doesnt even exist

[totallynotetta]

When they were obsessed with you, you never treasured it, now the roles switch, and you’re obsessed and scared you’d lose them.

[MbbsAspirant-mqpx]

Don't let nobody play with you just because you got a good heart

[berthanwaogwu]

I fell in love with person and I felt my whole world click yet.. this person doesn't really see it. Sometimes I feel it's all my fault, and other times I just can't let go. Sometimes I cry so hard, and other times I laugh uncontrollably. But I've come to understand that it's actually ok to make mistakes, to miss that person but much more, to love myself more for who I am and live my life not just for that person but for me. You can do it also.... Don't let anyone steal u're peace... Trust You will be alright at the end of it all❤

[gigigeorge]

Imagine u care someone more than anything but they dont care about you its the worst feeling💔

[celifur]

This is so true, I’m just used to thinking about him, but I don’t think I’ll be actually happy with him

[jhojanengel]

I pray in god that all of us here will find love and remember he planned everything

[crystalholstein]

I am addicted to my husband, I lived, breathed, everything to make him happy he was my life my world. I felt his pain, I completed his sentences. He was my safety. I depended on him for everything. And then he died 4 1/2 years ago and I’m still in a deep depression

[PRINCE_Of_PRIVILEGE]

It’s coming from a place where I feel I won’t meet anyone else like her who understands what I do and all the love and passion I put into everything and it just feels like I’m getting in her way cause she doesn’t care

[sindhuniperumal]

I also understand this addiction mostly its because of childhood trauma...whether it can be abandonment issues or parents being over protective and so we not thinking independently from childhood....hence while growing into adult we tend to bond with ppl who are similar and controlling as like our parents so that we may feel protected and secure....hence we get too attached and stick to the dynamics of runner and was kind of repeating its very important to recognise the patterns and act will definitely encounter fear of loneliness and urge to be in a relationship for validation and that happy feelings....but it's essential to control our emotions should mindfully take a relationship and dating detox for 3 to 6 on building urself....focus on loving urself, becoming healthy, fit, beautiful and chasing ur purpose of ur existence....talk your heart out to a trustable friend....just understand one thing ...we cane alone and we have to leave alone...in that short period of time try to live a purposeful life...then our vibrations become stronger and we become independent....then we ll be able to attract the perfect healthy and balanced

[Theforgotten]

Heartache has really opened my eyes to pain. Never again will I put myself in this position. I knew better and ignored every red flag.

[FTFK]

Thank you man for solving 99%problems of mine.. It's very difficult to control...

[mathdavies]

"You are what you love not who loves you"
Charlie Kaufman

[entitled]

Thank you my friend’ 🙂 I’ve figured that out’ big time! The problem was the emptiness within me’ hoping’ praying that it could be fulfilled from someone/ anyone else! It never happened! So I became/ learned to be enmeshed within me’ and I’m feeling’ much better these days ❤

[macaroni_and_salsa]

The reason I’m addicted to him is because I crave real love. Love I haven’t received in years from family or friends.

[Meleknyla]

Thank you for this I started crying when I realized that this is how I am feeling

[CaptainRF]

Bro I think you finally opened my eyes. Thats exactly whats been happening in my life all the time.

[momione]

I have finally understood my pattern. But it goes way back. Being ignored by my father. So, I have unconsciously later turned to partners who are there but not there. Emotionally absent and that's also the feeling I chased and thought was love all my life. How crazy isn't that. But I also see when I face this how my body and soul get like a stress on blows. Then to just give up on myself and give everything of myself. Destroying myself. Put away men in my life who were really there. For them, I thought it was strange. But after a long period of repairing myself. Even reprogramming me. Am I in a different place in life. But no one got a bed of roses without hard work. As well as starting to see a self-worth.Not afraid to be alone anymore. Have myself. The best friend and partner you can have. The other can come later. But it can be done in peace. No stress. Getting to know each other for a long time. So I see what it is I face. Also that I myself have to be open and vulnerable. Have boundaries. Being able to say stop and no. Because I have never dared to do that. So those I have met have gone far beyond my limits. But no more ever.

[utkarshkamat]

How do you break this pattern addiction? Mines probably from loneliness or the affection i didn't get when i was young, so what do I do to fix me?

[Callummullans]

Holding onto feelings can lead your attitude astray. Some say you should focus on feelings and others say you should ignore them. You’re a feeling person but you’re also a rational, there isn’t a separation, only decision.