how to let go of friends that you've outgrown (tips for bettering yourself)

How to let go of friends that you’ve outgrown (tips for bettering yourself)

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In this video, I’m going to be talking about how release old friends and how to know it’s time to let go of people that no longer serve you. If you are searching for an answer of how to let go of someone you love, this may be the video for you. It can be hard to learn how to deal with letting go of a friend, but sometimes it is necessary for our growth to do so 🦋
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[lifemusiclova]

I appreciate how you’re stressing the fact that the person who you’re trying to break from isn’t always ‘toxic’. Sometimes the people are still good people, y’all are just different now. To me, that hurts the most. I’d rather HATE the person than love them so much. That would make it sooo much easier. But like you said, sometimes it’s the best thing for both you and them.

[Kharkovkid]

I tried the "Slow Fade". But I felt that I was being dishonest to both of us, by not admitting openly I no longer had the same level of affection or desire to hang out together. So I made the more painful break. "The Truth Will Out"

[Claudia-ycxk]

This is exactly what im going through atm, my current friendship just doesn't serve me anymore. We have been friends for 9 years but as we are approaching our 30s I realise we have absolutely nothing in common anymore and nothing much to talk about but the past when we used to drink and party I also find that I am drained with every encounter we have, I just don't enjoy seeing her anymore. Thankyou for giving us the tools to be able to deal with this situation because its so hard and not spoken about enough !

[rw]

Covid really made people start to see the truth of their lives. It has definitely helped us to grow❤ you have to let go to grow

[raqueltorres]

I let go of friends and the guilt is still there. also, it is very difficult to make new friends as we step into adulthood. you could address that in a new video! thank you for this one!

[theHoneyandAbsinthe]

I definitely had to let go of friends as I moved into different phases in my life. And I don't regret it! It's really improved my life for the better.

[jesussaves]

Some people are just plain toxic or takers and immature. Pray the Lord sends you someone who you will click with. I don't believe in the law of attraction but this is good advice. A friendship is a two way street and is mutual

[Itsjrob_]

I’ve out grown all my friends now I have no friends and that’s ok but it gets super lonely but now I’ve found my self and my new hobbies and things that I LIKE and now I feel like I’m ready to find MY PEOPLE ❤️

[ritajrg]

I decided that in 2021 I would start to listen to my intuition and speak/act accordingly. My intuition told me I needed to let go of a couple of people in my life, so I did. It was one of the hardest things I had to do in my life, because we used to be very close. I blamed myself for months and feed off of negative self talk. I have the tendency to see everything as right or wrong and since they hadn't done anything particularly wrong, I started seeing myself as the monster. Still to this day, I sometimes fall back into the loop of self blame and self hatred, which then becomes self pity and blaming them. It's not easy at all, but I'm trying to be more patient and compassionate, both towards me and them. I love them but I had to fly way in order to love myself.

[erimozata]

Sometimes you definitely feel like you need to move on. My problem is that I keep looking back. Good times etc.

[jazzylie]

If you love someone, set them free. You then allow yourself and them to grow. Life is all about growth and at the end of the day we have to let go of each other anyway. Don't cry because it's over but smile because it happened.

[j_t]

I agree with a lot of what you said. I'm a very creative person, and none of my friends were. At first, it wasn't a big deal but now as I am getting more serious about my creative career goals, it is hard being around people that don't share the same creative energy. I even felt jealous of my brother (also creative) who had a whole group of creative friends who would make films together, write scripts/plays -overall, they were productive with each other and were moving in the right direction. Instead I had friends that would rather drag me out to drink, date and things that didn't serve me. They weren't terrible but you're right, it's hard to 'get higher/grow in potential' with people who aren't on that frequency.

[LiisOnLife]

It is so hard sometimes to move on from a friendship. But like you said, we should always listen to our intuition. And for sure there are some that are revived later in life. The older I get, the more I cherish energetic growth in relationships even if it is hard sometimes.

[ray_maniaa]

I like how she talked about when a friendship doesn’t serve you. To me, I feel like my goals and my friends goals are at a completely different level and at some point I feel they are whats blocking me from getting there. So I’m trying to build a space for myself to grow but I feel that they always are a bit clingy, and won’t understand WHY I need the space.

[PleaseForgiveYourself]

Friends are overrated, being alone with silence, no distractions. Just you and solitude. That's how you get to know YOU. When all is said and done towards the end all we have is ourselves, we need to be at peace with that.

[markerparker]

This is kind of what's been happening to me. Our friend group is splitting up and I often felt excluded. And when I hung out with them I felt myself turning back into this old version of me. And I was tired of hearing them talk about only themselves the whole time, and always the same negative things. I know that I'm starting to feel resentment towards them, so now I'm searching for healthy, mature ways to let go of them, to finally move on.

[filmspilloganime]

You can also be honest and tell your friends that "Hey, I need to take a break from you". They sometimes need to know why you're avoiding them, so this thing about talking less and less to a person can be harmful if they don't understand why you're doing it.

[YelenaCrawfordAstrology]

Girl, this is EXACTLY what I'm going through in my life right now... for the past month, I've been searching for videos on this topic nonstop... glad I found yours. I do feel super guilty and am now in the grieving process but I know that this is the best decision for me. It's still hard. I quit drinking completely to become a life coach among other things and I don't resonate with my friends anymore...

[mickeylou]

It's funny how the people you hang out with the most are the habits you start copying. You won't notice but others will first. My mom noticed this with me, i was picking up lazy bad habits and it was affecting my future and the plans I was making. When she told me I was offended but when I took a step back i realized she was right. I'm slowly hanging out with them less and less and since doing that i have been working a little harder and elevating more. This video was perfect, every other video only talked about toxic friends and drama this and drama that. I needed something like this, something about a person who is trying to better themselves and because of that they are outgrowing their friends.

[Ghoulx]

I had to let go of a best friend of 13 years but I’ve outgrown him and it’s not the same anymore, feelings were mutual. I really thought this friendship was gonna last forever but I was naive.