What Makes Narcissists Angry? These 10 Bizarre Things May Surprise You (Or NOT)

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[claudiacastillo]

The thing that a narcissist hates the most is that you are mentally healthy. They will always destroy the things that make you strong.

[seancase]

I found they hate when children are experiencing childhood happiness and fun. They hate their laughter, their silliness, their innocence

[CplLeirRC]

My mother in law is a malignent narcissist, her daughter (my sister in law) is a covert narcissist and my wife is a victim of both! My wife finally stood up for herself and now she' been labelled as "antisocial" by both cows.

Thanks to your videos, I'm getting a clearer picture of what's been going on and am better able to help my wife, who I see as a victim of a narcissist parent.

[LTZ_Z]

The one thing I noticed with my children's mother was if there wasn't something to be angry about, she would look and look and dig and dig until she found the most trivial thing to get angry about. Couldn't go more than 4-5 days between "episodes" and the cycle would restart like clockwork. It'll absolutely drive you crazy that you just can't live in a peaceful home.

[Lionofthelovinggod]

Things malignant narcissists get angry about in their partners.
1. Enjoying yourself.
2. Talking to healthy people.
3. Any accomplishment.
4. ‘Happiness’.
5. No affection allowed except to the malignant narcissist.
6. Any pride about a talent.
7. If you focus yr attention on anyone but them. They put up the boundaries, but get angry if you assert yr boundaries.
8. Compliments made to their partners.
9. If you point out a flaw in them. How dare you find fault with them. They’re perfect.
10. Imagined slights.

[AA-ykkk]

In short, everything that you like to do makes them angry ...

[nataliaeyolfson]

Do not lose yourself trying to please a narcissist. Stop walking on eggshells and start walking away.

[juliadavila]

Girl, I was raised with a narcissistic family who disowned me for being successful. So many different scales in narcissism. As you know I had ten different narcissistic siblings and me being the youngest. Crazy childhood memories of my family. All wicked people.

[criskity]

They also hate the words "I", "me", and "my" when used by anyone other than themselves.

[wlh]

My son outsmarted his Narcissist wife, he left. Haven't seen him this happy in years. It was more of a relief for him than anything else.

[ladennayoung]

Yes they do hate to see you enjoying yourself.

[nancieckermann]

Yes, that bizarre look they give to you when you're having fun.

[karim-a]

What makes them angry? Easy. Having an opinion.

[rubidirrojnamcha]

I remember that day when I appeared extremely devastated and depressed because they turned the whole environment around me so toxic and everybody were against me, the smile they had on their faces was beyond my cognitive capacity. I really couldn't get it why they're doing all those things and lived in confusion for so long. It has been such an important lesson for me. Thank you so much for sharing this information because many people are suffering in silence and they don't even know what they are going through. Atleast this knowledge will help them to endure the toxicity.

[matthewkann]

Was dumped by a narcissist. Best thing that ever happened to me. Thank you April🙏

[themetamorphosisofgipsy]

A covert narcissist uses underhanded insults masked as compliments to insult you and then says you're too sensitive or that it was a joke, when you confront them about their underhanded bs.
The covert vulnerable narc is the biggest coward!

[heatherlynn]

The story of my life. 51 years of it. 11 months no contact with the whole clan! Hallelujah!

[crusherone]

This is so spot on. My wife would insult me because I didn't read books, I was stupid etc. When I would pick up a book, she would watch me- I would get maybe 10 pages or so in and then there always was something that needed done etc
Or- I would get, "you think you can just sit and read a book, I don't get to, your selfish and entitled"
Soon I will be gone

[jackiewacky]

Okay I have to write these down because most of these had me with my mouth on the floor by how true it they were.

Number 1: anything that you are passionate about. They hate to see you enjoying yourself. They will overtly insult you or make you feel bad for enjoying it. “Why are you always wasting your time”

Number 2: talking to healthy ppl on the phone. They don’t like it because it will interfere with their trying to force their reality onto you. If you have healthy relationships then you are going to have a healthy perspective to what they’re doing and saying.

Number 3: any accomplishment, they will find ways to devalue you. They’re subconsciously training you to not be proud of yourself and to not enjoy what you’re doing or your achievements which causes and leads to later on in life, a latter of procrastination.

Number 4: happiness. When you’re happy, they will fling you this look, look of contempt. Causes you to think ‘what did I do, why are they angry’ it causes you to get you out of that happiness and into a negative state. It’s because they don’t feel real happiness they just fake it, so when they see you having real happiness, they shoot it down for an exchange and now your depressed, confused not in your best element. They see you like that and think, the ya re not happy, they aren’t feeling something I can’t feel, I’m the one that’s happy.

Number 5: not allowed to show love to others (kids, family). Which is buzz are. No not a person would have a problem with that. But they see it in 2 ways: you’re focused on someone other than them. They know you have an emotional connection with them, they know it’s real and they hate that because they don’t have the capability to have a real emotional connection with their kids or loved ones because they see them as extensions for themselves.

Number 6: Another thing: if you are proud of a talent you have, they will make you feel selfish or arrogant- making you feel like it’s a bad quality unless they can take full credit for your talent. It’s all about what they have allowed you to do, they want the credit for everything that you can do. They’ll get angry if you try to feel like you deserve the credit.

Number 7: Angry that they are not the center of attention. They need to be the center.

Number 8: they will hate if their with their partner and other ppl are complimenting their significant other. Other people would be so honored to have someone say that. But a malignant narcissist, they’re mind tells them you’re noticing someone other than me’. It irritates them that you get the compliment and not them.

Number 9: of you point out that their behavior was anything less than perfect, they get angry. They have no problem telling you all the things they think you’re flawed in, but they get extremely angry when anyone thinks they are anything less than perfect. They have no problem telling you things to ‘help you’ but if you say something they’re angry.

Number 10: they get angry at imagines slights. Even if you are maybe joking, they will imagine that you are trying to insult them. They take everything bad and always on alert. They’ll get mad at the silliest little things.

If you are living you’re life trying to do everything you can to not make them angry. Always trying hard to find the formula for them to never get angry. Hopefully you realize their anger has nothing to do with you. The truth is that they get angry for the most bizarre things- then they use gaslighting and expert manipulation, making you feel like you’re always wrong.

It’s time to stop. Haven’t you noticed no matter hard hard you run and how much you yank your personality out to please them, they are still always angry.

God bless y’all ♥️

[dr.sdsandemd.]

I knew a narcissist who hated see me come into work every morning with a smile on my face and would spend hours a day spewing poison and negativity just to wipe that smile away and make me as unhappy as she was. Sadly it worked, but just for a short while until I figured her out.
They hate seeing you happy, confident, secure and loved by others.
Great video, thank you.