How To Discipline Your Teenager For Lying

Teenagers often get into the habit of lying. Although some of them can stop it over time, for others, this can get worse and out of their control. In this video, I'll teach you how to discipline your teenager for lying using simple but effective methods!

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Nicholeen Peck
Teaching Self-Government

Key Moments in this Episode
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00:00 Intro & Summary
01:48 Why Teenagers Lie
04:05 What To Consider When Teenagers Lie
07:25 How To Create A Good Relationship With Your Teen
09:15 How To Discipline Lying Teenagers
10:41 How To Accept "No" Answers & Criticism
14:05 How To Stop Yourself From Lying
16:04 Learn More With My Class

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* President of The Worldwide Organization for Women (WOW).
* Nicholeen regularly speaks at the United Nations and other congresses around the world as an advocate for strengthening families and motherhood.
* In 2009 her family was featured on the BBC reality show, “The World’s Strictest Parents.
* Trained as a foster parent for Utah Youth Village.
* Has parented many troubled foster children.
* Successfully raised (and raising) four children of her own.

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[ImpulsoCreativo]

Thanks for validating the fact that they will have to be treated as liars even if sometimes it wasnt a lie. Makes me feel validated.

[ClaudiaHelmkeMiller]

Oh Nicoleen! I wish I could have you come to my house to help me work with my 12 year old only daughter! Sometimes when I feel upset, it’s so hard to be rational. Is it ok to take time before coming back to deal with the hard stuff? How can we talk about lying when they won’t admit that they do it? Thank you for all your help! I today was able to talk about correction and praise and practice it with my daughter and it helped pull us out of a rut! Grateful for you 🙏😍

[maryannekendall]

At some point early on, it became more important to me to be honest, no matter the cost. This has made it difficult for me to understand and cope with my two out five children who lie - a lot! It has been hard not to take it personally sometimes, even when I know so much of it is about protecting themselves from my over-dramatization or the shame in them that my response has caused. I get to thinking that they do not take their actions seriously enough and so I, admittedly, over-dramatize my response because I want them to know what they did is no small thing. I am practicing not getting over dramatized but it feels so foreign and helpless so, I guess, in a way, my over-dramatization of the situation is just as much an attempt at controlling as the child's lying is their attempt at controlling. I suppose the ultimate trust must be, at least in our case as christians, to rely on the holy spirit to convict them. I do agree so much that the main objective is relationship. Kids do not care what you have to teach them if they don't feel that you care.

[jennyh]

I've watched your videos over the years, and when I watched this one, I noticed you have lost a bit of weight. You always looked great and still do!

[missylackraj]

I just found out that my 11 year old has a boyfriend..I saw all the messages back and forth even messages in other chats and she denies that it is her...the proof is there but she says it's a friend that is using her discord account....apparently this boyfriend calls the other girl my child's name too... my daughter just won't admit to it and I need help to understand what is going on..please help

[magdix]

Amazing thank youcant watch next videos!!! God bless

[vernaharris]

Beautiful lady, you are truly an angel.😀 Thank you for sharing these videos.
Bless you.❤🙏❤

[unlpiccolo]

Will this work for a younger child as well? (7 or 9)

[joblow]

So discipline them with skill building exercises. 😅 Bwahahaha!

[amybussells]

How help a teenager with alcohol or drug addiction

[amymonson]

Oh my goodness! Thank you so much! This makes so much sense and is very helpful!

[JimPowellS]

Do you ever exercise a discipline/punishment when a child lies? It seems reasonable to assume if a child only gets a verbal reprimand when caught in a lie they will continue to use lying as a means to get out of trouble. I know this seems at odds with establishing a however so what is the solution if they continue to lie about everything?

[teresaguffey]

Some great questions.. why no answers though?

[jodipirelli]

I know I agree with the first comment I wish I could’ve had you come to my house to help me learn how to parents because I am emotional about it because I was married to my husband for 30 years we were together for 36 years. my husband passed away in March 2022, but in March 2019 we adopted my goddaughter his biological granddaughter, because the father help me to suicide and mother was on drugs, and so the plan was that department of children and families would place the girl with us, and we would raise her and she did great, I don’t know whether it’s the loss of my husband because she claims that she’s fine or it’s teenage years where she really just doesn’t give a crap but everything is I forgot I don’t know she’s forgetful she lies but yet she can get straight A’s if she really tries if she tries to do too much all at one time she forgets to turn assignments in and then she’ll get an F I’m just off the chart over the top lost. I climbed up the hill with my husband and we were doing great since he passed away. I’ve been sliding down that hill heading for the tree since March 2022 and it’s not getting any easier so I’m doing this Free self government podcast that you have for me and I could use some help about widows, parenting children and trying to juggle and balance house and driving back-and-forth to school for school choice and running a business etc. etc. anyways, this is a story all about me now that I’ve made it that way, but I could really use some advice

[amybussells]

How help a teenager with bipolar disorder

[kaylanunn]

Can you help me not lie to my boyfriend