3 Things I Wish I Knew About Healing From A Breakup

[Your_fav_blondie]

“Boys are supposed to ruin your lipstick not your mascara”- Marilyn Monroe

[MSGLO]

I agree. You have to go through the pain in order to heal. It hurts like crazy at first but you will get through it

[SarahBill-ptlh]

With a heart full of joy I appreciate Dr Oluwaseun for bringing back my relationship now am happily married to my husband

[Kelly-hmyo]

Dr Oluwaseun i had really lost all hope thank you so much for your help my partner has finally returned back to me just like you said he would i really can't thank you enough my family and home is finally at peace he shows me so much love and affection than ever before i really appreciate you

[charitymichea]

I really appreciate Dr Oluwaseun for restoring back peace into my family, now i and my Husband are living happily together..

[marbelyslopez]

Going through it right now... just happened a couple of hours ago. I ve been with him since I was 14 I am now 27 and this feels like the biggest rip out of my chest because he's my best friend and I don't know how to heal from this I am stuck..

[wangcheng]

Excellent video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[autumnthelight]

I just needed to hear this. The breakup was horrible for us both, yet he got into another relationship a month after. It’s been 2 years. I’m just now at a happy place in my life. No dating, no side person, just pure growth. Today I can finally say I’m proud of myself!

[ashleyamora]

Heavy on the cutting ALL mutual
ties!

[itumelengbelindasehlangu]

I totally agree, do not pretend to be okay when your not okay, allow yourself to feel everything and I mean everything, the pain, the crying, the anxiety, the wish you could go back and everything and ever yday it gets easier and it starts to fade

[christinamartinez]

There's nothing worse than being with the wrong man. I got counseling after my breakup, and he triggered abandonment issues. Counseling helped me see it really wasn't him I was hurting behind. He sold me a dream. It was over two years ago and he was my next-door neighbor. He got evicted five months ago and had to move, thankfully. Don't settle for any man who doesn't bring peace and joy into your life. ❤🙏

[jkv]

exactly, distracting yourself and pretending you don't feel is just going to make it worse. at least for me it did make it worse. so I chose to be mature and let my emotions go free. I acknowledged the heart break, and I honestly healed pretty fast after that. trying unhealthy ways to cope, especially pretending something never happened made the situation worse for me.

[allieharmon]

15 months. Still think about him everyday knowing he doesn't give a damn! Miss his family too. I feel like I'll never be vulnerable again. Regret it so much

[HyunjinsHairTie]

she’s like the big sister i never had 🥹❤️

[a.ikoboyok]

Got cheated multiple times. Had a child with him. I keep forgiving him without him asking for forgiveness. Verbally abused me, my family, and my relatives. Still, I stayed with him. I was bonded to this guy. I couldn't think right. I told myself I would never find any man like him. Finally, I had to call off two days ago. I am currently hurting. I don't know what to do. I have been calling God to take the pain out.

[aniriex]

I'm in the middle of one too. It's complicated and nasty, because he literally can't wrap his mind around the idea that I'm actually leaving. We had been together for almost 6 years now. And I feel so lost rn, almost like someone ripped out a huge part of me, and now It's just void and loneliness. To make things worse, I have no friends and my only source of support is my lil sis. I wish all of us in the comment section could come together and be each other's support systems because I would really appreciate having one in my life especially now

[applefarm]

And going to God about it also helped me. God loves you and nothing in all creation can separate you from that. Romans 8:38-39. You can cast all your anxieties onto God because He cares about you. 1 Peter 5:6-7. ✝️

[suavemente]

Thank you. I was the one wrong in the relationship causing her to break up and completely distance. It is hard waking up everyday. Existing breathing thinking without my bestfriend. I have some codependency and trauma, addictions that damaged her and I’m learning to heal and let her go. I wish I had treated her better and I pray for forgiveness from her and god. I wish her the best and I regret it everyday that I wake up. Her father passed recently and I just wish I knew she’s okay. And to talk to her again. The feeling felt almost unbearable just getting sober today and not drinking the pain away. I wish all of you Love, peace and happiness 💛

[Maddie]

And know that this too shall pass and you’ll be a better stronger person because of it

[agentj]

3. Is what I’m here for. Cutting off all ties to that person is hard. But it has to be done.