How The Covert Narcissist Co parents A Special Needs Child

What does the covert narcissist who thrives on supply and attention do, when faced with a child who needs more attention?

[tammyhickey]

first video i see on this topic thank you! our child is severely special needs and is non verbal, the post divorce abuse has been going on since 2016, him and his new supply have brang me to court over and over again, but do not want my son, I am exhausted from them and my health is not good, at all! i think its the on going stress!! i just cant do it anymore. he has our son one day a month for 24 hours and its hard work when my son returns home, misses school, hungry tired!! and wont leave the home for 3 to 4 days sometimes. I am trying to communicate with him about our son needs, but I am ignored and he will not respond to any of my questions or instructions. wont pay extra expenses. he does not care of all the hard work I have done for my son alone and I am just too tired to continue this way. I have stopped visits until all my questions are answered and instructions too. i just can do it anymore

[hearme]

It’s very difficult keeping my special needs child well when I leave him with his dad, every time he returns he sick has even been hospitalized. I have to go over everything with him again and he is 6 and has been there the whole time I took care of him. He knows exactly what too do for him I’ve seen him take care of him but he leaves him with his new supply and she not the brightest crayon in the box. It’s so frustrating.

[CBrown]

The covert narcissist I co parent with blames her genetic condition on me, even though the disorder runs in his side of the family. He cannot control himself or manage his own health whatsoever, but thinks he has all of the answers to “cure” my childs incurable condition. According to him she has episodes of her condition because Im not doing something I should be, or Im doing something Im not supposed to. Nevermind that she is under the care of a specialist, is on medication daily, and her condition is managed as absolute best as it could be. HE has the answers and he needs to control her and me, and if he cant it means I dont have her best interests at the forefront. Keep in mind he has never been present during an episode and would have no idea if she had one. He is so spiteful and full of himself he cant be supportive, he has to be right.

[TheTeganOsmondChannel]

Thank you so much for posting on this much needed topic

[GMarieBehindTheMask]

Please help me, he took them and they are showing signs of neglect! My kids are older and he uses them to hurt me but doesnt take them to the doctor pay bills on time and now he uses my money to pay for whatever he desires not to take care of the children with the money. I need help proving these things in court, the divorce is finalized but can I bring him back to court? My son needs IEP for school and of course he hasnt enrolled him and he is failing.