Parenting Teens- 3 Keys for Dealing with Your Teenager’s Disrespectful Behavior

Are you constantly battling with your teenager over simple tasks like having them clean their room, or do their homework, or get off their phone for more than 5 minutes? You ask them to do one tiny thing that they already should be doing, and they give you attitude and push back. You take away their phone and eventually they finally do what you ask, but the whole cycle repeats itself over and over.

If this sounds like you and your teenager, this video is definitely for you!
The first thing we as parents have to understand is where our teenager’s disrespect is really coming from. Disrespect equals disconnection and disconnection is the absence of the three elements that create connection, which are empathy, curiosity & vulnerability.
We have to ask ourselves what we are doing every day to nurture our heart-to-heart connection with our teen.

When you work on developing that heart-to-heart connection….which means that your teenager feels heard, seen and valued…..the disrespect will dissipate. It will no longer be an issue! Imagine that for a moment…..that’s exactly what you want, for there to be peace in your home, for your relationship with your teenager to be stronger, deeper, actually enjoyable, right?
This video gives you the 3 keys needed to build and foster your connection with your teenager.

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[tggicpm]

Sometimes, parents do everything they can right. This generation of children is very challenging due to numerous influences that are beyond their parents' control

[cyp]

there is really a culture of rebellious difficult teenagers, no matter how you try to give your world to them, they constantly glued on their phones, social medias, influence by friends etc, hormonal, they do not see the sacrifices of their parents,

[MsLotusflowers]

I try my best to be a good parent, I always talk with my son definitely had a connection however the disrespect is on 10000 and if I take his electronics the disrespect never stops so this can’t be all true, because these teens today are so disrespectful and shallow their love for you the parent is purely based on what you can do for them once that’s gone, nothing there but disrespect

[soqilcj]

I believe phones/devices have corrupted normal teen behaviors across the globe...social isolation, lack of respect sp to their own parents, failing grades, chit chatting with people they have no clue about thinking those strangers are their besties etc etc

[Starsunshine]

Sometimes enough is enough. Let them experience life the hard way.

[angelagutierrez]

I feel like these days, we parents have to beg for love and respect. All this thanks to all the freedom and ideas that society have allowed them to believe that nothing matters but themselves. With all these ideas they forget that parents deserve respect and understanding.

[Joemight]

Whats up everyone my name is Jason and I am the guy who suggested that you upload this video I’m 15 years old and I actually requested that she upload this video I’ve seen guys my age get out of control and I just want parents to see this

[Outlander]

There’s two types of rebellion. Reasonable and non reasonable. Non reasonable rebellion is usually related to being cool

[tigerable]

It’s because kids feel entitled and it’s all about them. They need to learn to respect their parents like we respected ours when we were growing up.

[shanie__]

I dont even have a child but my baby sister got me watching these parenting videos. 😭

[Torbis]

One of the most disruptive things that has caused problems with teens in a family is the screen.

[chadfeathers]

I read this awhile ago. We put our kids before ourselves. Devaluation of our own relationship as parents. They can't handle any responsibility. Kids are actually drunk with entitlement. It makes total sense.

[mivahp]

"Everybody is disrespectful until they get punched in the mouth"

_Mike Tyson_

[shaygold]

We living in new era where kids ABUSE parents and no one speaks about it every one is thinking how to help teenager while parents are the victims!!!

[joanndeck]

Relationships take TWO HUMANS…..if they don’t want to behave with morals and values then I’m not playing along….I’m removing myself from ANY abusive behaviour. Kids nowadays have too much coddling and no responsibility and accountability. How about they live a life without someone in their corner…and see how it is! Pretty simple….need to RESPECT THEIR ELDERS and society, even you lady, need to stop with these “strategies” and mind games, and start emphasizing what the TEENS should be doing. Society and schools are out of control and EVERYONE is afraid to put their foot down….support the ADULTS for

[valeriechaplin]

I left a negative comment here.. My child and I connected through this method. I came back to thank you and tell you this worked. ❤

[lindsay]

My daughter is sooo respectful towards me and her father and everyone else it’s definitely something I’m super proud of!

[ValleyFeast]

Currently, my oldest daughter is 17 and is going to be 18 in March. She's trying to figure herself out and see who her true friends are. While doing so, she clinged on to a friend who now has become an unwelcome guest due to her choices. I have other children and can not have certain things around them. So, as soon as I told my oldest daughter, her friend was not welcomed now, she wanted to be with her 24/7 and try to protect her because she was kicked out of her home possibly. Now my daughter wants to try to stay with her at all times because she feels bad, which is putting a wedge in between us. She wants us to magically take her fifteen-year-old friend in which, by law, I can't. So now, because I won't do what she wants, she is upset. It's not our job to have our kids love us all the time it's our job to protect them. Some kids just need to grow up, and if they can't grow up and see the truth, then it's on them. Parents that truly try and do everything for the kids, like myself, try to keep searching for that answer to make them happy but in reality they need to make themselves happy and figure out what they truly want.

[Heather-xmul]

The problem Im having is that the kid SUDDENLY began this crap. There have been no observable changes in our family behavior, keeping the kids around and sharing things and interests. Within the last week, our older one has suddenly decided that even the most basic expectations are some sort of cruelty towards him.

[andybraid]

None of this works if the teen only thinks of themselves they have no understanding of themselves. Being vulnurable with your kids or asking them coaching questions gives them anxiety. Love and care all you want some teens just want to see the world burn and they don't know why. You must set boundries and remove them from harmful places and behaviours. Allowing them to fail is not safe.