What to Say When Someone Compliments You, and What Not To Say--Common Communication Mistakes We Make

In this free online communication skills training video, communication skills expert keynote speaker and communication coach Dan O'Connor teaches you what to say when someone compliments you, and what not to say. Once again, Dan will help you avoid common communication mistakes. #compliments #communicationskills #freeonlinecommunicationtraining

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[ginghambriarsoapery]

I never knew just how to respond to a compliment, I always felt uncomfortable. Now I know to say, a simple "thank you " & realize that it's okay to accept a compliment. Thanks again Dan!

[mynameisirrelevant]

I complimented a pastor after a sermon and he said, "Thank you...Pray for kinda liked that response.

[CKdaGiftedOne]

I honestly needed this. Idk why I struggle receiving compliments.

[elderlypoodle]

As a young woman I couldn't handle a compliment. And now I just respond with thank you for that. It meant a lot to me. Because it really does.

[ttrraaccyy]

I usually say, "thank you for noticing" or "thank you, I appreciate that".

[asstanley]

In my country it was perceived to be arrogant to say thank you. But I"m over that weirdness now. I got it from Dan O'Connor.

[kimichan]

I really struggle with accepting compliments so I really needed to hear this advice. I love how you said it honors the one giving the compliment to accept it gratefully. I am really trying train myself to respond with “thank you for saying that, you are very kind to say so.” And then I try to give a compliment back to them.

Great advice!

[SR-fmft]

Your videos are so helpful and I am blessed to have found your great channel. Thank YOU Dan!

[simonledoux]

Thank you for this reminder to accept a compliment graciously. Most of the time I do but not always so that nod will help to make it a habit. Your videos are helpful. I especially appreciate some of these shorter videos when I have less time. Please consider adding more of these 4-8 minutes videos. The longer ones of course are valuable as well and I enjoy watching them when I have more time.

[ryancormack]

I like to say "Thank you, that's very nice of you to say so ". Return a compliment with a sincere compliment.

[robertbarker]

I am recovering from a years long marriage to a covert narcissist, and i am learning to get my confidence back. This was AMAZINGLY helpful!

[XxxcrossroadzXxx]

Hey Dan I want to thank you for all of your hard work and content! I love those new videos with the dark background it makes you look like you really know what you are talking about. I wanted to get your advise on how to break a friendship off in a kind and respectful way while still showing my boundaries? especially with someone you see everyday and you are probably going to have to talk to them. Hope you can help much love from Egypt!

[kcnnanna]

I love this video! I definitely accept compliments wholeheartedly. I love giving compliments too.

[otter-pro]

great to know. I wish I heard this when I was much younger. Tilting the head is pretty important step, too!

[Vesdus]

Thank you for this! Yesterday I recieved an indirect compliment about my charisma among friends, all of which who agreed, and I couldn't find the confidence to respond. I focused elsewhere and got lost in my thoughts - whether I deserved the compliement and if I wanted to react positively to encourage people to compliment me or not. I've found in North American culture; not a lot of people can teach us how to respond to compliments gracefully and this was really helpful.

[cmc]

Thank you for the wonderful advice - always presented in a fun-loving way. (I love your line at the end
"...I get it from Dan O'Connor..")😉

[LostOneOmega]

Earlier in life: I didn't receive many compliments. So, as I'm older, I struggle accepting them. I know I come across as use to it to the point of not giving a care, but that too can be insulting.

Nodding should help, though.

[licksnkicks]

Dan you are absolutely so intuitive and brilliant! I have one more year left of the worst toxic work environment imaginable. I need my benefits for another 12 months from this stupid company. Thank you so much for your guidance and support. ❤️

[ruslitomey]

And to you Dan i sincerely would like to.say a big Thank You for having shared this great lesson not just for me to take away but for everyone tuning in.