Signs You’re The Passive Aggressive Friend

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[michellecueto]

Tbh being on the phone while someone is talking to you is pretty rude

[SonicAmbrose]

I hate it when I’m saying a story in front of my friends and then all of sudden another friend starts to say something and they just put their attention on them

[NekoNihhal]

Wtf, her friend ignores her, is constantly late, owes her 20$, doesnt care about her, and not dealing with it well is heing passive-aggressive? Damn

[ayanaalles]

If my friend owed me $20 I would go from passive-aggressive to plain aggressive

[sierrahill]

"This is why I should never say anything" My life

[ShreeCurlzmusiclove]

but...Alison is not wrong for asking her money back

[makaylab.]

Maybe she should have just payed her back

[MontieAdams]

shout out to toxic parents instilling their toxic behaviours into us that we now have to dismantle in years of therapy like passive aggressiveness lmao

[sarawawa]

Being passive aggressive is a form of being a people pleaser (which comes out of insecurity). You don't ever say what you want or think because you don't want to upset anybody but at the same time you don't want to sacrifice your own wants and needs too much which makes you passive aggressive which is a hundred times more aggravating than telling people how you feel/what you want, even if it could potentially upset the people around you.

[jayk]

Ok but... She owes her money, pay it back

[pruthahardas]

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I've always felt that she looks A LOT like Dakota Johnson.

[jiazera]

I am definitely the passive aggressive friend. I am all the time

[hraeu]

I've never realized I'm the passive aggressive friend

[salomeking]

I didn't know I was the passive aggressive friend till I watched this video😂

[legendariersgaming]

What's even worse is when there's two of you:

Friend 1: What do you want to eat?
Friend 2: Whatever you do.
Friend 1: I'll do whatever you do.
Friend 2: No, I insist, what do you want to eat?
Friend 1: I don't care, what about you?
...

Happens too often.

[michiexmia]

UGh I hate it when someone borrows some money or something from you and never EVER gives it back or doesn't even remember about it, and you don't to annoy them again and again bout it cuz you don't want to destroy your friendship with them.
This is why I have trust issues.

[Immajeanyus]

Oh. I must be passive aggressive. That explains it. Anytime someone stops replying to my text messages I hate myself so much.

[PolliitoAle]

I'm passive agressive AND sarcastic so people have just come to accept it as "yeah, that's how Ale does humor" and I'm like "No, I'm being fuckin serious, I'm just not straightfoward"

[cardmaster]

Legend has it that she still hasn't gotten her 20$ back

[LaviniaDeMortalium]

Ah, lovely, you've finally made a video about me. It's not like I was waiting for months or anything. Not at all. The video is wonderfully hilarious.