How to overcome being cheated on from the psychological root cause up: my advice

Only when we address the root cause, we can heal the root together with it's symptoms once and for all.

And because I didn’t even make contact with my core, how could my partner truly make contact with my core?

Unconsciously I was always afraid to open up to be vulnerable, out of constant fear to experience the same from what I have seen in my past.What do you think will happen when two people are not really making true connection with themselves nor with each other?
Indeed, then we run into distractions away from our disconnection with ourselves.And a very common way to distract ourselves from our unsolved feelings of not feeling connected, it to look for quick fix distractions like cheating.To make a long story short, one of my biggest fears to be cheated on, the very reason why I closed up from myself, became reality.
My partner cheated on me.

And to be honest, all the pain that erupted, I blamed on her, while in reality, it triggered and released only my own existing, but covered and unsolved pain,
that I had been suppressing for all of those years.

All feelings that we blame another, where exactly are they to be felt?
In the other or in ourselves? Indeed, all feelings exist in ourselves, even if someone cheats upon us.
It might trigger unsolved feelings of unworthiness, that someone else would be preferred above us.
It might trigger unsolved feelings of loneliness, when someone leaves us, when they cheat us.
It might trigger unsolved fears or pains of having seen people cheating.No matter what feeling it triggers, they are our own existing unsolved feelings.

Now you probably wonder, how to overcome being cheated on?

Enjoy the video!

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[loraliecataldi]

I definitely can relate to this especially when I was young, I got cheated on many times and I realize I was cheating myself by not bringing my authentic self to the relationship because the relationship was flawed from the very beginning and it wasn’t until I took an 8 year break with dating and relationships and came to a very content place of peace in my singleness it was then that I automatically brought my authentic self that I finally learned to know and love that I decided I wouldn’t settle for less.

[Valentinfj]

You look tired, but it doesn't show in the way you carry yourself because you are putting passion and love in your work.

[lukaszszydlowski]

Thank you. I'll use your advice. Wise and uplifting.

[ingih]

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