How To Stop Being A People Pleaser & Become Secure In Yourself

The ability to confront someone on their bullshit is an important life skill to develop. Learn how to stand up for yourself and not be a door mat as this is detrimental to yourself and others.

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[Kage]

"Your need for acceptance can make you invisible in this world "
-Jim Carrey

[loner__-]

7:50 so true… an incredible misunderstanding. Real spirituality is not about being “nice” at all. That’s spiritual ego fakeness, not real goodness.
Vernon Howard talks broke a lot of that misunderstanding for me, would recommend to anyone.

[LosChudos]

For me personally that was one of the most important take out from the episode, thanks for the upload

[federico]

Awesome advice!
Closely tied to this are the fears of other people's opinions, judgements, rejections etc.
These are what keeps us from speaking our minds, doing what we really want in life, enforcing our boundaries and so forth.
Some of the most important tasks in life is to overcome these fears and free ourselves from this slavery.

[DaeSayuki]

This video is me and im taking responsibility for my own weaknesses now. Im seeing a psychologist tomorrow and starting meditation, mindfulness today.

[debwhite]

This clip is really important. The more developed you yourself become, the more you grow, and then the more naturally compassionate you become towards others . You also begin for the first time to clearly see where other people also are in their development too. There is then a tendency to ‘let people off’, as you know now by their behaviour that they are possibly really struggling and probably living hellish lives, or why else would they behave as they do. However, the compassion that you have developed needs to be extended also to yourself, and it becomes even more important than ever to maintain good boundaries if you are not to become a doormat, and to be exploited by those same people . It’s a very delicate balance between being kind to others obviously, and understanding where they are at, but also being kind to yourself, and you must never forget that.

[cloudryder]

It's not about being nice. It's about being real.

[tommydawson]

Yeeeeah BUT EVEN BEING POLITE WHEN CONFRONTING people they sometimes know they are annoying you and they do it again later, so its crazy but sometimes its better maybe to Manifest it being over, with our thoughts, Law of attraction stuff.

[AmitZr]

This one is so important. This is Love.

[andreasgraner]

This is probably one of the the key lessons for moving from stage green to stage yellow (maybe also blue to orange). Relearning orange strengths in a more mature way.

[kuyachrischannel]

what to do if you want to confront/talk somebody but they are not openly to discuss the problem??? thank you

[bloxxastro]

I still don't understand how can i build the courage to confront people

[michaelfeddema]

It’s only bs if it’s fact against opinion or else it’s just opinion against opinion. So what if you’re confronting someone who is very successful and 98% factual based?

[samrt-boro]

Leo what is highest love? One time you say there is no evil, other time you say stoping evil is the highest love. I'm confused.

[tomasjanik]

Should I point out the bulshit of others I would embarass them badly and it would even make me feel bad.

[hundo]

Confront but in nice way. You are cool.😡

[ogehpvh]

And let's not forget we're partly devils ourselves. So be glad to be confronted too! That's vulnerability.