I'M AFRAID OF BEING CHEATED ON - Getting Over Trust Issues

"I'm afraid of being cheated on". After breakups, more specifically, deception in our past relationships. We may develop a fear of trusting others in the future, even if they did nothing to deserve our apprehension. You may find these issues when you begin dating immediately after a breakup. But in reality, we can carry these issues with us for years. If we never address it, we'll never move past it. If you're afraid your boyfriend will cheat, or you're afraid your girlfriend will cheat, let me help you try to gain some clarity on how to deal with these fears moving forward.

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[lynzara]

When I realized that my fear of getting hurt was more painful than actually getting hurt... Profound words...

[desireejustice]

Im so mentally ill. My fear of being betrayed has ruined so much potential. It is ruining me. I'm constantly wanting to be detective 🕵️‍♂️ 😪. I hate it. I want to get over it and stop doing what im doing to myself and my relationship.

[pancakeoperator]

Hurting so hard right now, 10 years in and 2 kids later. Never has she given me doubts but I fight this trust issue that stems from a traumatic experience as a child and she’s just tired of battling this with me. I appreciate you

[uxklcgq]

I’m ashamed that I’ve given an ex power over my current relationship - and in turn how I’ve treated my partner. This has helped me more than words can explain. Thank you.

[cherrybacon]

My Ex took a woman's number from his mate 3 weeks after we split up. When he told me himself about it I asked myself why in fact he was telling me. What I didn't in know wouldn't hurt me right? He said she meant nothing and he didn't want her. I had this gut feeling something wasn't right so I sneaked a look at his phone. This woman he wasn't interested in and who's number he wasn't bothered about was logged into his Contacts. When I brought up this point he was moody and defensive. This confirmed my suspicion. Cheating is cheating whether emotionally or physically. My trust is damaged. 🍒

[antuantheswan]

I’m with a woman who stands by me and does everything in her power to make sure I know she’s my soulmate…I put a tremendous strain on our relationship. This video brought me to 😭. Thank you.

[jamesrichards]

I'm in the unique position of having never been in a proper relationship even at the age of 21. My paranoia of being cheated on has only really started to come to fruition over the past 6 months or so and I feel like this may have stemmed from my mum and dad divorcing when I was at a pivotal moment as a teenager, and she moved in the guy that she had been telling my dad not to worry about for years in her apartment (that my dad paid for by the way). I think my paranoia and fear of being cheated on has held me back from trusting anyone, even less so with potential relationships hence why I'm not currently in one. My head as of recently keeps making up scenarios which I can't seem to shake off, such as a potential partner going out for a night out with her friends and cheating whilst out or coming home from work to catch her with someone. All made up scenarios in my head, but horrible to think about nonetheless. It's almost like a self-torture that I'm not consciously doing to myself, and this will cause hours of restlessness or suppressed anger. I imagine social media and some of the horrendous stories you hear of this stuff happening time and time again has also contributed to this lack of trust.

I'm sure I'll slowly learn to trust again, but it's really hard to trust anyone fully when my default mindset has been set to this. I will make sure that I don't give up. 🖤

[quantumgirl]

What if I never found out I'm being cheated, and I've been given my time and love to people who was using me?
When I found out, the first thought that came into my mind was "and I gave it all to you" I was so angry that the person was receiving all from me, and didn't deserve any of that.

[pouyajamei]

you know, the part where you said we give the people that hurt us power is really true. you really opened up my eyes to it. thank you

[kukumbarglicko]

Im ruining something extremely special because i cant trust.. feels like a rockbottom.

[kristenbennett]

Thank you the part about what if you are trusting when something is actually going on, that's what I'm so afraid of, love this

[neetu]

Best advice ever. I come to this video again and again when I am feeling doubt!

[monsterkidplays]

My Ex cheated on me with 17 different people, now i'm dating one of her ex's and she's this fear of being hurt again is lingering it won't stop and I'm trying my best to ignore it, to not give my Ex power. Sometimes i wounder if she's fighting the same battle i am, as much i want to ask her for help the last thing i want is to hurt this relationship.

[DarkSugarPod]

Thank you so much. I’m currently working through ruminating thoughts. I know it’s my inner child trying to protect me. You literally addressed all my concerns. Thank you! 😊

[jo]

This is so eye-opening. I found this video today and I'm listening it again and again, I definitely needed to hear this! Very helpful, thank you!

[armin]

i love you man. thank you for making this.
dont hinder the relationship due to the fact that they may/may not betray you in the future. if they do, they do. if they dont, they dont. you have no power over this.

[redpillrabbithole]

Thank you so much for this. I cried uncontrollably listening to you…
Every word hit my heart… thank you 😭

[brownmetal]

This is good. Changes my perspective. Im working on it

[crz]

Thank you so much for this video..I really needed to hear this.

[ismelllikebeef]

This video is amazing thank you so much I really needed this