How I Knew My Husband Was 'THE ONE'

How did I know my husband was THE ONE? Is there such thing as "the one"? Choosing someone to spend your life with is one of the most significant and consequential decisions a person will make - and it's one that should be made with wisdom and discernment.

In this video, I'm sharing some of the practical factors that helped me to know my husband was the one God had for me while we were dating and in that process of discernment. I'm also sharing some encouragement for those in this discernment process that might be different than what you're used to hearing. 🤍

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“I have found the one whom my soul loves." | Song of Solomon 3:4

[kacinicole]

If you are married, how did you know your spouse was the one? If you are single, what is one of the most important qualities you are looking for in a spouse? 🤍

[SimplyLivingInFaith]

He must be a born again Christian, man that prays, be a Godly leader, have a servant's heart, provider, protector ! Spiritual protector as well.

[Beforethethrone]

It’s easy to say “I knew he was the one“ when they actually become the one. But when you are so convinced they are the one, and they don’t turn out to be the one, then when you think someone new will be the one, doubts come in. That’s why we have to trust Gods plan and not go on our hearts whims

[soniaperez]

I had doubts in the months leading up to our wedding, during our engagement. When i tried to discuss with my husband though he said that in God's eyes we are already married since we are engaged.

[traceegadson]

I really enjoyed this video. The link for Still Single Devotional isn't working. Is there another way to find this devotional?

[robingreen]

I have been promised marriage several times by fake Christian men. Most recently ghosted abruptly on Easter Sunday. I am having a really hard time being older and unmarried at my church. It is very hard to keep hope. I don't know why this is a desire of my heart if it seems like it will never happen. I love the Lord and am waiting not so patiently anymore. It has been over 14 years. Please pray for me.

[eujmrgp]

Please pray for me Katarina, thanks, God bless you ...who is my kingdom husband ?

[richasinha]

Love for people, and a genuine heart are the two qualities that stood out for me

[lisar]

One quality I am looking for in a spouse is humility

[kaitlync.]

I love learning why people chose to marry their husbands- Thank you for sharing 😊 Also read your Still Single Devotional which was awesome!

[hannahcree]

What a beautiful question! I would definitely say the moment I knew that he was The One was when I realized the depth of love that I have and feel for Jesus is the depth of the love that I have and feel towards my husband. In everything he says and everything he does, he reminds me more of God, of the promises of God, of the peace and love and joy that can only be found in Christ. That’s how I knew he was the One. I have two beautiful Godly step-children and we are now expecting our first baby in December.

[Yesica]

I watched your single content in the past. Sounds like you got yourself a good guy. I'm glad for you!

[AH-cwdq]

I knew my husband was “the one” pretty much when we met his freshman year of college. I had transferred to the university the year before so I was a sophomore technically. I had heard about him in the campus ministry we were both involved with, my friend and I saw him on campus and I introduced myself (which is very abnormal), I thought he was a cutie and he really knew the Bible which was just so attractive to me as a newer Christian. We became friends at the end of 2019, went on a mission together, evangelized to Mormon missionaries together every week from October to January (and during that time I would show him movies that I liked he had never seen before) and I really wanted to know the Bible like he did. He had recommended a pastor to me, Voddie Baucham, and I read his book “what he must be” and I just thought of him the entire time. I began to pray about it around late January-early February and asked God that, if it was His will that we should be together, then he would be the one to really make that first move. We started dating by February 20, 2021, got engaged September 19, 2021 and got married March 18, 2022.

[feliciaquast]

The most IMPORTANT quality I look for in a man is not only that he loves the Lord, but he will also love me as Christ loves His church! And what that includes is him communicating with me, him respecting me as a woman of God, and loving me for my spirit, and vise versa. ❤️🙌🏻

[jamesmartin]

I'm 32 and serve my church in a pastoral role. I was engaged to be married but the engagement ended suddenly. As soon as some members of the church learned this they immediately went to asking when im going to date again, even going to the extreme of signing me up for a singles ministry without telling me. One parishioner offered hjs granddaughter as a potential partner. Im simply praying that God sees me through this season and eventually will provide a spouse, and even if He doesn't then at least His will is being accomplished

[KimberlyLovesJesus-]

I have met this amazing guy, I always struggled with overthinking when things seem too good to be true. It breaks my heart because I don’t want to ruin what I have with him because of my insecurity, without a doubt I know this man is centered in Christ and absolutely loves me, it was reassuring to know that big decisions as these can spark doubt, but I really wanted to make sure I was in God’s will

[em]

The most important quality in a potential husband is his capacity to love -- God and me.

I just wanted to drop a note and tell you how much your videos speak to me after just discovering your channel. I'm older than you are (!) and have gone through a traumatic divorce/marriage abandonment after years of standing and praying for him and marriage restoration. Now I have met a man at church who I believe God has been putting me together with. We really like each other and some amazing things are happening, but we are just taking it one step at a time right now. I've been seeking the Lord on it and so far, so good. ❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽

[salomef]

For me it´s that he doesn´t minimize my feelings or what´s important for me and also that he always has God in mind, for example when he has to make decisions. And of course, his time with God has to be his no negociable.

[chichielem]

Thanks for Sharing Kaci!!
A top quality for me is definitely someone who is truly God fearing. Not just by words but by action too.

[karensandoval]

I look for the humility to allow God to lead them through and especially by allowing Godly council in, and most importantly through God’s word and prayer. All else seems to come after that.