10 Signs Someone is Losing Interest in You

#losinginterest #love #psych2go

Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script editor: Rida Batool
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Intella
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[Psychgo]

Hey Psych2Go fam! Is someone on your mind right now? Does any of these signs describe them? Comment below!

[marouabenrahal]

As an overthinker i shouldn’t be watching this
Edit : mom im a famous overthinker now

[charmainedeguzman]

The fact that i'm here means i'm already experiencing it. *sighs*

[icjltgo]

That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *brian hacks online*

[vijayingle]

The efficiency of this *Brian hacks online* is next level. To juggle walk throughs of various angles on the topic delivered to-camera, differnet content per topic from various folks underneath the umbrella of the track list of the larger big band concert itself is engaging and refined. To make a dense taccess like this so digestible is really something. Awesome work Brian!!

[QuestionEverythingButWHY]

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
― Ernest Hemingway

[simplyella]

“Being in a relationship is like giving them a gun and they point in and your heart and your trusting them not to pull the trigger.”

[dustyy]

nothing hurts more than when you can feel someone you love losing interest in you :(

[surest.charpota]

I wish there was more people like you to stop all these cheaters, they need serious jail time for that, especially when they take money from you in the relationship, keep doing what your doing *Johnsonspy* on the internet put the wind up these low life oxygen thieves. Love what you guys do keep up the Great work mate well done respect....

[damianfemic]

these videos really do be coming out when you need them most😭😭

[Boutscar]

1. They talk to you less
2. They start act differently around you
3. They don’t reach out anymore
4. They stop asking questions
5. They’re no longer responsive
6. They stop making an effort
7. They cancel and make excuses
8. They make other plans
9. They prioritise other people
10. They found someone else

[RyGil]

You know there’s a usual pattern with people who do this. When you confront them about how you feel or what’s going on, there’s usually a form of gaslighting that they do, making it seem like YOURE the one that fell too hard, when nine times out of ten, they’re usually the ones who initiate or lavish on you to the point where you get attached. It’s insane.

[aarush]

My gf was loosing interest. We were in LDR. Our relationship was getting boring. We didn't had stuff to talk about. So, I thought of playing games with her to make thing interesting again. Played a questions game for couples "Lovify". And, it turned out to be a really fun game. Who thought asking questions would be fun. Enjoyed some funny and some serious questions. Now, we are good. Hope, we get married soon 💞

[gamingpurpose]

The most painful part about this is that it just happens suddenly. Even though you feel like you did everything right. It's disgusting and sad at the same time.

[diogopereira]

This is the romantic cycle nowadays of people, find someone, get interested, hook up, get bored and uninterested, leave for another, repeat..

[cameronpavelic]

For anyone experiencing number 5, DONT GET ANGRY! Too many times in my 20s did I take being ignored way too personally, and every time I lost my patience and sent a passive aggressive text to draw attention to me being ignored. DONT! If they’re starting to leave you on read, keep your dignity and move on or let them chase you. Otherwise, you’re only validating their loss of interest toward you and making yourself look a whole lot less desirable.

[qhhgszz]

To anyone here experiencing this, it gets better. Just keep working on yourself and self love goes a long way sooner or later you'll find someone that will reciprocate your feelings

[wisdom-for-all]

Prefer not to say a relationship is over, say it is “complete”. Some relationships are not meant to last forever. Do not worry because it is over; Smile because it happened. Also, sometimes 2 people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together 🖖

[clhlhtw]

I've been convincing myself for the past days that he's just busy... and now it's clear. Literally crying rn

[reyhanakar]

As a Retired combat Marine I want to tell you that as what you are doing is just as important as any warrior on the battlefield. You are waging warfare against cheater on the digital battlefield. You are defending and protecting the most vulnerable of our society against these predators and cheaters. Keep up the good work *Johnsonspy* .