Signs You Struggle with Codependency by @bekasmithcoaching

TikTok Video by @bekasmithcoaching

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1. Their mood determines your mood.
2. You get anxious if not in constant contact.
3. You try to control their emotions, maybe with good intentions, but you go to the extent of withholding the truth or being dishonest in order to avoid conflict or confrontation at all costs.
4. You need a lot of reassurance.
5. You want to do everything with them all the time, even at the expense of your own independent goals, plans, or joy.

Thank you!

[centpushups]

Got a friend like this. She vanishes when she gets into a relationship. Turns up a year later after the breakup. She is like crazy clingy to this guy.

[Kreezword]

How do you fix that codependency demon? It is killing my life

[hawanajwaabdullah]

I was single for 2 years trying to recover from codependecy and a lot more traumatic stuff hppen during covid. Then, i met this new guy. I noticed myself being more childlike. He's a provider and i love just accompanying him anywhere. And i just follow and when i feel uncomfortable doing something, i would want him to do it for me. It's nonsense. I don't know why i become like that. Is it codependency?

[pault]

This isnt just in romantic relationships. I struggle to feel in a good mood if my boss is in a bad mood. Her mood dictates mine. I struggle to articulate during conflicts. It really sucks because if your superior is miserable all week, you will mirror their mood not intentionally. Its maddening and i want to break this cycle!

[elizabetha]

I think it would be super weird if your SO came in upset and it didn't effect your mood or very happy like if he/she got a promotion and you weren't happy for them, that seems so odd.

[melodydonovan]

So much more to codependency than this. It is actually an addictive behavior. When you give up your identity to live inside theirs.

[JennyMullins-cw]

I'm really struggling and battling my mental health

[jasonbaer]

Problem is, a narcissist can create codependency in a normal person and you kinda need to wait till the relationship is way over so you can heal.

[jasonbaer]

The last two, big time! I hate when people withhold the truth!

[justinsmudde]

Ive got mad trauma from toxic relationship! I don't even know where to go at this point. Everyones a narcissist under the age of 38 basically millenials. Women now days anti emotion which is a masculine trait."not attractive" all of them are border line homeless if they miss two paychecks. Everyone is codependent because of the economy, Edina fixer and I'm exhausted with every single woman I've dated lol

[sarahjaye]

What if both are co dependant? Its a way older guy w a lot of trauma, bod and covert narc traits come to mins, I am trying to steer clear but its the same apartment building 😮

[daniciahumphrey]

Wow if they mood dictate your mood!!! If you telling how you feel to avoid conflict my Lord!!!

[MistresstheMediator]

Thank You for this but I’m glad I don’t fit the bill too well ❤

[Atipaishe-bg]

Honestly um tired very tired of this behavior i do things and then i get hurt especially the texting

[JTLuxxHD]

I watched this to try and help a girl get out of her toxic relationship. Until I realized I’m just like her thinking about her lol

[CoHzus]

Wait almost all of those were me with my mom 😅

[pixie]

But being with them all the time IS my joy

[NaotoKimberlyRaven]

I'm definitely co-dependent but I'm definitely okay with that. I don't understand how this is a bad thing!

[FresaPeroNoParaTuMermelada]

help me. i don't know when i became codependant. why i am this way. how to fix it.