The Letting Go Paradox: Make Them Want You

In this video we talk about attachment, attraction, and letting go. So often in life we can find ourselves chasing and pursuing things we believe will make our lives better. In doing this, we often disempower ourselves and end up pushing those very things we desire further away from us. In this video we discuss how this process works, and what we can do to find more freedom and wholeness in ourselves, and allow that in turn to radiate out into the world so we attract instead of repel.

[huaynax]

Attachment is the root of all suffering.

When in doubt, be silent and give them space.

[Sensei-wxkx]

Based on my experience, you need to focus on yourself until someone will attract to you because of your worth or value as a person. Do not chase you attract

[TeresaGutierrez-ek]

Wow, this is so uplifting, it’s important to stay inspired. I feel a deep sense of emptiness, it’s been 2months since jack left and everyday feels like an eternity without him. My mind’s been flooded with memories of our time together. It’s so painful that I’d never get to experience the little things with him again. zI’ve texted him several times telling him how much I miss and want him sadly he replied none. Guess all I can do is just hold unto the memories.

[saadlazaar]

“You re trying to fill a whole that doesn’t exist ”. Summed it perfectly.

[fugslayernominee]

So in nutshell; just be you, have your own things like few interesting hobbies going on in your own life, chase goals and people will chase you.

[bobbyphillips]

You can’t get them back because that relationship is already gone, but you can have a new one with the same person because you are now different people…. Wow I love this. Thank you for this

[nathalielelan]

No one is our savior, except ourselves. We need to feel complete on our own, we have to fullfill ourself. I have a text on my wall in my living room "Be the energy you want others to absorb".

[piek]

The universe really led me here at 4am to watch this completely undistracted ❤

[LulamaGraham]

this is genuinely one of the best videos on this topic i've ever listened to.

[PhilipTomisi]

Great video! Sadly, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The person I thought was the love of my life decided to leave, and I’m still deeply in love with him. I can’t stop thinking about him, and despite all my efforts to win him back, nothing has worked. I feel so frustrated and can’t imagine being with anyone else. No matter what I do, he’s always on my mind, and I miss him terribly.

[knukey]

My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me recently. Finding it hard to be by myself now, and having to learn how to be ok with myself. This video has helped me understand things about my self a little more.

[gamze]

I was always strong and hiperindependent girl, secretly suffering from an absent father. During the video, I visiulised and told him "I love you and I'm grateful for you being my father and I know you always love me and give me power, but I have had suffered enough for your absence in my everyday life, I have a whole life that I want to live for myself and I can't have it unless stop waiting for you to make me your little princess again, so I am letting go of my this attachment and expectation for my life, and I will start live my life, even you'd not here for me all the time. I love you."

[akhyarrayhka]

chasing chased them away ive learned this the hard way

[Omgiamsotriggered]

You hit the spot on with projecting. I thought I fell in love with this one girl, I became obssesed with her. I spent all day everyday just texting her and waiting for her to text me back like some puppy. I made her something completily else in my head than what she was, and ofcourse as you can imagine, she broke things off. After few months after everything settled I realised I didnt even like her like that, I liked the idea of her in my head, and I formed some type of anxious attachment behaviour. Obviously getting "over her" wasnt even that hard because I really quickly realised what I was doing to myself. I guess I really wanted to live in my own fantasy that I created this weak energy that she felt, I really dont blame her for anything, its understandable. What I can say tho is I learned ALOT about myself.

[BenjaminBlueforever]

This video hit hard for me. My current issue with chasing someone for the last year and I'm working toward breaking out of it. Thank you.

[Tetnutz]

sure do this, just don't become avoidant. By avoiding, we protect ourselves from hurt—but in the end, we also end up losing what we longed for most. (coming from someone who had an avoidant attachment style)

[Kundalearni]

Absolutely spot on. Letting go is one of the most important things you can do in your life. Conscious inaction can allow your higher self to come through to guide your true path. 🧡🙏🧡

[BennificialFactor]

God is about to bless me with the ultimate devine union this month. New love that is truely for me, and will help me grow, heal, and be more abundant then ever before. So be it.

[PraisebetoGod]

This hit hard… I’m 44 and my wife passed from cancer 6 months ago, we were soulmates and I’ve been struggling so badly and this video really helped me see the mistakes I made with her from childhood trauma. I don’t want to make the same mistakes again but yet i find myself trying to fill a void that I feel inside. My relationship with God is the only thing that has saved me and it’s still a daily battle between my fleshly desires and my spirit. Great information very accurate and true.